EMILY McKAY'S KEYS TO BLISS NEWSLETTER

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WHAT'S INSIDE:  Here are three more ways to know if the
man you're seeing views your relationship as "exclusive"
or not.

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ESCAPE THE “JUST BE ROOMMATES ZONE”


All of us have dreamed of living a charmed life with the man
of our dreams since we were little girls.

But when we’re adults, we quickly find out how complicated
relationships can be…causing such deep pain and heartbreak.

So why does it seem so HARD to have the relationship you
want?

It doesn’t matter whether you are married, have a boyfriend
or are still single and looking…

…your heart yearns to get this RIGHT, and preferably the
first time.

Well, after over 12 years of living the dream together, Scot
and I have spent the last two years compiling EVERY bit of
what it takes to have the kind of relationship that lasts forever
and is the envy of every other couple you know.

Sure, there are good times as well as rough patches, but we
face life together…as best friends.

You may have experienced heartbreak and loneliness in the
past, but it’s time to BREAK FREE of that pattern and have
the relationship you were MEANT to have.

All the secrets are revealed for you in My One & Only.

Scot and I have held NOTHING back:

 

My One & Only (Take A Look)



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IS THE MAN YOU'RE SEEING GOING OUT WITH OTHER
WOMEN? (PART TWO)


Last time I gave you the first two of five surefire ways to tell if the
man you THINK you're in an exclusive relationship with is taking
things as seriously as you are.

I know I was a scatterbrain taking so long...but as promised, here are
three more signs to look for:



3.  A man who is interested only in you looks forward to
making plans for weekends with you, and may be
planning trips for the two of you to go on. 


While it's true he may be spontaneous and call you at the last
minute to join him for an outing, a good sign that he has a harem
is that he always waits until the last minute to ask you out. 

This usually happens because he's not so sure if the one
he asked out as his first choice will show up.  Maybe she even
canceled on him. 

Don't confuse this with spontaneity.  I'm not talking about a
surprise or a gift; I'm talking about if the last-minute notice
is a habit. 

He is waiting to see if someone better to go out with will be
available, as being pinned down to plans does not leave him
options. 

Think about this if he calls you Friday at 6:00 to invite you to
a concert for that day when he's had the tickets for 3 months. 

Why would he not give you more notice?  Because the person he
originally planned to take flaked out on him, that's why. 

If you did not know about the event at all then it absolutely was
a girl who flaked,  out not one of his guy friends.



4.  As his exclusive girlfriend, if you need to reach him
for something important he is okay with you calling
him at home or on his cell phone any time of the day
or night. 


But if you are part of a harem, there are rules like not calling
or texting at night, or calling his home phone. 

Also, you always seem to get voice mail, having to wait for when
it is convenient for him to call you and talk. 

If he leaves on a trip and will not talk to you while he is gone,
then this is a red flag that he has at least one other girlfriend
or maybe even a wife.



5.  The famous words of a harem builder are "I would
love to settle down when the right women comes
along". 


This statement is used to pose a challenge to you, which will make
you feel that you have to prove you are the right woman and if you
stick around he will figure that out eventually. 

After you have been dating for a few months things should be
moving forward, in an exclusive relationship. 

Not that you have a ring on your finger yet,  but you have
conversations about the future together, kids, and are getting to
know one another at a much deeper level. 

This also needs to be demonstrated with actions, not just words. 
An example would be going from seeing you once a week at the start
of a relationship to increasing it over time to 2, 3, or 4 times a
week.



If a relationship you are in has been on for a while but is the
same as day one, it's time to consider what we've talked about
in this two-part series as a very possible reason why.



 




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