[X&Y Emily] Happy Mother's Day, Mamas (And Future Mamas!)
Published: Sun, 05/10/09
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IN THIS ISSUE: My warmest Mother's Day wishes to all of you who are
celebrating on this glorious day!
Here is a VERY SPECIAL edition of the Keys To Bliss newsletter,
featuring a gift to you mamas (and future mamas!) out there that
is sure to make you glow with delight...
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LADIES, ARE YOU READY TO STOP "KISSING FROGS"
I can't count how many women's online profiles I've read with a line
in it to the effect of "I'm sick of kissing frogs!"
Sometimes it's even the headline!
Well, the VERY BEST way I can think of to END the string of "Mr.
Wrongs" in your life and to START attracting HIGH-QUALITY GUYS
instead is right here:
http://www.clickwithhim.com/online_dating
And there's a reason why it's called "Click With Him". After all,
you don't want to end up with just ANY man...you want a deep
connection with the RIGHT man who will cherish you.
Summer's here and it now's the time to meet him...and you can even
meet a great guy ONLINE! (Scot and I met on Match.com)
So take a quick look. There are four videos with useful tips for
you that you can start using TODAY:
http://www.clickwithhim.com/online_dating
And now, here's my "Mother's Day Celebration" for you!...
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MY MOTHER'S DAY "PRESENT" FOR YOU!
OK, ladies...what you are about to read is a newsletter written by
a MAN.
Actually, that MAN is none other than my husband and fellow-dating
coach Scot!
I still can't believe I only discovered this only recently...because
as a Mom (and a single mom for a while there also) my jaw dropped in
amazement as I read it.
In fact, I actually laughed AND cried the first time I read it...and
it still has that effect on me even now.
Apparently, this was one of Scot's FIRST FIVE newsletters he EVER
WROTE...which he sent to a list of about 20 "subscribers" almost
exactly one month before he and I met.
So bear in mind how important this message must have been to him
if it was one of the first ones he ever shared with readers.
And now that I'm the mother of his little son, I can vouch for the
fact that Scot means what he says...
Knowing all of that, sharing it with you was a MUST from the very
second I saw it, but I've been saving it as a Mother's Day present
for you.
So whether you are a hot mama now, or a FUTURE hot mama...let this
bring big, wide smile to your face. Yes, ladies...a REAL DAD not
only loves a REAL MOM, you turn him on.
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MOTHERHOOD IS HOT --by Scot McKay
I can't believe the mixed-messages our media-driven society sends
regarding today's topic.
If you watch daytime television or Lifetime Network (which I don't,
whenever possible) you'll be hit with commercials depicting some
hot mommies doing their typical superhuman things, including
dealing with several toddlers while looking good doing it.
Then, watch late-night television (which I also don't, whenever
possible) and you'll be hit with infomercials designed to make
women feel self-conscious about what motherhood has done to their
physical appearance.
Whatever. You know from last week's newsletter how I feel about
what the media has done to screw up our concept of what really is
attractive to the opposite sex. So make no mistake about it.
Motherhood can be, and I would argue usually is, sexy. In just
about every way.
The low hanging fruit here (no, not that) is the rise of MILFdom in
recent years. If you are unfamiliar with the term look it up
elsewhere, but for all intents and purposes MILF = sexy mom.
For some reason, and a good one, even younger guys have figured out
that Stacey's Mom Has Got It Going On. That's no joke either. If
you are a 35-year-old woman with an online profile, you might be
getting "messages" from younguns who haven't even cleared college
age yet. No, this isn't some weird (and recurring) software error.
They're digging you.
I have personally been out with several women in their thirties who
had daughters at a very young age. These kids are now in high
school. Each mama had a story to tell when I asked if there's ever
an issue when their daughters' little boy friends meet mom.
Um...yeah. One woman even has a pact with her daughter that they
won't date anyone closer in age to the other than themselves.
Hilarious, but true.
How about before a woman has even given birth--during her pregnancy?
Yeah ladies, we know...us guys hear all the time how "fat, etc." you
are getting. You feel disgusting. Well, you aren't. ESPECIALLY
to the Dad. Now we aren't talking about man-boy Idiot/Jerks here
who either 1) are using a woman's pending new family commitment
(and the fact that presumably she wouldn't dare leave him while in
that "condition") as an excuse to throw down with every chickie
babe silly enough to let him have a piece, or... 2) ...who are just
flat out morons.
Mama, if your man loves you, he loves you pregnant. When he tells
you that you are beautiful, will you please believe it? That's his
kid going on in there! In fact, some guys are turned on by
pregnant women in general, and there are Web sites to prove it.
If you look at scientific studies on how heterosexual men and women
become attracted to one another, it often comes down to archetypal
response to pointers of fertility. I mean, let's face it: sexual
attraction, from the natural aspect, comes down to procreation. He
or she who is more fertile is more attractive.
Fertility and gene-pool quality (which is another topic altogether)
are a large part of what makes us attractive to the opposite
gender. So here it is: I you are a mom already, it makes sense
that your proven fertility is going to make you attractive to men.
If you want to argue with me on this, go for it, but I believe very
strongly that this is the case.
At the very least, men often are not turned off by the physical
effects of pregnancy like women somehow seem to believe. On top of
all else, don't be surprised that many guys--if they are man enough
to admit it--actually have no issue with the stretch marks and any
other evidence that you have been pregnant before. I personally
believe that caesarian scars are sexy. And I'm not weird.
So is this only all about looking good? I really don't think so.
There is something about motherhood that changes a woman.
Nurturing in a feminine gift, and never is it displayed in all of
its glory more profoundly than through motherhood. Not all guys
understand this pragmatically, but many respond positively to such
things--even if subconsciously. After all, femininity attracts
masculinity by definition.
And then there's confidence, as another example. I know, "Yeah,
yeah...confidence is attractive." You've heard it before. But still,
moms tend to learn life's tough lessons about responsibility.
Especially single moms. Any guy who wants to find an amazing
woman--one with a confident attitude to take on the world
with--should hang out with a single mom or two. Nuff said.
And, you know what? It might not hurt to add how fatherhood tends
to be a turn on for women also, especially...moms. Big surprise
there, right? Have you ever noticed that moms and dads really tend
to appreciate each other--and at the raw attraction level? Yeah,
well, I'm a Dad...and I absolutely have.
Be good,
Scot
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