[X&Y] Settling Is For Suckers
Published: Fri, 01/21/22
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WHAT'S INSIDE: Do you have dating options you don't
even realize are there?
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GREAT MOTIVATIONAL SPEECH...BUT WHAT DO
I DO TO GET THE WOMAN I REALLY WANT?
Today's newsletter will charge you up. It'll make you want
to aim higher and deserve what you want.
BUT...what do you actually DO to make that happen?
How do you STOP attracting the WRONG women and
START attracting the RIGHT ones?
WELL...here's exciting news.
I've teamed up with Marni Kinrys for a special one-time
event.
Yeah, you know her...she's the "Wing Girl".
This upcoming Tuesday she has invited me to do a
full-on masterclass on exactly this subject:
https://mountaintoppodcast.com/masterclass
Like me, Marni has a HUGE list of subscribers to her
newsletter, and she's only offering 150 seats to this
LIVE masterclass.
A lot of preparation has gone into this, and rest
assured I'm bringing my "A-game".
For sure...this is a ONE TIME event.
And yes, it's interactive. But even though you'll
be able to ask anything you want and expect
answers, here's my personal guarantee:
This masterclass will prove to be more valuable
than PURE GOLD within the first five minutes
alone.
Marni tells me these monthly masterclasses sell
out extremely quickly, so if you want in click here:
https://mountaintoppodcast.com/masterclass
Yes, Marni only does these once per month, and
I'm "Mr. January". Imagine that.
And for an informative (and hilarious) preview of
what the vibe will be like , check out the latest
episode of The Mountain Top with Marni as my
guest. It was just released today:
https://mountaintoppodcast.com
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SETTLING IS FOR SUCKERS
Most men don't have a large pool of women to choose from
who are clamoring for their attention.
That's why so many end up marrying the first (and often
the only) person who is willing to "put up with us".
Invariably, that leads to having "settled".
"Settling" in turn leads to zero fulfillment from the relationship.
Guys who "settle" will always have their nose pressed to the
window gazing at greener pastures outside.
If you think that sucks, imagine how his wife must feel.
She is likely to become very bitter knowing that she is not
enough for him.
Feeling inadequate--let alone BEING so--is a humiliating
existence.
And of course, a man who has "settled" likewise feels
humiliated. Even others know he could have "done
better", and sometimes they speak up about it.
So who has the more miserable existence? The woman
who is forever feeling slighted or the man who is longing
for better...all the while embarrassed to be seen in public
with his partner?
I don't know and I don't care, frankly. The question is really
moot.
The point is YOU don't have to be EITHER ONE of those
people.
In your case, since you are reading this newsletter, you're
on your way to having more options.
As such, you are virtually eliminating any possibility you
will end up "settling", as indeed most other guys do.
Instead of taking whatever you can get, even if only for a
single date, you'll have CHOICES.
This is THE key earmark of dating success. You are truly
attractive to women and are doing things right.
At that point, all that's left is to give yourself permission
to EXPLORE those options.
In my opinion, when you have the choice of numerous
worthy women, you should be dating several of them at
once...
...UNTIL you not only a clear picture of what you want in
a mate, but also until you've actually identified and
attracted the right woman
You don't have to sacrifice character or integrity in order
to do this effectively.
Your reputation as a man of integrity and class is not
at stake simply because you are getting to know lots
of women more often (and more efficiently, frankly) than
you used to.
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NOTE: How to date multiple people at once with dignity
is discussed in greater detail in The Leading Man:
http://www.the-leading-man.com/subscribers
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If you are only comfortable dating one person at a time,
then sure...it will be easier for you to manage your dating
life.
There's no fault in that, per se.
Yet, I maintain that life is simply too short to stick with
one potential partner you are unsure of until being fully
sure she is not what you want.
"Serial dating" isn't only woefully inefficient, it's more
stressful and I'd argue less fun...at least until you've got
the woman you KNOW is right for you in your life.
The only way to quickly gain an accurate perspective on
what your ultimate partner will be like is to date as many
women as you can.
Unless and until you do that, all of your conjecture about
what you want is merely unproven speculation, isn't it?
So then, to maximize your success in this most important
area of your life, leverage the options you have towards
a greater sense of who you want to be with long term.
Otherwise, you'll not only LOSE OUT on a wealth of
opportunities with women, you'll take WAY too long to
find the one you really, truly want.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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