[X&Y] Do You Know Your "Type"? (This Will Surprise You)

Published: Tue, 09/20/22

You probably know what your "type" is. That's all good. But what "type" are YOU? The answer to this question and how you deal with it is all-important when it comes to creating attraction.

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IN THIS EDITION:  You probably know what your "type" is. That's
all good. But what "type" are YOU? The answer to this question
and how you deal with it is all-important when it comes to creating
attraction.

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DO YOU KNOW YOUR TYPE?


We talk about what type of woman we like a lot, don't we?

But have you ever stopped to consider what type YOU are? 

And here's an even deeper question:  Are you your OWN type? 

If you've ever found time to ruminate upon this subject, then you
may have some idea of how you tend to be categorized by MOTOS
(Members Of The Other Sex).  And here's the money question:  Are
you okay with that?

See, it's like this.  Most of us, unless we've signed an NBA
contract and were featured in an episode of MTV "Cribs",
probably have one car. 

In order to get that car (or is it a truck?), you went shopping.
My guess is that you knew up front whether you were going after a
four wheel drive SUV or a 2-seater sports car. 

Yeah, maybe in real life it was a used pickup truck or an econobox,
but for the sake of decorum here lets stay on point here.

If you need an SUV, the 2-seater won't cut it.  But if you want the
wind in your hair and autocross trophies, a foot and a half of
ground clearance and a tailgate is not the hot setup.

So if you are SUV hunting, you've got lots of options.  Most of us
in that position would rather land a Range Rover in our garage than
a Kia Sportage or a Jeep Compass (which I wouldn't personally wish
upon anyone). 

Sports car guy?  It's the Porsche GT3 over that new Hyundai
lawn-mower wannabee.

Many options of varying degrees of quality, but all easily
categorized under their appropriate "type".

Several years ago I saw a Hummer commercial that exhorted me to
"Experience The H2".

Similarly, and perhaps poetically, all that is entailed with piloting a
Ferrari was long ago coined "The Italian Experience".

So which "experience" are you?

Some great women are what I call the "Redhead Experience".  Others
are the "Exotic Experience".  Still others the "Girl Next Door
Experience".  Some are the "Tomboy Experience".  The list goes on.

Some guys are the "Clean Cut Jock Experience".  Others are the
"Artistic Emo Experience".  Some are the "Executive Experience".
You get my point.

Where the rubber meets the road here there's an ironic truth.  We
can CHOOSE which type we LIKE when it comes to MOTOS. 

Using the sports car analogy, we can then go out and DESERVE the
Aston Martin DB9 over the '91 Geo Storm (Ha...remember those?).

But when it comes to ourselves, let's face it...there's a "type" that
we almost always fall naturally into.  That's how others
"experience" us as individuals. 

And for better or worse we aren't always our own type.  So we try
to change the "experience".  And that can backfire.

I still remember one time probably ten years ago now when Emily
was flipping the channels while cooking dinner.

From the other room, all I heard was "OMG...why is this kid wearing
BLACK NAIL POLISH?"

That was pretty much my introduction to "The Pickup Artist" on
VH-1.

Indeed.  The guy should have thought twice about the black nail
polish.  That was clearly not his "experience".

Then again, were I to try and dress up like Sean Connery's James
Bond, I'd probably look more like Alex Keaton from "Family Ties". 

It's all about the "experience".

For some of you ladies who might have stumbled upon this
newsletter, tell the media to stick it. You don't really have to be the
"Blonde Experience" or the "Supermodel Experience" if you are
the "Brown Eyed Girl Next Door Experience". 

Trust us when we as guys tell you (or at least a solid percentage
of guys tell you) that we're fine with your type...even if YOU aren't.

Yeah, we may kick tires on SUVs, sports cars and maybe even a
three-quarter ton pickup truck when the mood strikes us.  But
ultimately, after all the test drives, we're only going to be parking
one such shiny object in our respective garages.

Who knows, we may have been somewhat drawn to the "Blonde
Experience" or the "Supermodel Experience" at first.  But maybe her
tank always seemed to be on "E", or we read a consumer report that
told us the electrical systems tended to fritz out. 

But I'll tell you, when we meet the "Brown Eyed Girl Next Door
Experience" in her ultimate iteration, that could stop us dead in
our tracks. 

You know, she's the one who deserves what she wants.

At that point, all of us who are shopping on that lot will know we're
dealing with the Ferrari 812 type instead of the Geo Storm with
the Earl Scheib paint job. 

Meanwhile, I'll be over here...at peace with the fact that I can't
fake "Cary Grant", but that plenty of women (including "Brown Eyed
Girl Next Door Experience", Ferrari such that she is over in the
next room) are all about The "Rudy Experience". 

So, I'm cool with that.  I stopped fighting what I can't control
years ago in favor of being the best possible version of my "type"
instead of a poor man's version of some other guy. 

Perhaps not coincidentally, I always loved how a four-door Audi RS4
can smoke a Corvette.  Whatever your "experience", go with it
instead of fighting it.  Then become the ultimate version of it.

Now if I could only get my Mother-In-Law to stop pinching my cheeks
in public. 


 
 



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