[X&Y Emily] Body Language And Being Quirky
Published: Wed, 07/18/12
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Now on to a great question from a reader all the way from India...
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BODY LANGUAGE AND BEING QUIRKY (READER QUESTION)
Dear Emily,
Thank you so much for your e-mails. They are informative.
Congratulations! I saw photos of your new daughter on your blog.
She looks beautiful. I hope you are doing well and your sons as well.
Congratulations again.
I do have a few questions.
First, what kind of body language makes a man feel comfortable and
allured to a woman?
Second, with so much relationship advice out there I feel like I
could lose track of who I really am. How do I be myself and still
be irresistible? I don't want to lose any of my interesting quirks.
Thanks so much again!
With warm regards,
Nidhi (Lucknow, India)
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Hello Nidhi. Thank you for writing and for being so sweet.
I'm glad you enjoy these newsletters. As for Sarah, she is happy and
healthy, but HUNGRY! LOL :-)
Your question is a super one. Body language can cover so much, from
where the hands go to how to sit, walk, stand, open or close arms and
so on.
First of all you have to be relaxed and comfortable. All body
language (including gestures and motions) should above all be feminine.
For example, sitting down you can cross your legs at the knees, which
is very sexy or you can cross them at the ankles then put them to the
right side or left this of your body is sensual but tasteful.
Whatever the case, the key is to keep the knees together. The next
time you're in public pay attention to how women sit. You will find that nowadays
a lot of women sit like men. It would be compared to a man sitting
like a woman. It's a turn off. I asked Scot and he agreed 100%--so
men definitely notice these things!
When it comes to dating advice, you have to pick that which makes you
a better person. There is lots of advice on how to trick men or
women and how to fake things.
There are also a surprising number of books on how to get over bad
things without focusing on GOOD things instead.
Still other advice might tell you you're a "goddess" and that women
can do no wrong, all the while bashing men and offloading the blame
onto them for everything. Some such books are even written by men (!).
This is the kind of advice to avoid. Such can often actually increase
your personal level of hurt and bitterness--which isn't making you a
better woman who will attract a man of high character.
You don't have to be someone you are not to get a man interested in
you. Being a great person and knowing how to demonstrate it will be
a big help on capturing a man's attraction towards you.
Remember always that taking advice on "how to get what you want" is
never going to impress a high quality man who isn't desperate to
date any woman who can fog a mirror.
Deserving what you want instead is always a better plan to making a
man truly want you.
As far as the quirks, as long as it's not a masculine quirk like
burping the ABC's--or something so eccentric so as to become decidedly
creepy--I'm sure it is fine to keep.
Our cute little idiosyncrasies, however unique they are, can be exactly
what make us endearing to the type of guy we're most interested in.
Depending on the quirk it could be used to your advantage... even if
it's something like a little snort when you laugh...LOL!
Thanks again for reading and for being so sweet.
Have fun,
Emily McKay
P.S. Would you like Scot and I to do another X & Y On The Fly
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...and let us know what's on your mind!
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