[X&Y] Do You Only Lose It Around Beautiful Women?
Published: Tue, 02/08/22
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IN THIS EDITION: We as guys love beautiful women. There's
nothing wrong with that. But why do so many of the hottest
women tend to fall short of being the "whole package"?
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DO YOU LOSE IT ONLY AROUND BEAUTIFUL WOMEN?
[Ed. Note: Here's a "classic" newsletter from the past, where I
introduced the concept of being "clouded by beauty vision" that I
refer to so often nowadays. Enjoy...]
You've no doubt heard the term "tunnel vision" before. When
affected by said condition, a person can only focus on one narrow
focus to the exclusion of all else.
If you are on the last lap of the Grand Prix de Monaco shadowing
Fernando Alonso's McLaren for the checkered flag as if the Mercedes
logo were crosshairs, then tunnel vision is a good thing.
In other areas of life, not so much. If the dessert cart at The
Cheesecake Factory instills tunnel vision in you--or the blackjack
table at The Mirage--then there's a distinct possibility that
healthy balance will be lost.
And for us guys, the extent to which we focus our attention on a
woman's physical beauty can very easily cause us to lapse into a
similar trance.
Call it a state of being "clouded by beauty vision".
Now allow me to make myself abundantly clear. Guys are wired to
desire physically attractive women. I am certainly no exception.
By all means we should never, ever "settle" when it comes to
spending our time with a woman whom we genuinely find easy on the
eyes.
But somewhere along the road of never "settling" in this area,
something UNsettling tends to happen. When we encounter any random
example of the absolute most physically stunning woman on Earth,
it's mind-bending how often that's ALL she has to offer us.
It's not that she isn't intelligent or otherwise talented as a
human being. The issue is simply as I stated it.
ALL she has to OFFER a man is her beauty.
Having been extended special treatment her entire life by the
vast majority of men (and perhaps even most women) who kowtow to
her every whim, she believes her beauty to be enough to get her
through life.
In her mind, doing the heavy lifting necessary to cultivate
character depth or even a hint of a winsome personality isn't just
a low priority, it's flat-out irrelevant.
After all, her outward beauty carries her through life. Her
social proof is so indelibly secured as a beautiful woman that
adding further dimensions to her overall level of sharpness is seen
as having no real impact.
And indeed, in a shockingly high percentage of instances (notably
even in the workforce) it truly doesn't.
As guys, we may meet such women hoping for more and openly express
resentment or even disgust towards this state of affairs. Yet, the
ways of the world continue.
Why?
Well certainly everyone--man or woman--is ultimately responsible for
his or her actions and conduct.
But let's face it. Women respond to men who LEAD. And we as guys
have provided the exact kind of leadership that made this possible.
By falling all over ourselves to get close to a pretty woman and
cater to her needs, vast numbers of beautiful woman have simply
learned to respond accordingly.
And as long as the majority of guys out there gladly hand over all
of their dignity to female beauty, the world will continue to
revolve as advertised.
The crazy part is that since women also demand a man whom they can
respect, the perpetrators of this machine are exactly the same guys
who largely have ZERO chance at actually succeeding at getting close
to a beautiful woman.
Go figure.
Lest we believe this is a gender specific thing, consider the male
equivalent of what I'm talking about here.
Let's assume a certain guy is blessed with having great wealth.
Despite whatever else the fabric of his identity is composed of, he
finds that when it comes to what people want out of him there's a
distinct common denominator: His money.
He soon discovers that whatever his overall demeanor, his ability
to manipulate the masses with cold-hard cash remains, for the most
part, constant. After all, they are "clouded by dollar vision".
"Mean People Suck"? That's the mantra of the "little people".
This guy begins to believe that he was born to be a cash
dispenser...and that becomes enough for him, like it has long been
for others who associate with him.
But thankfully there are actually gracious multi-billionaires out
there who truly have great depth and make the world a better place
wherever they go.
And yes...there are also fantastically beautiful women out there who
have the inner character to match. Find such a woman and you
discover exactly what why we focus so much on deserving what you
want around here.
Can you deserve such a woman? Is that even a priority? Or are
you "clouded by beauty-vision"?
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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