[X&Y Emily] "Is This Guy Really Going To Marry Me?" (Part Two)
Published: Thu, 10/08/09
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And now, here's the second part in my two-part series on how to know
if a man is serious about marrying you or not...
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10 SIGNS TO KNOW IF HE IS SERIOUS ABOUT YOU (PART TWO)
Last time I shared with you five keys ways to tell if a man is
serious about marrying you or not.
As promised, today I've got the OTHER FIVE for you. So let's get
down to business...
6) COMPANY PARTIES
It's getting to be that time of year and holiday parties are coming
up soon.
Any man who is interested in marrying you will be excited to take
you to the company party and introduce you to his co-workers.
If you've been dating him for some time now--yet he chooses not to
take you along--then marrying you might not be on his mind.
The same holds true if he refuses an invitation to your company
party.
7) MARRIAGE TALK
If he wants to marry you, he'll probably TELL YOU he wants to marry
you at some point.
When you hear the words "I want to get married...someday", then he
most likely means "someday" with SOMEONE ELSE. DO NOT ignore this
expression.
If he ever feels the stress of trying to save his relationship with
you for some reason, he may feel pressure to ask you to marry him
because he believes that is what you want to hear.
How do you know he means it?
Here's the simple answer: If the two of you set a wedding date
within a reasonable time frame, then he meant it.
Taking months or even years to set a wedding date is nothing more
than a means to hold off marriage--or in some cases even to keep it
from happening.
If you don't have a date set, you're not really engaged yet. It's
as simple as that.
8) MAKING PLANS FOR THE FUTURE
When he starts talks about the logistics of merging both households
together under one roof, then he is serious.
He will want to figure out whose home to live in...yours, his or a
new one.
He'll consider with you the ins-and-outs of handling finances with
one bank account or separate ones. And so on...
Of course, as we've just seen above talk is cheap if it is not
followed by actions. Don't let a whole year pass only to find out
all of your "plans" together amounted to all talk and no action.
You might hear all kinds of excuses from him as to why the present
time is not a good one to talk about making plans.
He may say, "Let's talk about it next month" or, "Let's wait until I
get my raise or promotion."
However, when that time comes there may always be another reason in
his mind to hold off making plans.
Clearly he is avoiding getting married.
9) SHOUTING IT TO THE WORLD
If marriage to you is on his "radar screen" he makes it known to
people that you mean the world to him.
He may demonstrate this by telling people in his life how important
you are to him directly--as in during the course of REAL
conversation.
He will also acknowledge his relationship with you and mention you
sometimes on his social media outlets like Facebook, MySpace or
Twitter.
If he is on a Facebook and/or MySpace and you are not ever mentioned
and/or are not in any of thephotos, then you are not in a serious
relationship...let alone if he doesn't even have "In A Relationship"
specified in his profile!
In addition, it goes without saying that once he has decided that you
are "The One", he will not have any need to have an active online
dating profile anymore.
This is a huge step...especially if he has had a lot of success
online.
I remember one day I went to Match.com to show my friends the profile
and pictures of this wonderful guy I had met, but to my surprise it
was gone.
Yes, Scot had removed his profile and canceled his account. The
funny thing is that I had done the same thing that morning!
10) IN A RELATIONSHIP VS. JUST "HANGING OUT"
If you live in the same city, you should be able to see each other
often, including weekends. Getting together once in a blue moon
does not count as a "serious relationship".
The excuse that "I work a lot of hours and don't have time to see
you more often" is often code for "I am just seeing you when it is
convenient".
If he is head over heels for you he will make time for you.
Besides, even if he DOES work an insane amount of hours, do you
really want to be married to someone who you will only see a few
hours a week? Do you really want to play second fiddle to work?
Whatever it is that is most important to us will always be top
priority. And to the man who will ask you to marry him, you will
be at right there at that top of that list.
As you continue dating someone, the number of positive signs you see
in your relationship should continue to grow. That's only natural.
That's how you will know that your relationship is moving in the
right direction. At some point, given that "positive progression"
you should be able to guess that he will probably be proposing soon.
But if not, then what? We will talk about that in the next
newsletter. Stay tuned!
Have Fun,
Emily McKay
P.S. The new X & Y On The Fly podcast is still in the works...I
promise!
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