[X&Y Emily] Avoid The "Valentine's Day Blues"
Published: Mon, 02/13/12
EMILY McKAY'S KEYS TO BLISS NEWSLETTER
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IN THIS ISSUE: Valentine's Day is only a day away. Whether you have
a man in your life at the moment or not, here's EVERYTHING you need
to know...
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AVOID THE VALENTINE'S DAY BLUES
Valentine's Day is tomorrow. Actually, it's already here if you
are in Australia or New Zealand!
And if you are like many single people or even couples who are in
an unhappy relationship, you may actually be dreading this holiday.
Sound familiar? You're not alone. In fact, I'd say that all told
WAY FEWER people than you think actually are LOOKING FORWARD to
February 14th. I just asked Scot, and he agreed...VERY much.
Today's commercial world puts so much pressure on a man to buy
expensive gifts to show his "love" for a woman.
We know that's not what it should really be about, but it seems as
if that's what it has come to.
In addition, many women are hoping that maybe this time their gift
will be an engagement ring. It's a sweet thought, but what if it
doesn't happen?
Indeed, most of us have had a Valentine's Day where we did not get
what we had hoped for. A date? A kiss? Flowers?
Commercials and TV shows play up this romantic day as important--
that it's a MUST to have a date AND gifts in order to feel special.
I was listening to the radio and the DJ recommended that us women
should send a bouquet of flowers to a girl friend of ours who we
thought would not receive anything this holiday.
For good measure, we should be sure to mark it "anonymous" in order
to make her feel special.
I personally believe all my girl friends are special year round
whether they are in a relationship or not. The last thing my
friends need is to be led on a wild goose chase for someone who
doesn't exist!
I remember when I worked in an office that when the florist showed
up we all wanted to know who the flowers were for. Many of us
hoped it was for ourselves, of course.
You are not alone if you have actually thought about sending
YOURSELF flowers or a gift to work.
For some women who are not in a relationship during Valentine's
Day, the feeling of not receiving anything or not receiving
affection on that day really can be depressing--if we let it be.
Men also experience the same disappointment of not having someone
to celebrate with, by the way.
Simply put, with all the pressures and disappointments it's easy to
get the "Valentine's Day Blues".
What can we do to avoid those blues?
To put things in perspective, Valentine's Day is only one day out
of the whole year. Participants in a healthy relationship do not
rely on a calendar day to express their undying love for one
another, right?
Everyone in a relationship should try making EVERY DAY like
Valentine's Day, letting each other know with both words and actions
that they care.
By doing this, it will lessen any disappointment if the day did not
go as planned, knowing that we can try again on another day...which
we really can, of course.
This is the day that both men and women evaluate their relationships.
It's like a yearly reminder to put us back on track to rekindle a
good partnership, or to go out and find our true love with whom we
can live happily ever after.
But unfortunately in the real world, it just doesn't always turn out
that way.
In fact, one source estimates that 6 million people will be BREAKING
UP on Valentine's Day!
After February 14th the online dating sites have a jump in memberships
due to so many break ups over the holidays and because so many people
--men AND women--are tired of going through the holidays without
someone by their side.
So that means that this coming week there will be men online looking
for a loving partner to share their life with.
For many men, this will be their first time online. The statistics
show that about 90% of the men only remain on online dating sites for
less than three months!
Timing is important...and NOW is the time to be online.
Can you be the kind of woman who represents a GREAT online dating
experience for a GREAT man?
And are you ready to finally meet a guy who is as fed-up with
flakiness and game playing as you are?
Really, NOW could be a perfect time for you to find your life partner!
And in order to maximize your success, you'll need a game plan.
After all, the women who are able to rise above a sea of average online
profiles are the ones who radiate charm, class and all-around beauty.
The profiles of such women stop men dead in their tracks...and cause
them to click the "E-mail Now" button.
As you know, Scot and I met online. And if we can find happiness
after the years of respective heartbreak we endured separately before
meeting, then YOU CAN TOO.
That's EXACTLY why my Click With Him program is the PERFECT way to
make a big splash in online dating as quickly as possible...while
still going about it the RIGHT WAY. And you can find it right here:
http://www.clickwithhim.com/50off
What started as a plan for giving you everything you need to be truly
successful at online dating has been transformed to so much more.
In addition to my 30-Day Plan To Finding A Great Man Online (which
is based on my personal experience), I've included a VERY eye-opening
program I did with Scot on how to find a great man behind an average
profile.
Plus, you'll discover everything you need to know about online dating
security, how to handle e-mails and phone calls, and--of course--how
to WOW him on a first date!
I've invited some fun guests like Amy Waterman and Renee Piane, and
have recently added full transcripts so you can listen OR read.
So why not put the "Valentine's Day Blues" in the rear-view mirror and
make the most of this INCREDIBLE time to be online?
And to make it EVEN easier, the link below allows you to get my Click
With Him program for a full 50% off...but only for a limited time:
http://www.clickwithhim.com/50off
If you've ever considered getting Click with Him, you really couldn't
pick a better time to do so than RIGHT NOW.
And when you do, pick up a F-R-E-E month of access to my special Keys
To Bliss Member Site at no extra charge.
There you'll find even more of my VERY BEST dating advice and special
surprises for today's modern yet feminine woman.
It's the perfect compliment to what you'll discover in Click With Him.
I'll be chatting with you again soon...
Have fun,
Emily McKay
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X & Y Communications is dedicated to making you the most skilled
participant in the dating world you can be, at whatever stage of
life you are in. It's all about straight talk about the most
creative subjects, somehow encompassing character-based principles
while being neither too shy nor too judgmental to hit the important
things head on. The basic stuff you've heard a million times isn't
rehashed around here. Enjoy!
Please also note that the information in this newsletter is for
entertainment purposes only and is not intended to constitute
professional advice.
(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2012. All Rights Reserved.
This e-mail newsletter is a free service of X & Y Communications.
It is never sent to those who have not asked for it. If you
believe you have been sent this message in error, please respond
and we will kindly remove you from our mailing list.
=====
IN THIS ISSUE: Valentine's Day is only a day away. Whether you have
a man in your life at the moment or not, here's EVERYTHING you need
to know...
=====
AVOID THE VALENTINE'S DAY BLUES
Valentine's Day is tomorrow. Actually, it's already here if you
are in Australia or New Zealand!
And if you are like many single people or even couples who are in
an unhappy relationship, you may actually be dreading this holiday.
Sound familiar? You're not alone. In fact, I'd say that all told
WAY FEWER people than you think actually are LOOKING FORWARD to
February 14th. I just asked Scot, and he agreed...VERY much.
Today's commercial world puts so much pressure on a man to buy
expensive gifts to show his "love" for a woman.
We know that's not what it should really be about, but it seems as
if that's what it has come to.
In addition, many women are hoping that maybe this time their gift
will be an engagement ring. It's a sweet thought, but what if it
doesn't happen?
Indeed, most of us have had a Valentine's Day where we did not get
what we had hoped for. A date? A kiss? Flowers?
Commercials and TV shows play up this romantic day as important--
that it's a MUST to have a date AND gifts in order to feel special.
I was listening to the radio and the DJ recommended that us women
should send a bouquet of flowers to a girl friend of ours who we
thought would not receive anything this holiday.
For good measure, we should be sure to mark it "anonymous" in order
to make her feel special.
I personally believe all my girl friends are special year round
whether they are in a relationship or not. The last thing my
friends need is to be led on a wild goose chase for someone who
doesn't exist!
I remember when I worked in an office that when the florist showed
up we all wanted to know who the flowers were for. Many of us
hoped it was for ourselves, of course.
You are not alone if you have actually thought about sending
YOURSELF flowers or a gift to work.
For some women who are not in a relationship during Valentine's
Day, the feeling of not receiving anything or not receiving
affection on that day really can be depressing--if we let it be.
Men also experience the same disappointment of not having someone
to celebrate with, by the way.
Simply put, with all the pressures and disappointments it's easy to
get the "Valentine's Day Blues".
What can we do to avoid those blues?
To put things in perspective, Valentine's Day is only one day out
of the whole year. Participants in a healthy relationship do not
rely on a calendar day to express their undying love for one
another, right?
Everyone in a relationship should try making EVERY DAY like
Valentine's Day, letting each other know with both words and actions
that they care.
By doing this, it will lessen any disappointment if the day did not
go as planned, knowing that we can try again on another day...which
we really can, of course.
This is the day that both men and women evaluate their relationships.
It's like a yearly reminder to put us back on track to rekindle a
good partnership, or to go out and find our true love with whom we
can live happily ever after.
But unfortunately in the real world, it just doesn't always turn out
that way.
In fact, one source estimates that 6 million people will be BREAKING
UP on Valentine's Day!
After February 14th the online dating sites have a jump in memberships
due to so many break ups over the holidays and because so many people
--men AND women--are tired of going through the holidays without
someone by their side.
So that means that this coming week there will be men online looking
for a loving partner to share their life with.
For many men, this will be their first time online. The statistics
show that about 90% of the men only remain on online dating sites for
less than three months!
Timing is important...and NOW is the time to be online.
Can you be the kind of woman who represents a GREAT online dating
experience for a GREAT man?
And are you ready to finally meet a guy who is as fed-up with
flakiness and game playing as you are?
Really, NOW could be a perfect time for you to find your life partner!
And in order to maximize your success, you'll need a game plan.
After all, the women who are able to rise above a sea of average online
profiles are the ones who radiate charm, class and all-around beauty.
The profiles of such women stop men dead in their tracks...and cause
them to click the "E-mail Now" button.
As you know, Scot and I met online. And if we can find happiness
after the years of respective heartbreak we endured separately before
meeting, then YOU CAN TOO.
That's EXACTLY why my Click With Him program is the PERFECT way to
make a big splash in online dating as quickly as possible...while
still going about it the RIGHT WAY. And you can find it right here:
http://www.clickwithhim.com/50off
What started as a plan for giving you everything you need to be truly
successful at online dating has been transformed to so much more.
In addition to my 30-Day Plan To Finding A Great Man Online (which
is based on my personal experience), I've included a VERY eye-opening
program I did with Scot on how to find a great man behind an average
profile.
Plus, you'll discover everything you need to know about online dating
security, how to handle e-mails and phone calls, and--of course--how
to WOW him on a first date!
I've invited some fun guests like Amy Waterman and Renee Piane, and
have recently added full transcripts so you can listen OR read.
So why not put the "Valentine's Day Blues" in the rear-view mirror and
make the most of this INCREDIBLE time to be online?
And to make it EVEN easier, the link below allows you to get my Click
With Him program for a full 50% off...but only for a limited time:
http://www.clickwithhim.com/50off
If you've ever considered getting Click with Him, you really couldn't
pick a better time to do so than RIGHT NOW.
And when you do, pick up a F-R-E-E month of access to my special Keys
To Bliss Member Site at no extra charge.
There you'll find even more of my VERY BEST dating advice and special
surprises for today's modern yet feminine woman.
It's the perfect compliment to what you'll discover in Click With Him.
I'll be chatting with you again soon...
Have fun,
Emily McKay
=====
X & Y Communications is dedicated to making you the most skilled
participant in the dating world you can be, at whatever stage of
life you are in. It's all about straight talk about the most
creative subjects, somehow encompassing character-based principles
while being neither too shy nor too judgmental to hit the important
things head on. The basic stuff you've heard a million times isn't
rehashed around here. Enjoy!
Please also note that the information in this newsletter is for
entertainment purposes only and is not intended to constitute
professional advice.
(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2012. All Rights Reserved.
This e-mail newsletter is a free service of X & Y Communications.
It is never sent to those who have not asked for it. If you
believe you have been sent this message in error, please respond
and we will kindly remove you from our mailing list.