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WHAT'S INSIDE:  Do you ever get the feeling that men have "one
track minds"?  If that's ever frustrated you, read this...

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Hello Ladies:

Have you ever experienced the frustration of putting time, energy
and even emotion into a man you had high hopes for...only to figure
out sooner than later that he has an appallingly low sense of the
true value of women?

Not long ago Scot sent out a letter to his guys that is SO amazing
that I wanted to make sure you got a chance to see it also.

In it, he addresses certain guys on his list who (unbelievably)
think that women are "only good for sex and nothing else". 

Now obviously, I can only hope you'll NEVER, EVER have to settle
for a guy like that.  But just to encourage you that yes...certain
men DO indeed adore and appreciate us as women in a more holistic,
wonderful way, I wanted to pass this on to you for your reading
enjoyment.

Fair warning:  By now you know that Scot and I believe very much in
men being men and women being women, and this reflects that.

Regardless of how you feel personally about gender roles, stop and
consider what it is that you REALLY want to be appreciated
for...could it be some of the ways that Scot lists toward the end?

No matter what, it's ALWAYS better not to be considered a "sex
object" by a real man, isn't it?



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WHY IT'S NOT ALL ABOUT SEX

--by Scot McKay


A few days ago, I got an interesting e-mail.

In it, the guy flatly asked me what on Earth a woman could
possibly be good for other than sex.

Apparently, his Daddy must have wiped his butt and changed his
diapers for him as a baby.

In all seriousness, though, that particular mindset is actually
EPIDEMIC.

All I can say, gentlemen, is that if you have trouble finding any
good reason to have a woman around other than to stick the round
peg in the round hole, BOY are you cheating yourself out of some of
the best experiences life has to offer.

First, in this context you can assume we're talking only about a
GOOD woman who won't ruin your life. 

And surprise, surprise--guess which guys tend to end up with THOSE
women?  If you said "the ones who value women as more
than sex objects", give yourself a gold star.

Show me a guy who is sex-focused, and I'll usually show you a guy
who pretty much can't stand women otherwise.  It's a cause/effect
relationship.

A great woman might not only be the mother of YOUR sons and daughters
someday, she's your biggest cheerleader for whatever plans and
ambitions you have (you DO have those, right?)

She's also your comfort and joy after a busy day.

She's all about creating happiness and fun...if you allow her to.

She'll fill your life with new friends and throw great parties...
including what might be your first surprise birthday party
ever.

She'll go out of her way to be amazing and beautiful when your boss
invites himself over for dinner...even on short notice.

She might even rub your back and bring you a beer without asking.

You'll have someone to come home to, and someone to leave home with
on vacation.

You'll have someone to build shared memories with.

You'll finally have someone to be a hero for who'll actually
appreciate it.

If you play your cards right, she'll love doing the necessary
things you dread...like taxes, cooking or taking the dog to the vet.
And yet she'll adore you for doing things you already like doing.

She SHOULD also be your best friend of all time, only not JUST a
friend.

If any or even all of that still sounds utterly worthless to you,
maybe you should check your pulse.

After all, YES...the sex part still comes with the package.  It's
just a far, far richer and more fulfilling package.

And come to think of it, it's far, far richer and more fulfilling
sex, also.


Be Good,

Scot McKay



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I sincerely hope you enjoyed reading that as much as I did. 

Ladies, I promise there are great guys out there who are looking
for an amazing woman like you every bit as much as you're looking
for a "real man". 

Of course, you'll have to believe that in order for it to make a
difference in your life.

Any woman who is convinced that "all men are dogs" or "no men are
any good at all" stand as little chance of getting a great man as a
man who thinks "women are only good for sex" does at being with a
great woman.

Believe in YOUR worth as a woman, and also believe in the worth of
a wonderful man who has some depth and respect.  Life is so much
richer when we deserve what we want.



 


P.S.  Are you thinking it's time for 1-on-1 coaching?  Write me
at emily@scotandemily.com and tell me your story.  Give me
a way to contact you so I can be in touch.





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