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WHAT'S INSIDE:  All too many women "play it safe" in life,
especially when it comes to relationships.  But the problem
is that "playing it safe" can actually be dangerous!

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HIRE US TO BE YOUR PERSONAL TRAINERS FOR LOVE
AND DATING


Sometimes e-books and programs aren't enough.

Maybe you have unique sticking points or your situation is a special one.

Or perhaps you're a simply a lot better off when you have someone right
next to you to motivate you and help sort out what really matters.

If you can relate to any (or all) of those ideas, I have great news for you.

Scot and I are available to you for personal coaching.   We've been getting
results for women of all ages, all over the world for over ten years now.

If you believe it's finally time to get this area of your life taken care of and
have the right relationship with the man of your dreams, write us and tell
us your story:



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If you feel some "butterflies" before writing us, that's only natural!

Doing a coaching program with us is an exciting step...today will
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THE SCARIEST WORD WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS
 

Risk.

It's the scariest word in the world to many women, especially
when we're talking about understanding and relating to men.

But truly, we take risks every day in other areas of life.  Some
are by choice and others are by necessity. 

For example:  You drive your car because you have to be somewhere
important.  The risk is there may be a serious accident, but you
take your chances out of necessity. 

You may choose to have your hair colored, risking that there may
be a bad reaction to the chemicals.  But you take that risk by
choice.

However, the most compelling dilemma is when we know a different
path than the one we are on is good for us, yet we fail to take the
risk of making the change because we are frozen by fear. 

There's a shoe factory I know of with a number of employees who
have been there ten, twenty or even thirty years.   They make little
more than minimum wage, and they do the same thing over and
over again, day after day. 

The thought of changing jobs--and any perceived risk associated
with that change--is so frightening that the apparently warm, safe,
status quo paralyzes them. 

So they stay, thinking that it's better than being unemployed, or
at least the lesser of the two evils.

Does this sound familiar, even if only on a philosophical level?

So many women do the same in their dating lives.

The guy they are dating or interested in is better than nobody,
even though they are not happy with him or the relationship and
most definitely are not in a blissful state of life. 

Or perhaps we have some self-work to do before we're ready to
attract someone great. 

But change is hard...and it's scary.

That's why so many of us choose to remain in our status quo
cocoon, even though we know we won't get anywhere that way. 

How tragic that the fear of change causes us to not take the
necessary risk to get want we want!

Ironically, many times making bad choices seems to feel like the
better option because it feels "safer".  

Hopefully we won't wake up 30 years from now wishing and thinking
"What if?"  But by then it will be too late, life will have passed on by,
leaving nothing to show for it. 

We have all met someone in our lifetime who has squandered his
or her life away, ending up bitter towards the world.

But never being blissfully happy is worse than any risk
associated with getting there. 

This simple thought (or belief) is powerful enough to cause anyone
to take the necessary risk to get what one wants.  The time and
effort are so worth it. 

I know I have been down the road of pain, tears, break-ups and so
on, but I always knew that I was moving closer to having a blissful
relationship, which I have today. 

I am glad to have never settled for what was "ok", or "just
comfortable".  I certainly don't regret having made the necessary
changes in my life to arrive where I am today.

This newsletter is, and will always be, about how to have a
blissful life.

It's not just a dream. 

And it's not by accident that you get to be happy.  It takes risk,
solid decisions and a "call to action" on your part to make it
happen. 

Put that all together and you will get there.

Isn't it time?  If so ask yourself whichever of these questions
are appropriate:



1. Do you want to be blissfully happy? 


2. Do you want to stay in a bad relationship instead of freeing
yourself to find your true Mr. Right?


3. Do both you and your partner want to make improvements
to strengthen your bond to each other?


4. Does the thought of never getting the life you want frustrate
you?


5. Are you tired of men hurting you?  Is there a pattern of this
scenario repeating itself in your life?


6. Do you want a man to love and truly cherish you?


7. Do you wish you could get more men--or BETTER men--to
take notice of you?


8. Are you sick of taking second place to work, friends, video
games, porn, and/or whatever else it may be?  Wouldn't you
rather be #1 in your man's life?


9. Are you ready to get out there and have fun dating?


10. Do you fear being alone?  (This is a normal but major fear
for many women today.)



Ladies, if you want a great relationship--the very best you can find
--then you have come to the right place. 

You have the POWER to make your life what you want it to be. 

All of the dating advice books that I have read tend to talk
about life passively happening to you with no control on your part.
 
It's mostly all about suffering through singleness until you can get
some guy to marry you, or how to recover from damaging
relationships and fruitless chases after the wrong type of guys.

If you are like me, you just don't believe that feeling sorry for
yourself really helps much, except maybe for the very short term.

You have the power to make some simple changes that can make
many men want you who otherwise "would not be interested". 

It's about taking control of your life and making GREAT choices. 

I am glad you've subscribed to these newsletters because we will
touch on many of these concerns. 

We'll continue to cover a lot of these issues in this space, but there
really is so much to cover when it comes to making our dating lives
GREAT...yet life is too short to continue being frustrated!

I want you to be successful in your personal life.

Do YOU?

Everyone should find the happiness they desire and the comfort of
knowing that you have a truly warm, secure life with your partner.




 




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