[X&Y EMILY] Why Should He Fall In Love With You?
Published: Thu, 07/26/07
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WHY SHOULD HE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU?
The number one question I get is "How do I get a man to fall in
love with me?" The real question should be "Why *should* he fall in
love with me?" I had this conversation with a co-worker back some
time ago. He went on and on about what he wanted in a partner--and
it was a long wish list of what she can do for him. After he
finished I asked, "What do you have to offer her?" It stopped him
dead in his tracks. He had never thought about it. Have you?
We all want a partner who can fulfill our basic needs. However we
also need to be able to fulfill our partner's needs if we want him
to fall in love with us. There are six basic needs a man wants
from a woman:
1. Being his match, sharing the same ideas and future goals like
having kids, where to live, etc.
2. Having great qualities that demonstrate strong character:
A. Honest - being consistent in words and actions
B. A genuine giver (men get tired of women who take advantage of
them.)
C. Kind to everyone (being rude to the waiter is a turn off for men.)
D. A love for people and life
E. Mild in temper, patient. Avoid being moody and sensitive.
The list goes on and on.... (Think about your best qualities and
your worst qualities, working on the more challenging traits)
3. Having fun, like ice-skating, tennis, going for a run in the
park. Have a hobby or activity in your life. It's amazing how many
women don't...at all.
4. Great with kids. Even if he doesn't plan on having kids, men
love to be nurtured and mothers are great at that.
5. The ability to manage a household: finances, cleaning, cooking
and more. Do you have to (nor should you) do all the work?
Nope...but the fact remains--men love women who can do these things .
6. Knowing you can be his best friend, to depend on you to be a
good listener and not judge him. This kind of bond takes time to
develop.
7. Take care of yourself physically. You do not have to be a
'supermodel', ladies. But keep yourself clean, neat and stylish and
watch the results. Your "perfectly imperfect" match will adore you
for it.
So what about"sex"? Sure a guy needs that from a woman...but in
healthy relationships men and women both acknowledge and take care of
each other's needs in that area. In other words...it's yet another
aspect of a healthy relationship where there should be both give and
take.
Have fun,
Emily
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