[X&Y Emily] 5 "Secret" Ways To Look FABULOUS On A First Date
Published: Mon, 06/15/15
EMILY McKAY'S KEYS TO BLISS NEWSLETTER
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IN THIS EDITION: You want to look extra hot and sexy the first
time you're out with a potentially terrific man, right? Of
course you do! Scot has some "sneaky" ways to make it so!
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WHAT ABOUT THIS? IS HE YOUR DREAM GUY?
Is THIS kind of man the RIGHT kind of man...just as long as
he's the ONE MAN you truly adore and can't stop thinking about?
You be the judge...
(To be honest, I'M BESIDE MYSELF waiting to hear what you
think):
http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/desire
On pins and needles here...
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5 VIRTUALLY UNHEARD OF WAYS TO LOOK YOUR BEST ON A FIRST DATE
Hello Ladies. Scot here this time. Emily asked me to sort of
adapt a newsletter I wrote for my guys so that y'all could
benefit from it also.
And hey, every bit of what I wrote applied to women as well as
men (except for maybe the specific garments I talk about), so
I figured hey, what the heck?
So let's get on with it...
First off, I want to make it ABSOLUTELY CLEAR that regardless of
what you've heard, we gentlemen really do take notice when you've
made the effort to look your best...especially when you're meeting
us for the first time.
It's not that we're shallow, don't get me wrong.
Women appreciate a man who DOES THE BEST WITH WHAT HE'S GOT. They
always have, and always will. What I'm saying is that we're no
different
Why? Well, that would be because self-respect, confidence,
character and the sheer ability to master any situation (including
one's appearance) are traits that turn ALL OF US on, regardless
of gender.
Deep down I think we all know this, at least at a basic level.
For example, we guys know better than to skip the shower, throw on
a ketchup-stained wife-beater shirt and lose our comb before
heading out to spend quality time with a woman.
And most of us have already heard before that our shoes and our
belt ought to match, that we should wear something other than a
company-logo golf shirt, and that a small amount of Dolce & Gabbana
rocks a woman's house to the foundation.
Fill in the correlating women's example here as it relates to
what turns men on.
But what I've got for you today is something that will help you
take all of this to the NEXT LEVEL.
Read on, and gain an edge that some women will almost NEVER take
advantage of...unless they happen to be doing some of what I'm about
to share by MISTAKE.
Here, right before your very eyes, are five ways to make sure you
look your absolute best on a date...all of which are VIRTUALLY
UNHEARD OF:
1) SLEEP
Yeah, yeah. I know you work too hard and play too hard also. The
popular mantra nowadays is "sleep when you're dead".
But here's the problem. When we go out with someone after not
having had enough rest, we basically LOOK DEAD ALREADY.
Seriously, it shows. Our eyes look sullen and have dark circles
under them. We lack the kind of charismatic radiance we'd have
had we gotten more shuteye.
On the contrary, when you're well rested you not only look
healthier and more alive, your wit is sharper and your
feminine "glow" is in full effect. You're just more attractive
all around.
2) WORKOUT
A lot of us have a fitness club membership. Only some of us use
it.
If you're among the latter, I can't think of a better reason to
shock everyone by making a cameo appearance at the gym than as a
"pre-game warmup" before meeting a man.
Go tone up a bit and do some cardio. It'll get your blood
flowing, raise your energy level, and probably make you look
fresher and healthier (whatever that means).
Even if you only have 90 seconds to spare, you can do this:
90 Seconds?
I can't explain the effect, exactly, but just like getting some
sleep has entirely positive effects on your appearance AND your
attitude, so does mixing in a workout before a date.
This goes DOUBLE if you're meeting a man sometime after a long
day at work, by the way.
3) GET THE RED OUT
OK, here's a "secret weapon" for you. Get some extra-strength eye
drops and USE THEM right before you leave the house.
I know this sounds crazy, but men focus on a woman's eyes like you
would not believe--every bit as much as women focus on a man's.
One drop in each eye will make your eyes clearer and sharper. This
will enhance your appearance in a way that will MATTER to a man.
Plus, on the off chance that you're not exactly 18 anymore, you'll
look noticeably younger and healthier also. "Survival of the
fittest" is yours, all in a one-ounce bottle of Visine.
The caveat is to use this tip sparingly. You don't want to get
into the habit of using eye drops all the time.
4) ...AND GET THE BLACK OUT, WHILE YOU'RE AT IT
Unless you've been to some style expert who called you out as a
rare exception, most women look GREAT when they wear black.
Throw anything you've heard about being a "summer" or a "winter",
etc. out the window. Break out the most tasteful "little black
dress" you have (preferably solid color) and WEAR IT.
It's a GOLDEN STANDARD for a reason. It's virtually infallible.
5) MUSIC
Having talked about sleep and hitting the gym, it should be
apparent by now that maximizing the probability of bringing a
POSITIVE ATTITUDE into your meeting with a man is HUGE.
How you FEEL is written ALL OVER how you look on the outside.
So whether you're driving to meet him or waiting for him to pick
you up, listen to your absolute favorite music. And crank it up.
I really don't care what KIND of music it is. That's all a matter
of your personal preference. Just make sure you get a solid dose
of it before going on a date.
Music has a tangibly magical effect on our mood. Show up smiling
instead of cold or distracted. Things will end better for you (and
him) that way.
Granted, some of what I just shared with you may sound a bit
unorthodox. Then again, they're five UNHEARD OF ways to maximize
your appearance when meeting a man.
So brush your teeth, use mouthwash...go through the typical
"checklist" and get typical results.
But add in the UNHEARD OF steps above and you MAY just get UNHEARD
OF results. Try them, and let me know how it turns out.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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