[X&Y Emily] What Exactly DOES A "High Quality Man" Look Like Anyway?
Published: Sun, 05/08/16
WHAT'S INSIDE: Scot recently wrote his guys on how to be a
high quality man...and it's something EVERY woman should read...=====
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Hello Ladies:
Recently Scot wrote to his guys about what it takes to be the
kind of high-quality man who can successfully attract a greatwoman like you.
What he said was SO RIGHT ON that I wanted to make sure you had
the chance to see it also.
As you read what follows, pay careful attention not only to
what DEFINES a high quality man, but the implicit cues to how
WE as women can really, truly tell when we've got MR. WRONG in
our lives.
This is powerful, powerful stuff...and it just might stop you
dead in your tracks (in the best way possible!)
TWO OR THREE OUT OF FOUR AIN'T BAD...RIGHT?
In case you're new around here, I often talk about the "Big Four"
factors that attract high quality women.
They are:
1) Masculinity (i.e. the type of manhood that ignites feminine
sexual desire as opposed to machismo) 2) Confidence (i.e. trust in one's own competence that empowers and
enables one's ability to lead effectively) 3) Inspiring Confidence (i.e. the ability to make women feel safe
and comfortable in your presence) 4) Character (i.e. having a strong sense of purpose, taking
responsibility and being committed to doing the right thing evenwhen nobody is watching)
Having harped on and on about these for several years now, I've
NEVER encountered any argument about their accuracy whatsoever...even
from particularly strong-willed women who've rolled their eyes
initially at my preposterous assertion that I knew what they wanted
in a man.
In fact, if you've seen the footage of my presentation at the Real
Man Conference in Germany, you've seen me put the "Big
Four" to the test LIVE in front of a few hundred people.Each of the several women who happened to be in the audience agreed
that the "Big Four" was spot on.
So yes...if you are a "Big Four" man, you can absolutely, positively
expect to attract high quality women.
The emphasis there is on "high quality".
That's because I have a bit of a confession to make to you today.
If your goal is simply to "attract women", you don't really have to
have ALL of the "Big Four" in place.
To be truthful, you really only NEED the first two.
That's right. If you are MASCULINE in the way women define it,
you'll attract them sexually.
They won't be able to help it, much in the same way that YOU can't
help it when you encounter a woman whose amazing, transcendent
femininity ignites your masculinity and sets it off like a
firecracker.
And following logically, if you are CONFIDENT enough to believe a
positive result will come from you approaching and meeting her,
you'll receive the gift of realizing just how attracted your
masculine presence has made her.
Bingo...that may be ALL THAT'S NECESSARY to "get" a woman.
So what about making her feel safe and comfortable in her presence?
Well, think of it this way.
If a woman has low-self esteem and/or is pretty desperate for a
guy, she may "throw caution to the wind" (even if temporarily)
simply to feel "wanted".
And hey...what if some guy mistreats her, "uses" her or dare I say
abuses her, even?
In her twisted way of thinking she may somehow feel that's what she
deserves...that it's her lot in life.
So then, yes...if your goal is simply to get a good looking woman
here and there to spread her legs for you, then you might be able
to get by with the "Big Two".
But know this.
If you want a woman to be a bit more ENTHUSIASTIC about being with
you, you just can't beat the effect that a feeling of safety and
security will have on her.
I'm telling you, when a woman is ATTRACTED to you and also feels
completely SAFE with you, the sky's the limit.
I've said it before and I'll say it again.
Yes...women want a "protector", but the guy they often feel the MOST
need to be protected from is the guy they are WITH.
If you're consistently seeing a pattern of resistance from women
who you could have sworn were attracted to you, you may need to
work on that third component of the "Big Four".
Otherwise, the women you DO get to stick around for a date or two
will almost always be women with a damaged sense of self-worth.
And if that's the case then sure...you may begin to think that "all
women are crazy" or something. But I assure you they're not.
It's just that the higher quality women will only respond
powerfully to a man who has the first THREE of the "Big Four" in
order.
But wait a second...what about that fourth component: Character?
Ah...I've saved the biggest revelation for last. And unfortunately,
it's going to be frustrating to hear.
"Big Three" guys are perhaps the most DANGEROUS men on planet Earth.
That's because they can get just about ANY woman ANY time...at least
for the short term.
They can attract them sexually and charm them into feeling safe and
comfortable with them...and can do so with expert skill.
But make no mistake, they lull women into a FALSE sense of security.
A man who can portray the "Big Three" but who lacks character is
precisely the guy who girls' mothers warn them about.
At best they're what I call "fakers and flakers".
At worst they're liars, manipulators, players, cheaters and con
artists.
Basically, without character a "Big Three" man is a high quality
woman's WORST NIGHTMARE.
And significantly, he's also a true "Big Four" man's WORST
NIGHTMARE as well.
Let's face it; it's the "Big Three" guy who's influencing women to
FEAR getting into relationships and "getting hurt"...again.
That's because as soon as a "Big Three" man is found to lack
character, any high quality woman will summarily kick him to the
curb.
From there, it'll be harder for her to trust the next guy...even if
he really, truly is a genuine "Big Four" man.
Like I said, that's FRUSTRATING...for everyone involved, no less.
But when you read between the lines in the horror story I just
related, you'll discover exactly why the fourth component of the
"Big Four" is SO crucial after all.
It's CHARACTER that defines a high quality man...and it's exactly
what enables him to keep a high quality woman around for the LONG
TERM if he so chooses.
So can you "get by" on being a "Big Two" man...or "get over" by being
"Big Three" man?
Perhaps...I guess.
But why settle for mediocrity and eventual frustration when you can
be a "Big Four" man who satisfies the wildest dreams of even the
highest quality women on Earth?
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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What did I tell you? There's some MASSIVE food for thought there,
right?
Have Fun,
Emily McKay
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