[X&Y Emily] Is The Man You're Seeing Going Out With Other Women? (Part Two)
Published: Thu, 10/29/15
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WHAT'S INSIDE: Here are three more ways to know if the
man you're seeing views your relationship as "exclusive"
or not.
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MAKE HIM *WANT* TO OPEN UP HIS HEART TO YOU
Today I'm going to reveal to you more about how to tell
whether you're really in an exclusive relationship with
a man or not.
But wow...wouldn't it be SO much easier if he just SAID so?
The problem is that very, very few men seem to be like that
nowadays.
If you've seen this weird pattern of non-communication about
the important stuff over and over again, then this is
definitely something you should see:
Make Him Want YOU
You're about to discover that it really only takes ONE simple
skill to get him to drop his defenses and completely open up:
You...And NOBODY Else
Men and women communicate very differently, and talking to men
isn't a case of talking LIKE a man.
In fact, you can and should still be your feminine self.
Nevertheless, it's shocking how almost ALL women make critical
errors in the way they talk to men and with regard to the what
they actually say.
From now on, talk to your man so that he perceives you to be
a truly desirable 'catch' that he MUST welcome into his life:
Make Him YOURS...Forever
Don't miss this...it's from one of my favorite experts,
and it's only going to be around for a limited time.
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IS THE MAN YOU'RE SEEING GOING OUT WITH OTHER
WOMEN? (PART TWO)
On Tuesday I gave you the first two of five surefire ways
to tell if the man you THINK you're in an exclusive relationship
with is taking things as seriously as you are.
As promised, here are three more signs to look for:
3. A man who is interested only in you looks forward to making
plans for weekends with you, and may be planning trips for the two
of you to go on.
While it's true he may be spontaneous and call you at the last
minute to join him for an outing, a good sign that he has a harem
is that he always waits until the last minute to ask you out.
This usually happens because he's not so sure if the one
he asked out as his first choice will show up. Maybe she even
canceled on him.
Don't confuse this with spontaneity. I'm not talking about a
surprise or a gift; I'm talking about if the last-minute notice
is a habit.
He is waiting to see if someone better to go out with will be
available, as being pinned down to plans does not leave him
options.
Think about this if he calls you Friday at 6:00 to invite you to
a concert for that day when he's had the tickets for 3 months.
Why would he not give you more notice? Because the person he
originally planned to take flaked out on him, that's why.
If you did not know about the event at all then it absolutely was
a girl who flaked, out not one of his guy friends.
4. As his exclusive girlfriend, if you need to reach him for
something important he is okay with you calling him at home or on
his cell phone any time of the day or night.
But if you are part of a harem, there are rules like not calling
or texting at night, or calling his home phone.
Also, you always seem to get voice mail, having to wait for when
it is convenient for him to call you and talk.
If he leaves on a trip and will not talk to you while he is gone,
then this is a red flag that he has at least one other girlfriend
or maybe even a wife.
5. The famous words of a harem builder are "I would love to settle
down when the right women comes along".
This statement is used to pose a challenge to you, which will make
you feel that you have to prove you are the right woman and if you
stick around he will figure that out eventually.
After you have been dating for a few months things should be moving
forward, in an exclusive relationship.
Not that you have a ring on your finger yet, but you have
conversations about the future together, kids, and are getting to
know one another at a much deeper level.
This also needs to be demonstrated with actions, not just words.
An example would be going from seeing you once a week at the start
of a relationship to increasing it over time to 2, 3, or 4 times a
week.
If a relationship you are in has been on for a while but is the
same as day one, it's time to consider what we've talked about
in this two-part series as a very possible reason why.
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(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2015. All Rights Reserved.
1-on-1 Coaching With Scot And Emily
How Emily Met The Man Of Her Dreams, And YOU Can Too
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=====
WHAT'S INSIDE: Here are three more ways to know if the
man you're seeing views your relationship as "exclusive"
or not.
=====
MAKE HIM *WANT* TO OPEN UP HIS HEART TO YOU
Today I'm going to reveal to you more about how to tell
whether you're really in an exclusive relationship with
a man or not.
But wow...wouldn't it be SO much easier if he just SAID so?
The problem is that very, very few men seem to be like that
nowadays.
If you've seen this weird pattern of non-communication about
the important stuff over and over again, then this is
definitely something you should see:
Make Him Want YOU
You're about to discover that it really only takes ONE simple
skill to get him to drop his defenses and completely open up:
You...And NOBODY Else
Men and women communicate very differently, and talking to men
isn't a case of talking LIKE a man.
In fact, you can and should still be your feminine self.
Nevertheless, it's shocking how almost ALL women make critical
errors in the way they talk to men and with regard to the what
they actually say.
From now on, talk to your man so that he perceives you to be
a truly desirable 'catch' that he MUST welcome into his life:
Make Him YOURS...Forever
Don't miss this...it's from one of my favorite experts,
and it's only going to be around for a limited time.
=====
IS THE MAN YOU'RE SEEING GOING OUT WITH OTHER
WOMEN? (PART TWO)
On Tuesday I gave you the first two of five surefire ways
to tell if the man you THINK you're in an exclusive relationship
with is taking things as seriously as you are.
As promised, here are three more signs to look for:
3. A man who is interested only in you looks forward to making
plans for weekends with you, and may be planning trips for the two
of you to go on.
While it's true he may be spontaneous and call you at the last
minute to join him for an outing, a good sign that he has a harem
is that he always waits until the last minute to ask you out.
This usually happens because he's not so sure if the one
he asked out as his first choice will show up. Maybe she even
canceled on him.
Don't confuse this with spontaneity. I'm not talking about a
surprise or a gift; I'm talking about if the last-minute notice
is a habit.
He is waiting to see if someone better to go out with will be
available, as being pinned down to plans does not leave him
options.
Think about this if he calls you Friday at 6:00 to invite you to
a concert for that day when he's had the tickets for 3 months.
Why would he not give you more notice? Because the person he
originally planned to take flaked out on him, that's why.
If you did not know about the event at all then it absolutely was
a girl who flaked, out not one of his guy friends.
4. As his exclusive girlfriend, if you need to reach him for
something important he is okay with you calling him at home or on
his cell phone any time of the day or night.
But if you are part of a harem, there are rules like not calling
or texting at night, or calling his home phone.
Also, you always seem to get voice mail, having to wait for when
it is convenient for him to call you and talk.
If he leaves on a trip and will not talk to you while he is gone,
then this is a red flag that he has at least one other girlfriend
or maybe even a wife.
5. The famous words of a harem builder are "I would love to settle
down when the right women comes along".
This statement is used to pose a challenge to you, which will make
you feel that you have to prove you are the right woman and if you
stick around he will figure that out eventually.
After you have been dating for a few months things should be moving
forward, in an exclusive relationship.
Not that you have a ring on your finger yet, but you have
conversations about the future together, kids, and are getting to
know one another at a much deeper level.
This also needs to be demonstrated with actions, not just words.
An example would be going from seeing you once a week at the start
of a relationship to increasing it over time to 2, 3, or 4 times a
week.
If a relationship you are in has been on for a while but is the
same as day one, it's time to consider what we've talked about
in this two-part series as a very possible reason why.
=====
(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2015. All Rights Reserved.
1-on-1 Coaching With Scot And Emily
How Emily Met The Man Of Her Dreams, And YOU Can Too
This e-mail newsletter is a free service of X & Y Communications.
It is never sent to those who have not asked for it. If you
believe you have been sent this message in error, please use the
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