[X&Y Emily] "What If I Want Children And He Doesn't?" (Or Vice-Versa)
Published: Sat, 04/05/25
Updated: Tue, 04/08/25
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IN THIS EDITION: OK, here's a GREAT
question that I'm sure crosses every woman's
mind once in a while. And I've got a surprising
answer to go with it!
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to get your online mojo working.
That way, once the dust clears you'll be ready to meet exactly
the kind of man who will adore you and treasure you.
My system for meeting high quality men online has been proven
time and time again, and I receive success stories from women
all over the world to prove it.
Why not finally put Click With Him to work for you?
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I'll leave the 50% off promo open for the next 48 hours only,
so don't delay.
You don't need a coupon code or anything. You'll see the
discount automatically reflected on the order page.
And now, let's hear from Hope in Montreal, Quebec...
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"WHAT IF I WANT CHILDREN AND HE DOESN'T?" (OR
VICE-VERSA)
Dear Emily,
My name is Hope. I have a quick question. I believe you gave the
advice that men find femininity attractive, including motherly
qualities.
The problem is having children is not a major goal for me. Unlike
most women I'm not worried about my biological clock, although I am
young so I don't need to worry so much about my biological clock.
Are the only quality men the ones who expect their wives to have
children? Or vice versa...to be a quality woman must I want to have
children?
Sincerely,
Hope (Montreal, Quebec)
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Hello Hope:
Alright! Now THERE'S a question I don't get asked every day. And
it's a REALLY good one, isn't it?
Here's my take on it.
For starters, there's no doubt that since masculinity and femininity
are the basic building blocks of sexual polarity, and therefore
sexual attraction, masculine guys are naturally attracted to
feminine women.
It's like a magnetic effect.
So is stands to reason that if you are turned on by masculinity,
being a feminine woman will bring you great success.
And I'd also say that having a strong maternal instinct, perhaps
demonstrated by a love of children and/or caring for them, is
decidedly NOT going to be a turn-OFF for most men, per se.
But having made the two points above, I want to clarify a few things
that I think are VERY, VERY important to grasp.
First, having motherhood qualities is NOT necessarily synonymous
with femininity.
I think it's only one possible component of many possible ways for a
woman to express herself in a manner that's attractive to MOTOS
(Members Of The Other Sex).
Just like chocolate is really yummy, it's far from the ONLY
delicious treat on Earth.
OK, maybe that's not the best analogy...but you get my point! :->
Next, I would say that most men ARE probably suspect of a woman who
blatantly shows a strong disdain for children. That would probably
be a red flag.
Then again, though, aren't you just slightly suspect of GUYS who
really dislike little ones, also?
Ultimately, however, I don't at all believe that you HAVE to be all
about filling the house with the pitter-patter of "little feet".
Honestly, I think whether that's important to a man in and of itself
all comes down to personal PREFERENCE.
That's right, that means that it's all a matter of COMPATIBILITY.
If a man you meet would LOVE to have kids someday, and he sees you
as a great potential mommy for his children, that's a REALLY GOOD
thing.
But hey, if he isn't so into having kids, then watching you get a
little dreamy-eyed every time you see a little one in a cute Gymboree
outfit might send him packing!
But that's what makes the world go 'round. Some of us want kids,
some of us don't.
The trick is for the right ones of us to FIND EACH OTHER.
So if you aren't about makin' babies just yet (or ever), definitely
be 100% woman and appreciate a great guy when he deserves it...and
rest assured you'll find him.
And hey...you won't have "mother" HIM either. Appreciating him
and mothering him aren't exactly the same thing. And really...
MOST guys really AREN'T looking for another "Mommy", I promise
you.
After all, have you ever tried being a "mother" and a "lover" to
the same person? It's really kind of impossible, isn't it?
And to you mamas (or someday-mamas) out there, there are TONS of
guys who are ready to start a family and/or accept you along with
the kids you already have.
It's true!
Each of us is unique, and that's what makes life--and love--so
cool.
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As I've always said online dating can be an absolute
BONANZA for us as women...but you've got to "know the ropes",
or else you'll probably not attract the right man.
Right now I've re-activated that popular special promo that
gives you my Click With Him program for a full 50% off:
https://www.clickwithhim.com/50off
Yes, spring is here and even though most of us are practicing
social distancing these days, that gives you PLENTY of time
to get your online mojo working.
That way, once the dust clears you'll be ready to meet exactly
the kind of man who will adore you and treasure you.
My system for meeting high quality men online has been proven
time and time again, and I receive success stories from women
all over the world to prove it.
Why not finally put Click With Him to work for you?
https://www.clickwithhim.com/50off
I'll leave the 50% off promo open for the next 48 hours only,
so don't delay.
You don't need a coupon code or anything. You'll see the
discount automatically reflected on the order page.
And now, let's hear from Hope in Montreal, Quebec...
=====
"WHAT IF I WANT CHILDREN AND HE DOESN'T?" (OR
VICE-VERSA)
Dear Emily,
My name is Hope. I have a quick question. I believe you gave the
advice that men find femininity attractive, including motherly
qualities.
The problem is having children is not a major goal for me. Unlike
most women I'm not worried about my biological clock, although I am
young so I don't need to worry so much about my biological clock.
Are the only quality men the ones who expect their wives to have
children? Or vice versa...to be a quality woman must I want to have
children?
Sincerely,
Hope (Montreal, Quebec)
=====
Hello Hope:
Alright! Now THERE'S a question I don't get asked every day. And
it's a REALLY good one, isn't it?
Here's my take on it.
For starters, there's no doubt that since masculinity and femininity
are the basic building blocks of sexual polarity, and therefore
sexual attraction, masculine guys are naturally attracted to
feminine women.
It's like a magnetic effect.
So is stands to reason that if you are turned on by masculinity,
being a feminine woman will bring you great success.
And I'd also say that having a strong maternal instinct, perhaps
demonstrated by a love of children and/or caring for them, is
decidedly NOT going to be a turn-OFF for most men, per se.
But having made the two points above, I want to clarify a few things
that I think are VERY, VERY important to grasp.
First, having motherhood qualities is NOT necessarily synonymous
with femininity.
I think it's only one possible component of many possible ways for a
woman to express herself in a manner that's attractive to MOTOS
(Members Of The Other Sex).
Just like chocolate is really yummy, it's far from the ONLY
delicious treat on Earth.
OK, maybe that's not the best analogy...but you get my point! :->
Next, I would say that most men ARE probably suspect of a woman who
blatantly shows a strong disdain for children. That would probably
be a red flag.
Then again, though, aren't you just slightly suspect of GUYS who
really dislike little ones, also?
Ultimately, however, I don't at all believe that you HAVE to be all
about filling the house with the pitter-patter of "little feet".
Honestly, I think whether that's important to a man in and of itself
all comes down to personal PREFERENCE.
That's right, that means that it's all a matter of COMPATIBILITY.
If a man you meet would LOVE to have kids someday, and he sees you
as a great potential mommy for his children, that's a REALLY GOOD
thing.
But hey, if he isn't so into having kids, then watching you get a
little dreamy-eyed every time you see a little one in a cute Gymboree
outfit might send him packing!
But that's what makes the world go 'round. Some of us want kids,
some of us don't.
The trick is for the right ones of us to FIND EACH OTHER.
So if you aren't about makin' babies just yet (or ever), definitely
be 100% woman and appreciate a great guy when he deserves it...and
rest assured you'll find him.
And hey...you won't have "mother" HIM either. Appreciating him
and mothering him aren't exactly the same thing. And really...
MOST guys really AREN'T looking for another "Mommy", I promise
you.
After all, have you ever tried being a "mother" and a "lover" to
the same person? It's really kind of impossible, isn't it?
And to you mamas (or someday-mamas) out there, there are TONS of
guys who are ready to start a family and/or accept you along with
the kids you already have.
It's true!
Each of us is unique, and that's what makes life--and love--so
cool.
=====
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