[X&Y Emily] Is The Man You're Seeing Going Out With Other Women?

Published: Tue, 11/21/17


EMILY McKAY'S KEYS TO BLISS NEWSLETTER


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WHAT'S INSIDE:  Here are three ways to know if the
man you're seeing views your relationship as "exclusive"
or not.

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MEN?


I know, right?  It sounds downright strange...

But did you know that our amazingly designed human bodies come
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Here's the problem, though...  Nowadays we take a shower in the
morning, one at night and maybe even one at the gym.

On top of that we have so many lotions, creams and perfumes to make
us smell pretty and feminine that we've (ironically) overlooked something
amazingly important.

We're continuously washing off nature's intended sexual signal to men!

Okay...so wait a minute.  There's no way we're going to stop using our
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So thank goodness Scot's friend Dr. Amend came along.  He's concocted
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IS THE MAN YOU'RE SEEING GOING OUT WITH OTHER
WOMEN?


I've written to you before about "harem builders".   Those are guys
who would rather play the field dating several women at once than
enter into an exclusive relationship.

Well, today I have a slightly different angle to cover for you.

Here are three surefire ways to tell if the man you THINK you're
in an exclusive relationship with is taking things as seriously as you
are.


1.  A man who is interested only in you looks forward to
making plans for weekends with you, and may be planning
trips for the two of you to go on. 


While it's true he may be spontaneous and call you at the last
minute to join him for an outing, a good sign that he has a harem
is that he always waits until the last minute to ask you out. 

This usually happens because he's not so sure if the one
he asked out as his first choice will show up.  Maybe she even
canceled on him. 

Don't confuse this with spontaneity.  I'm not talking about a
surprise or a gift; I'm talking about if the last-minute notice
is a habit. 

He is waiting to see if someone better to go out with will be
available, as being pinned down to plans does not leave him
options. 

Think about this if he calls you Friday at 6:00 to invite you to
a concert for that day when he's had the tickets for 3 months. 

Why would he not give you more notice?  Because the person he
originally planned to take flaked out on him, that's why. 

If you did not know about the event at all then it absolutely was
a girl who flaked,  out not one of his guy friends.



2.  As his exclusive girlfriend, if you need to reach him for
something important he is okay with you calling him at
home or on his cell phone any time of the day or night. 


But if you are part of a harem, there are rules like not calling
or texting at night, or calling his home phone. 

Also, you always seem to get voice mail, having to wait for when
it is convenient for him to call you and talk. 

If he leaves on a trip and will not talk to you while he is gone,
then this is a red flag that he has at least one other girlfriend
or maybe even a wife.



3.  The famous words of a harem builder are "I would love to
settle down when the right women comes along". 


This statement is used to pose a challenge to you, which will make
you feel that you have to prove you are the right woman and if you
stick around he will figure that out eventually. 

After you have been dating for a few months things should be moving
forward, in an exclusive relationship. 

Not that you have a ring on your finger yet,  but you have
conversations about the future together, kids, and are getting to
know one another at a much deeper level. 

This also needs to be demonstrated with actions, not just words. 
An example would be going from seeing you once a week at the start
of a relationship to increasing it over time to 2, 3, or 4 times a
week.



If a relationship you are in has been on for a while but is the
same as day one, it's time to consider whether or not any of
what I've said in this newsletter resonates.



 




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