[X&Y Emily] The Importantance Of Pickiness
Published: Thu, 11/01/07
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IN THIS ISSUE: To be, or not to be...that's the question. At least
as far as PICKINESS is concerned!
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THE IMPORTANTANCE OF PICKINESS
If your looking for a partner in life you need to be as picky as
possible. Otherwise you will end up with a boyfriend/husband who
does not come close to your standards of what you want. The sad
thing is that most women end up with men who they are no longer
attracted to. Why? Because you and I and every other woman out
there has been told that we are too picky and should lower our
standards.
Otherwise we will grow old alone. Is that a scary thought?
My best friend in high school is the absolute example of being
picky. To this day I personally have never met anyone more picky
than her. She refused to lower her standards, even if it meant
never meeting Mr. Right and ending up old and alone. She knew
exactly what she wanted in her future husband. No one besides her
believed that this man could possibly exist. After 10 years of
actively searching and meeting many great men who always fell just
short of her requirements, she finally met her Mr. Right. Within a
year of dating they were married. For the past 10 years of her
marriage she has been living the life she has always wanted and
continues to have a blissful relationship.
Just think how life would have turned out so differently for her if
she had listened to everyone who told her to settle. This could be
you. What is the scarier thought? Settling for someone who is
"just okay" or having to perhaps wait for 10 years or more to meet
Mr. Right?
You should be as picky as you possibly can. You want to make sure
that when you choose your life partner that the both of you will
truly be happy together for LIFE. It's what helps the spark stay
alive. Continuing that passion and joy the two of you should share
together.
Is being picky enough or is there more to it? Find out in the next
Keys to Bliss Newsletter.
Have fun,
Emily
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