[X&Y Emily] Avoid The Valentine's Day Blues
Published: Wed, 02/13/08
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IN THIS ISSUE: Valentine's Day is only a day away. Whether you have
a man in your life at the moment or not, you can make it meaningful
in more ways than you think...
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AVOID THE VALENTINE'S DAY BLUES
Valentine's Day is almost here. If you are like many single people
or even couples who are in an unhappy relationship, you maybe
dreading this holiday.
Today's commercial world puts so much pressure on a man to buy
expensive gifts to show his "love" for a woman. In addition, many
women are hoping that maybe this time their gift will be an
engagement ring. Sweet, but what if it doesn't happen?
Most of us have had a Valentine's Day where we did not get what we
hoped for. A date? A kiss? Flowers? Commercials and TV shows
play up this romantic day as important--that we have to have a date
and gifts to feel special.
Just this morning I was listening to the radio and the DJ
recommended that us women should send flowers to a girl friend of
ours whom we thought would not receive anything this holiday. For
good measure, we should be sure to mark it "anonymous" in order to
make her feel special.
I believe all my girl friends are special year round whether they
are in a relationship or not. The last thing my friends need is to
be lead on a goose chase for someone who doesn't exist.
I remember when I worked in an office that when the florist showed
up we all wanted to know who the flowers were for. Many of us
hoped it was ourselves, of course.
You are not alone if you have thought about sending yourself
flowers or a gift to work.
For some women who are not in a relationship during Valentine's
Day, the feeling of not receiving anything or not receiving
affection on that day can be depressing.
Men also experience the same disappointment of not having someone
to celebrate with, by the way.
With all the pressures and disappointments it's easy to get the
Valentine's Day Blues.
What can we do to avoid the blues?
To put things in perspective, Valentine's Day is only one day out
of the whole year. Participants in a healthy relationship do not
rely on a calendar day to express their undying love for one
another.
Everyone in a relationship should try making every day like
Valentine's Day, letting each other know with both words and
actions that they care. By doing this, it will lessen any
disappointment if the day did not go as planned, knowing that we
can try again on another day.
This is the day that both men and women evaluate their
relationships. It's like a yearly reminder to put us back on track
to rekindle a good partnership or to go out and find our true love
with whom we can live happily ever after with.
It's no wonder that one source estimates that 6 million will be
breaking up on the day calling for romance.
After Valentine's Day the online dating sites have a jump in
memberships due to so many break ups over the holidays and because
many are tired of going through the holidays with out someone by
their side.
There will be men online looking for a loving partner to share their
life. For many men, this will be their first time online. The
statistics show that about 90% of the men quit online dating sites
within 3 months.
Timing is important and now is the time to be online.
Can you be the kind of woman who represents a GREAT online dating
experience for a GREAT man...the kind who could otherwise become
quickly fed-up with flakiness and game playing from other women online?
If you are single and available then now could be a perfect time
for you to find your life partner.
And in order to maximize your success, you'll need a game plan .
After all, the women who are able to rise above a sea of average
online profiles are the ones who radiate charm, class and all-around
beauty.
The profiles of such women stop men dead in their tracks...and cause
them to click the "E-mail Now" button.
As you know, Scot and I met online. As I write this, I am nearing
completion of my very first program for you on how to find, attract
and be BLISSFUL with the highest quality man imaginable.
After much deliberation, it will be called:
Click With Him -- A Woman's Guide To Online Dating Success And Beyond
I know...it's kind of overdue...but I've been putting my heart and
soul into this for months now.
What started as a plan for giving you everything you need to be truly
successful at online dating has been transformed to so much more.
In addition to my 30-Day Plan To Finding A Great Man Online (which
was my personal experience), I've included a VERY eye-opening program
I did with Scot on how to find a great man behind an average profile.
Plus, you'll discover everything you need to know about online dating
security, how to handle e-mails and phone calls, and--of course--how
to wow him on a first date.
I've invited some fun guests like Amy Waterman and Renee Piane, and
have added even more surprises.
And like Scot has done for his VIRTUOSITY program for guys, I've made
the pledge to continue expanding Click With Him on a regular basis.
"Dynamic Content" is the key.
The next time you hear from me, Click With Him will be AVAILABLE. And
I promise not only that it will be amazing valuable to you, but that
it will be within your budget.
How's that for exciting?!
So you'll be hearing from me in about a week. For now, though, if
you'd like a primer on exactly what all of our character-based concepts
are based on, check out the women's version of Deserve What You Want:
http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/women
...and when you do, pick up the latest edition of my monthly series
Keys To Bliss For Women at no extra charge. I always include the
first month for free with any order.
It's the perfect combo to get you all set for what Click With Him
has to offer.
http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/women
I'll be chatting with you again soon.
Have fun,
Emily
P.S. There's a new X & Y On The Fly podcast available on "How To
Fall Out Of Love". Renee Piane is our guest. Enjoy! You can find
it on iTunes or at:
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