[X&Y] 5 Foolproof Ways To Get Women To Approach You First
Published: Tue, 05/31/22
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WHAT'S INSIDE: Are there instances when you really can get
women to approach you? As it turns out, the answer is a
resounding "yes".
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5 FOOLPROOF WAYS TO GET WOMEN TO APPROACH YOU
Yesterday's newsletter on how women tend to advertise their interest
in us prompted a bunch of questions and comments from you.
A few of you are rock stars (literally, in one case) and were quick to
remind me that women really do throw themselves at some guys out
there.
Well, if you're among that ridiculously exclusive crowd that's all well
and good.
It's just that the rest of us aren't rock stars.
As such, what I talked about yesterday remains true. Women
generally prefer to put themselves in our way rather than being
overtly forward.
They aren't often going to come whack you upside the melon with
a 2x4 and announce, "Hey stoopid...I'm into you."
But even though most guys habitually miss women's indicators of
interest, all is not lost.
Therefore, this newsletter is dedicated to lazy guys everywhere who
want to hit the "easy button" and bypass all of the chick whispering
altogether.
Those, of course, are the guys who are going to prefer that women
do all the "heavy lifting" and approach them first, regardless of
what conventional wisdom suggests.
So here they are...five bona fide ways you can get women to
approach you for a change:
1. Be A Bartender Or Waiter
So you want to get your bar/club game in order? Try working at one.
Then again, if all the chumps out there persist in buying the
hottest women drinks, then that would obviate my point. You might
see fewer sexy chicks than you think.
As such, I might have to include "bouncer" on the A-list of must-
have jobs instead.
Whatever... Let's put you behind the bar and expect the best
anyway. After all, some hottie somewhere has got to be buying her
own drinks...um, right?
On second thought, why not just be a waiter? Go sling shrimp at
Red Lobster and serve Sailor's Platters all day to cuties.
But wait...you'd still have to approach them in that case, wouldn't
you?
Here's a better idea, work in the kitchen. That way the waitresses
have to approach you constantly...all shift long.
2. Take Your Dog To The Park
Ingredients: One Dalmatian. One red scarf around the dog's neck.
One frisbee.
Combine into one local park and mix thoroughly.
Now that's a recipe for getting mobbed by women if I've ever seen one.
What, no Dalmatian? A Labrador, Shetland Sheepdog or Australian
Shepherd should do.
Or just take a Chihuahua and stand there holding it until someone
wants to pet it.
And if all else fails, at least you aren't going home alone...right?
3. Work At The Mall
What do women love more than anything? Shopping, of course. And
where are the most shops to do such shopping located? You guessed
it...the mall.
Don't even think about working at Champs or some other guy store,
though.
And don't get your logic crossed up and go work at Fashion Bug or
something either. Only completely style-free women shop there.
But it's not like you can go to Petite Sophisticate and get a job
either. That's just flat-out creepy.
What you need to do is be the guy standing in the food court
handing out Chick-Fil-A. Hot women love Chick-Fil-A. And Orange
Juliuses too. I guess.
Nah, stick with Chick-Fil-A. The name says it all.
Never mind the fact that you're only getting minimum wage for your
trouble. This is about scoring the babes.
4. Babysit Your Niece And Go Public
First, get an older sister or brother. Next, make them have a kid
or two. Then, get the kid to grow up so she (preferably) is
potty-trained.
From there, you've got about 18-24 months to get to babysittin'.
Dress the cute little girl up and take her where women tend to hang
out. Like Chick-Fil-A.
100% true story...I got mobbed by the Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders
at ELP airport one day with this strategy.
Except the kid happened to be my daughter. And I was married to
her Mom. So no "digits". Bummer.
5. Wear A Red Shirt To Target
Now, let me be forthright. I don't have a lot of red shirts. After
all, red means "stop".
Nonetheless, one day I happened to "hit the Target" wearing one of
those red shirts.
If you haven't figured out the significance of this section yet,
people who work at Target wear red shirts.
And it's not even like they have a standard, company-issue uni or
anything. They just wear some red shirt they dug out of either the
closet or some freshman football player's locker.
This means that if the planets are aligned and you happen to drop
in the local Target with a red shirt on, you're fittin' to get
mobbed. By beautiful women. And by old guys who can't find the
Metamucil.
But the point is, they're approaching you.
OK, by now you've probably figured out that this is a semi-serious
newsletter, at best.
With all the time we spend around here talking about "manning up",
my role as a dating coach to men is always going to be to encourage
guys to do the approaching.
I can't really expect you to sit here and listen to me blather on
about "women approaching you" with a straight face.
After all, if you're waiting around for women to approach you, you
might wait a long time (unless SHE'S the waitress...or a flight
attendant, I guess).
Even if you take the list I gave above seriously, you've got to
admit there are some "surgical procedures" involved.
You've got to be in the right place at the right time under the
right circumstances.
So why not avoid the hassle altogether and go talk to some women?
Make the first move. Be proactive. It feels better than wearing a
red shirt to Target.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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