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IN THIS EDITION: OK, here's a GREAT question that I'm sure crosses every woman's mind once in a while. And I've got a surprising answer to go with it!
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And now, let's hear from Hope in Montreal, Quebec...
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"WHAT IF I WANT CHILDREN AND HE DOESN'T?" (OR VICE-VERSA)
Dear Emily,
My name is Hope. I have a quick question. I believe you gave the advice that men find femininity attractive, including motherly qualities.
The problem is having children is not a major goal for me. Unlike most women I'm not worried about my biological clock, although I am young so I don't need to worry so much about my biological clock.
Are the only quality men the ones who expect their wives to have children? Or vice versa...to be a quality woman must I want to have children?
Sincerely,
Hope (Montreal, Quebec)
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Hello Hope:
Alright! Now THERE'S a question I don't get asked every day. And it's a REALLY good one, isn't it?
Here's my take on it.
For starters, there's no doubt that since masculinity and femininity are the basic building blocks of sexual polarity, and therefore sexual attraction, masculine guys are naturally attracted to feminine women.
It's like a magnetic effect.
So is stands to reason that if you are turned on by masculinity, being a feminine woman will bring you great success.
And I'd also say that having a strong maternal instinct, perhaps demonstrated by a love of children and/or caring for them, is decidedly NOT going to be a turn-OFF for most men, per se.
But having made the two points above, I want to clarify a few things that I think are VERY, VERY important to grasp.
First, having motherhood qualities is NOT necessarily synonymous with femininity.
I think it's only one possible component of many possible ways for a woman to express herself in a manner that's attractive to MOTOS (Members Of The Other Sex).
Just like chocolate is really yummy, it's far from the ONLY delicious treat on Earth.
OK, maybe that's not the best analogy...but you get my point! :->
Next, I would say that most men ARE probably suspect of a woman who blatantly shows a strong disdain for children. That would probably be a red flag.
Then again, though, aren't you just slightly suspect of GUYS who really dislike little ones, also?
Ultimately, however, I don't at all believe that you HAVE to be all about filling the house with the pitter-patter of "little feet".
Honestly, I think whether that's important to a man in and of itself all comes down to personal PREFERENCE.
That's right, that means that it's all a matter of COMPATIBILITY.
If a man you meet would LOVE to have kids someday, and he sees you as a great potential mommy for his children, that's a REALLY GOOD thing.
But hey, if he isn't so into having kids, then watching you get a little dreamy-eyed every time you see a little one in a cute Gymboree outfit might send him packing!
But that's what makes the world go 'round. Some of us want kids, some of us don't.
The trick is for the right ones of us to FIND EACH OTHER.
So if you aren't about makin' babies just yet (or ever), definitely be 100% woman and appreciate a great guy when he deserves it...and rest assured you'll find him.
And hey...you won't have "mother" HIM either. Appreciating him and mothering him aren't exactly the same thing. And really...MOST guys really AREN'T looking for another "Mommy", I promise you.
After all, have you ever tried being a "mother" and a "lover" to the same person? It's really kind of impossible, isn't it?
And to you mamas (or someday-mamas) out there, there are TONS of guys who are ready to start a family and/or accept you along with the kids you already have.
It's true!
Each of us is unique, and that's what makes life--and love--so cool.
Have Fun,
Emily McKay
X & Y Communications
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