[X&Y EMILY] Is Being Picky Enough Or Is There More To It?
Published: Fri, 12/07/07
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IN THIS ISSUE: Last time we talked about being picky. But is
pickiness enough? You also have to reserve your right to be picky
by deserving what you want!
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DECEMBER 9th IS OUR FIRST ANNIVERSARY:
It has already been a year since Scot and I were married. So much
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Now on to the newsletter...
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IS BEING PICKY ENOUGH OR IS THERE MORE TO IT?
Being picky is important. But if you keep on meeting great men who
meet your standards and losing them, then what more is needed?
It's one thing to be picky and another to get Mr. Right's attention
..and yet another thing to draw *lasting* attraction.
Are you ready for Mr. Right? When you meet him will you be what he
wants? Think about the man you want to attract. What kind of
woman will he want? Sweet, kind, loving, strong, trustworthy,
independent or fun to hang out with? We have all met women who are
on PMS all year round, it seems. Are you one of them? Do you have
anything interesting going on in your life to offer Mr. Right? If
not, find something fun to do.
In the last newsletter I spoke about my friend. If you'll recall,
she had searched for her Mr. Right for 10 years, and made sure
that when she met him that she had an idea of what he would likely
require from his future life partner. She made sure she met his
standards, and in the process she never lost who she is as a person.
She continue to maintain her thoughts, beliefs, morals, principles
and identity even to this day.
"Accept me the way I am" or not. If a man told you this and he was
far from meeting your standards like not having a job and/or was an
out right jerk you would say "NOT". He many not realize it but
he will have to make improvements to himself in order to hold your
attention. I know this is a basic example but you get my point.
You, me and everyone around us are capable of making improvements to
ourselves without changing our identity. We can be kinder or learn
to manage our household budgets better. These are things that would
make our lives richer, better and more attractive to men.
Do not settle for less than high standards from your future life
partner or from yourself.
Have fun,
Emily
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