[X&Y Emily] 7 Keys To Making Him Fall In Love With You
Published: Thu, 10/26/17
EMILY McKAY'S KEYS TO BLISS NEWSLETTER
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WHAT'S INSIDE: Do you really, honestly know what it's going
to take to make Mr. Right fall head over heels for YOU?=====
"YES EMILY...I'M READY TO FIND LOVE!"
The #1 obstacle most women face when deciding to date again for
the first time in a while is FEAR.
"What if I attract the wrong men?"
"What if I don't meet any at all?"
"What if I only end up experiencing more heartbreak?"
Well, if you've ever found any thoughts like that creeping into
your head, you're definitely not alone.
Getting out there and meeting someone new can be SCARY.
But it doesn't have to be.
Scot and I are here for you. As coaches, we encourage you,
listen to you, help you clear the obstacles of the past and
give you new, fresh ideas to make sure you not only meet
a wonderful man...but have a great time doing so.
You don't have to do this alone. Write me a note and tell
me your story. If you'd like to talk about coaching, give
me a way to reach you.
emily@clickwithhim.com
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WHY SHOULD HE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU?
The number one question I get is, "How do I get a man to fall in
love with me?"
The real question should be "Why *should* he fall in love with me?"
I had this conversation with a co-worker back some time ago. He
went on and on about what he wanted in a partner, and it was a long
wish list of what she can do for him.
After he finished I asked, "What do you have to offer her?"
It stopped him dead in his tracks. He had never thought about it.
Have you?
We all want a partner who can fulfill our basic needs. However we
also need to be able to fulfill our partner's needs if we want him
to fall in love with us.
There are seven basic needs a man has in a relationship:
1. Being his match, sharing the same ideas and future goals like
having kids, where to live, etc.
2. Having great qualities that demonstrate strong character:
A. Honest and consistent in words and actions
B. Being a genuine giver (Men get tired of women who take
advantage of them.)
C. Being kind to everyone (being rude to the waiter is a turn
off for men.)
D. Love for people and life
E. Mild in temper and patient, not moody or hyper-sensitive.
3. Having fun, like ice-skating, tennis, going for a run in the
park. Have a hobby or activity in your life. It's amazing how many
women don't...at all.
4. Being great with kids. Even if he doesn't plan on having kids,
men are turned on by a woman's nurturing, life-giving spirit.
5. The ability to manage a family household. Do you have to do all
the work? Nope, and you shouldn't be expected to...but the fact
remains: men love women who can do these things.
6. Knowing you can be his best friend, depending on you to be a
good listener and to not judge him. This kind of bond takes time to
develop.
7. Take care of yourself physically. You do not have to be a
'supermodel', ladies. But keep yourself clean, neat and stylish
and watch the results. Your "perfectly imperfect" match will adore
you for it.
So what about sex?
Sure a guy needs that from a woman...but in healthy relationships men
and women both acknowledge and take care of each other's needs in that
area.
In other words, it's yet another aspect of a healthy relationship
where there should be both give and take.
Have Fun,
Emily McKay
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