[X&Y Emily] Is Being Picky Enough Or Is There More To It?
Published: Sat, 11/10/12
EMILY McKAY'S KEYS TO BLISS NEWSLETTER
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IN THIS ISSUE: As you well know, I'm all for being picky. But
you also have to reserve your right to be picky by deserving
what you want...
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THE SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO A MAN
It takes a lot to shock me, but this video made me go "Wow":
Click to Watch - 'The Single Most Important Thing to a Man'
It explains the single most important thing to a man when it
comes to having a relationship.
After the secret is revealed, you'll discover how to trigger this
one critical emotion in your guy to draw him closer to you and
make him almost addicted to you long term.
What I love most about this is that it's nothing manipulative.
It's a basic human need that happens to be MUCH more important
to men than to women--which is why we women so often overlook
it...and accidentally send great guys running:
Click to Watch - 'The Single Most Important Thing to a Man'
If you think guys are "complicated" or "hard to figure out",
guess again...
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IS BEING PICKY ENOUGH OR IS THERE MORE TO IT?
Being picky is important. But if you keep on meeting great men who
meet your standards only to eventually lose them, then what more is
needed?
It's one thing to be picky, another to get Mr. Right's attention
...and yet another thing to draw *lasting* attraction.
Are you ready for Mr. Right? When you meet him will you be what he
wants?
Think about the man you want to attract. What kind of woman will
he want? Sweet, kind, loving, strong, trustworthy, independent and/
or fun to hang out with?
We have all met women who are on PMS all year round, it seems. Are
you one of them?
Do you have anything interesting going on in your life to offer Mr.
Right? If not, find something fun to do.
I had a friend who had searched for her Mr. Right for 10 years, and
made sure that when she met him she had an idea of what he would
likely require from his future life partner.
She made sure she met his standards ahead of time, and in the process
she never lost touch with who she truly is as a person.
She continued to maintain her thoughts, beliefs, morals, principles
and identity...and does so even to this day.
You, me and everyone around us are capable of making improvements to
ourselves without changing who we are at our core. We can be kinder
or learn to manage our household budgets better.
These are things that would make our lives richer, better and more
attractive to men.
"Accept me the way I am, or not." If a man told you this and he was
far from meeting your standards (e.g. not having a job and/or was an
outright jerk) you would say "NOT", wouldn't you?
A particular man may or may not realize it up front, but he just might
have to make improvements to himself in order to hold your attention.
So then, what's true for men is also true for US. After all, we're all
human beings.
Do not settle for less than high standards from your future life
partner OR from yourself. The truth is, you really don't have to
as long as you're true to being the very best version of your most
authentic self.
Have Fun,
Emily McKay
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This e-mail newsletter is a free service of X & Y Communications.
It is never sent to those who have not asked for it. If you
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IN THIS ISSUE: As you well know, I'm all for being picky. But
you also have to reserve your right to be picky by deserving
what you want...
=====
THE SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO A MAN
It takes a lot to shock me, but this video made me go "Wow":
Click to Watch - 'The Single Most Important Thing to a Man'
It explains the single most important thing to a man when it
comes to having a relationship.
After the secret is revealed, you'll discover how to trigger this
one critical emotion in your guy to draw him closer to you and
make him almost addicted to you long term.
What I love most about this is that it's nothing manipulative.
It's a basic human need that happens to be MUCH more important
to men than to women--which is why we women so often overlook
it...and accidentally send great guys running:
Click to Watch - 'The Single Most Important Thing to a Man'
If you think guys are "complicated" or "hard to figure out",
guess again...
=====
IS BEING PICKY ENOUGH OR IS THERE MORE TO IT?
Being picky is important. But if you keep on meeting great men who
meet your standards only to eventually lose them, then what more is
needed?
It's one thing to be picky, another to get Mr. Right's attention
...and yet another thing to draw *lasting* attraction.
Are you ready for Mr. Right? When you meet him will you be what he
wants?
Think about the man you want to attract. What kind of woman will
he want? Sweet, kind, loving, strong, trustworthy, independent and/
or fun to hang out with?
We have all met women who are on PMS all year round, it seems. Are
you one of them?
Do you have anything interesting going on in your life to offer Mr.
Right? If not, find something fun to do.
I had a friend who had searched for her Mr. Right for 10 years, and
made sure that when she met him she had an idea of what he would
likely require from his future life partner.
She made sure she met his standards ahead of time, and in the process
she never lost touch with who she truly is as a person.
She continued to maintain her thoughts, beliefs, morals, principles
and identity...and does so even to this day.
You, me and everyone around us are capable of making improvements to
ourselves without changing who we are at our core. We can be kinder
or learn to manage our household budgets better.
These are things that would make our lives richer, better and more
attractive to men.
"Accept me the way I am, or not." If a man told you this and he was
far from meeting your standards (e.g. not having a job and/or was an
outright jerk) you would say "NOT", wouldn't you?
A particular man may or may not realize it up front, but he just might
have to make improvements to himself in order to hold your attention.
So then, what's true for men is also true for US. After all, we're all
human beings.
Do not settle for less than high standards from your future life
partner OR from yourself. The truth is, you really don't have to
as long as you're true to being the very best version of your most
authentic self.
Have Fun,
Emily McKay
=====
(c) X & Y Communications, 2012. All Rights Reserved.
This e-mail newsletter is a free service of X & Y Communications.
It is never sent to those who have not asked for it. If you
believe you have been sent this message in error, please respond
and we will kindly remove you from our mailing list.