[X&Y Emily] 7 Keys To Making Him Fall In Love With You
Published: Wed, 11/18/15
EMILY McKAY'S KEYS TO BLISS NEWSLETTER
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WHAT'S INSIDE: Do you really, honestly know what it's going
to take to make Mr. Right fall head over heels for YOU?=====
HOW TO "CHEAT PROOF" YOUR MAN
Have you ever wondered if your man is cheating on you?
It may be that skinny girl at the office or that old flame he's
been chatting with on Facebook.
If your man has grown cold, doesn't communicate, doesn't touch you
or look you in the eye, or doesn't seem interested in you anymore
he may be committing the ULTIMATE relationship sin--or at least
thinking about it.
And even if he isn't, these are all signs of a man who is
vulnerable to being STOLEN by another woman:
There is good news, though.
There is a very specific way to "affair proof" your man.
But more than that, when you do so you can actually reignite your
relationship in the process.
Before you know it your man will be charming and exciting
again...longing to hold you close in his arms and to treat you like
you've always wanted to be treated.
You CAN have it all back...from him offering you his arm as you're
walking together to that smoldering glance across the table in the
restaurant.
You're NOT powerless. You can change things for the better--starting
today.
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7 KEYS TO MAKING HIM FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU
The number one question I get is, "How do I get a man to fall in
love with me?"
The real question should be "Why *should* he fall in love with me?"
I had this conversation with a co-worker back some time ago. He
went on and on about what he wanted in a partner--and it was a long
wish list of what she can do for him.
After he finished I asked, "What do you have to offer her?"
It stopped him dead in his tracks. He had never thought about it.
Have you?
We all want a partner who can fulfill our basic needs. However we
also need to be able to fulfill our partner's needs if we want him
to fall in love with us.
There are seven basic needs a man wants from a woman:
1. Being his match, sharing the same ideas and future goals like
having kids, where to live, etc.
2. Having great qualities that demonstrate strong character:
A. Honesty - being consistent in words and actions
B. Being a genuine giver (men get tired of women who take
advantage of them.)
C. Being kind to everyone (being rude to the waiter is a turn
off for men.)
D. Love for people and life
E. Mild in temper, patient. Avoid being moody and sensitive.
The list goes on and on.... Think about your best qualities and
your worst qualities, working on the more challenging traits.
3. Having fun, like ice-skating, tennis, going for a run in the
park. Have a hobby or activity in your life. It's amazing how many
women don't...at all.
4. Being great with kids. Even if he doesn't plan on having kids,
men are turned on by a woman's nurturing, life-giving spirit.
5. The ability to manage a family household. Do you have to do all
the work? Nope, and you shouldn't be expected to...but the fact
remains--men love women who can do these things.
6. Knowing you can be his best friend, depending on you to be a
good listener and to not judge him. This kind of bond takes time to
develop.
7. Take care of yourself physically. You do not have to be a
'supermodel', ladies. But keep yourself clean, neat and stylish
and watch the results. Your "perfectly imperfect" match will adore
you for it.
So what about sex?
Sure a guy needs that from a woman...but in healthy relationships men
and women both acknowledge and take care of each other's needs in that
area.
In other words...it's yet another aspect of a healthy relationship
where there should be both give and take.
Have Fun,
Emily McKay
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