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WHAT'S INSIDE:  All too many women "play it safe" in life,
especially when it comes to relationships.  But the problem
is that "playing it safe" can actually be dangerous!

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EVER HEARD OF THE "DESIRE BOMBSHELL"?


Probably not, but you will.

It's A NEW, tantalizing and intriguing way to make THE man you want
take notice of you.

Better yet, it makes him think about you NON-STOP...needing to
build his life around you.

No matter which guy you drop the "Desire Bombshell" on, he'll see
you as an exquisite, beautiful treasure...and he'll crave being
near you every waking moment.

It works even if you're just friends (for now).

...Even if there's no romantic interest on his part.

The only way to truly ignite a man's interest is to keep him
wanting more:

...Wanting to know you MORE deeply;

...Wanting to feel MORE of what he feels when he's with you,

...Believing that life with you holds MORE fulfillment

Every man truly desires a woman who has that effect on him.

That's what makes a man crazy about a woman.

Men actually WANT to be obsessed to the point of rhapsodic
adoration for a woman. They want to be with a woman who has that
"certain something."

And they may not fully know what that "certain something" is, but
we do:  It's feminine mystery:



Feminine Mystery: Revealed!



I agree with my friend Mimi when she says there's a far deeper
understanding of this "feminine mystery" that only a FEW woman
truly have.

But when you HAVE that understanding, you can have an intoxicating
effect on the man you want the most:



Click Here To Discover



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THE SCARIEST WORD WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS
 

Risk.

It's the scariest word in the world to many women, especially
when we're talking about understanding and relating to men.

But truly, we take risks every day in other areas of life.  Some
are by choice and others are by necessity. 

For example:  You drive your car because you have to be somewhere
important; the risk is there maybe a serious accident, but you
take that risk out of necessity. 

You may choose to have your hair colored, risking that there may
be a bad reaction to the chemicals.  But you take that risk by
choice.

However, the most compelling dilemma is when we know a different
path than the one we are on is good for us, yet we fail to take the
risk of making the change because we are frozen by fear. 

There's a shoe factory I know of with a number of employees who
have been there ten, twenty or even thirty years making barely
more than minimum wage doing the same thing over and over again,
day after day. 

The thought of changing jobs--and any potential "risk" associated
with that change--is to frightening that the so called warm, safe,
status quo paralyzes them. 

So they stay, thinking that it's better than nothing--or at least
the lesser of the two evils.

Does this sound familiar?

So many women do the same in their dating lives.

The guy they are dating or interested in is better than nothing,
even though they are not happy with him or the relationship and
most definitely not in a blissful state of life. 

Or perhaps there may be a serious flaw in ourselves that we need
to change in order to attract someone great. 

But change is hard and therefore many choose to stay in the so-
called warm, safe, status quo feeling, even though they know they
won't get anywhere. 

How sad that the fear of change causes us to not take the necessary
risk to get want we want.

Ironically, many times making bad choices seems to feel like the
better option because it feels "safer".  

Hopefully we won't wake up 30 years from now wishing and thinking
"What if _______?"  By then it will be too late, life will have
passed you by leaving you with nothing to show for it. 

We have all met someone in our lifetime who has squandered his
or her life away, ending up bitter towards the world.

The way I always see it is like this:  "NEVER BEING BLISSFULLY
HAPPY IS WORSE THAN THE RISK ITSELF". 

This sample thought (of belief) is powerful enough to cause anyone
to take the necessary risk to get what one wants.  The pain and
work are so worth it. 

I know I have been down the road of pain, tears, break-ups and so
on, but I always knew that I was a step closer to having a blissful
relationship, which I have today. 

I am glad to have never settled for what was "ok", or "just
comfortable", but to made the necessary changes in my life to
arrive where I am today.

This newsletter is, and will always be, about how to have a
blissful life.

It's not just a dream. 

And it's not by accident that you get to be happy.  It takes risk,
solid decisions and a "call to action" on your part to make it
happen. 

Put that all together and you will
get there.

Isn't it time?  If so ask yourself these questions:



1. Do you want to be blissfully happy? 


2. Do you want to stay in a bad relationship instead of freeing
yourself to find the true Mr. Right?


3. Do both you and your partner want to make improvements to better
your bond to each other?


4. Does the thought of never getting the life you want frustrate
you?


5. Are you tired of men hurting you?  Is there a pattern of this
scenario repeating itself in your life?


6. Do you want a man to love and truly cherish you?


7. Do you wish you could get more men--or BETTER men--to take notice
of you?


8. Are you sick of taking second place to work, friends, video
games, porn, and/or whatever else it may be?  Wouldn't you rather be #1 in
your man's life?


9. Are you ready to get out there and have fun dating?


10. Do you fear being alone?  (This is a normal but major fear
for many women today.)



Ladies if you want a great relationship--the very best you can find,
then you have come to the right place. 

You have the POWER to make your LIFE what you want it to be. 

All of the dating advice books that I have read tend to talk
about life passively happening to you with no control on your part.
 

It's mostly all about suffering through singleness until you can get
some guy to marry you, or how to recover from damaging
relationships and fruitless chases after the wrong type of guys.

If you are like me, you just don't believe that feeling sorry for
yourself really helps much, except maybe for the very short term.

You have the power to make some simple changes that can make many
men want you who otherwise "would not be interested". 

It's about taking control of your life and making GREAT choices. 

I am glad you've subscribed to these newsletters because we will
touch base on many of these concerns. 

We'll continue to cover a lot of these issues in this space, but
there really is SO MUCH to cover when it comes to making our dating
lives GREAT...yet life is too short to continue being frustrated!

I want you to be successful in your personal life....do YOU?

Everyone should find the happiness they desire and the comfort of
knowing that you have a truly warm, fuzzy, secure life with your
partner.



 




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