[X&Y EMILY] Are You Willing To Take RISKS?
Published: Fri, 07/06/07
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ARE YOU WILLING TO TAKE RISKS?
Welcome to "Keys to Bliss", and MANY thanks to the MANY of you who
already joined. The response has been overwhelming!
Our topic for today is "Are you willing to take RISKS?"
Truly, we take risks every day. Some are by choice and others are by
necessity. For example: You drive your car because you have to be
somewhere important; the risk is there maybe a serious accident,
but you take that risk out of necessity. You may choose to have
your hair colored, risking that there may be a bad reaction to the
chemicals. But you take that risk by choice.
However, the most compelling dilemma is when we know a different
path than the one we are on is good for us, yet we fail to take the
risk of making the change because we are frozen by fear. There's a
shoe factory I know of with a number of employees who have been
there ten, twenty or even thirty years making barely more than
minimum wage doing the same thing over and over again, day after
day. The thought of changing jobs--and any potential "risk"
associated with that change-- is to frightening that the so called
warm, safe, status quo paralyzes them. So they stay, thinking that
it's better than nothing--or at least the lesser of the two evils.
Does this sound familiar?
So many women do the same in their dating lives. The guy they are
dating or interested in is better than nothing, even though they
are not happy with him or the relationship and most definitely not
in a blissful state of life. Or perhaps there may be a serious
flaw in ourselves that we need to change in order to attract
someone great. But change is hard and therefore many choose to
stay in the so-called warm, safe, status quo feeling, even though
they know they won't get anywhere. How sad that the fear of change
causes us to not take the necessary risk to get want we want.
Ironically, many times making bad choices seems to feel like the
better option because it feels "safer". Hopefully we won't wake
up 30 years from now wishing and thinking "What if _______?" By
then it will be too late, life will have passed you by leaving you
with nothing to show for it. We have all met someone in our
lifetime who has squandered his or her life away, ending up bitter
towards the world.
The way I always saw it was this: "NEVER BEING BLISSFULLY HAPPY
WAS WORSE THAN THE RISK ITSELF". This sample thought (of belief)
is powerful enough to cause anyone to take the necessary risk to
get what one wants. The pain and work are so worth it. I know I
have been down the road of pain, tears, break-ups and so on, but I
always knew that I was a step closer to having a blissful
relationship, which I have today. I am glad to have never settled
for what was "ok", or "just comfortable", but to made the necessary
changes in my life to arrive where I am today.
This newsletter will be all about how to have a blissful life.
It's not just a dream. And it's not by accident that you get to be
happy. It takes risk, solid decisions and a "call to action" on
your part to make it happen. Put that all together and you will
get there.
Isn't it time? If so ask yourself these questions:
1. Do you want to be blissfully happy?
2. Do you want to stay in a bad relationship instead of freeing
yourself to find the true Mr. Right?
3. Do both you and your partner want to make improvements to better
your bond to each other?
4. Does the thought of never getting the life you want frustrate you?
5. Are you tired of men hurting you? Is there a pattern of this
scenario repeating itself in your life?
6. Want a man to love and truly cherish you?
7. Do you wish you could get more men--or BETTER men--to take notice
of you?
8. Are you sick of taking second place to work, friends, video games,
porn, and/or whatever else it maybe? Wouldn't you rather be #1 in
your man's life?
9. Are you ready to get out there and have fun dating?
10. How can I handle being alone? (This is a normal but major fear
for many women today.)
Ladies if you are wanting a great relationship--the very best you
can find--then you have come to the right place.
You have the POWER to make your LIFE what you want it to be. All
of the dating advice books that I have read tend to talk about life
passively happening to you with no control on your part. It's
mostly all about suffering through singleness until you can get
some guy to marry you, or how to recover from damaging
relationships and fruitless chases after the wrong type of guys. If
you are like me, you just don't believe that feeling sorry for
yourself really helps much, except maybe for the very short term.
You have the power to make some simple changes that can make many
men want you who otherwise "would not be interested". It's about
taking control of your life and making GREAT choices. I am glad to
have you on my newsletter because we will touch base on many these
concerns. We'll cover a lot of these issues in this space, but
there really is SO MUCH to cover when it comes to making our dating
lives GREAT...yet life is too short to continue being frustrated!
That is exactly why I have "Power Session for Women", where we
really get into depth on how you can effectively impact your life,
empowering you to deserve a great man--starting RIGHT NOW.
I want you to be successful in your personal life....do YOU?
Everyone should share the happiness I'm experiencing and the
comfort of knowing that you have a truly warm, fuzzy, secure life
with your partner.
Have fun,
Emily
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