[X&Y] Have We Been Tricked Out Of Our Masculinity?
Published: Sun, 09/25/22
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IN THIS EDITION: If you don't speak in sexual innuendoes,
women aren't going to realize you're a sexual creature...right?
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WHAT WILL BE COVERED IN THE MASTERCLASS?
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COMEDY CLINIC: THE SUPERPOWER OF MAKING WOMEN LAUGH
Wednesday, September 28th 2022, 8pm EDT (GMT -4)
https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/mc-september-2022
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How to make women laugh with attractive humor
seems complex--and even intimidating--to most
men.
But it absolutely, positively doesn't have to be.
Since announcing this month's Masterclass For
Men I've been getting lots of questions from you
guys.
First of all, YES...you can do this WITHOUT
being a comedian, per se. Wait until you find
out all the "hidden" ways to be funny and make
women laugh WITHOUT having to tell jokes.
Yes...you'll emerge from this event empowered
to make women laugh in all the RIGHT ways, while
avoiding the unattractive ones.
Yes...it's going to be packed to the gills with
PRACTICAL (and hilarious) examples.
And YES...I'm going to show you WHY it all
works, which makes the "HOW" dead simple.
(Did you know women process humor
completely differently than how men do?)
And OF COURSE...you'd better believe I'll cover
how to make women laugh when messaging/texting
them, NOT only when talking to them.
Also...I'm going to make sure you're never left
flat-footed ever again when you encounter a
woman who's quick on her feet with a laser-sharp
wit. In fact, from now on those kind of women will
love YOU the most.
Here's just some of what else will be covered:
* Lots of ways to use simple (dare I say
"normal") conversation to make women
laugh (for real!)
* 9 ways to be funnier IMMEDIATELY...no
new skills or memorization necessary
* The 3 specific types of humor that are
like CATNIP to women...and the kinds
that AREN'T.
* Using "stealth mode" humor that most men
will NEVER figure out on their own
* How to turn things sexual once you've
made her laugh on a date (this will make
you GASP when you realize right away how
well it works)
* 11 super-easy ways to practice that will
help you master being HILARIOUSLY
attractive in record time (Hint: this is what
I did to really supercharge my wit)
* How to avoid the 5 massive mistakes most
men make (let THEM be "lame" from now on!)
AND IMPORTANTLY...
* What to do if you "bomb" in the moment...
and how to recover in a way that turns out
EVEN BETTER
Find the entire list of what's included here, and
secure your ticket:
COMEDY CLINIC: THE SUPERPOWER OF MAKING WOMEN LAUGH
https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/mc-september-2022
My guarantee is this Masterclass WILL transform
you into one of the relatively few men who charm,
thrill and ATTRACT women with the SUPERPOWER
of humor.
If I can do this, you can...starting THIS Wednesday:
COMEDY CLINIC: THE SUPERPOWER OF MAKING WOMEN LAUGH
https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/mc-september-2022
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READER QUESTIONS AND COMMENTS
Scot:
I've read your latest e-book plus listened to a few of
your podcasts, and they are all great. You always invite
questions, which I think is also great, so I'm going to
take the opportunity to ask one.
You talk a lot about letting out the natural masculinity
in all of us. That's got me thinking about how I constantly
self-censor myself around women by giving a neutered
response to what's going on around me instead of my
natural inclination, which is to respond with sexual
innuendo (if the situation could safely call for it).
The reason I do this is because I don't want to come
off as offensive, or worse, a threat to women.
You also talk about the fact that women need to feel
that they are safe around the guys they are with.
My question is how do I imbue my responses with
sexual overtones (and thus convey my masculinity),
while at the same time not making myself seem
offensive or threatening to women?
In other words, how can I be unapologetically
masculine without seeming to be a threat?
Patrick
Edmonton, Alberta
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Hello Patrick:
Imagine if all the women of the world stopped being feminine
because they thought you'd be offended by it.
Would they be doing the right thing? Would that make you
feel more "comfortable" with them?
Indeed, if sexual polarity ceased to exist altogether, would the
world be a more "date friendly" place?
The question is ridiculous to even ask, isn't it?
The very idea of being "unapologetically masculine", worded
as such, presumes that the very people masculinity is
designed to attract would somehow be repulsed by it.
All the press given to "toxic masculinity" these days is
basically a mind trick to make us think of masculinity
as a violent, offensive, destructive force.
But that's a perversion of actual virtuous masculinity.
Men who show strong leadership, make solid decisions
and build well-formed (dare I say compassionate) plans
to STOP violent, offensive and destructive forces are
indeed masculine in the way that's primally and irresistibly
attractive to women.
Notice I haven't yet mentioned the act of having sex itself.
That's because actual sexual activity is what is catalyzed
by masculine/feminine polarity, not the catalyst.
Thoughts of sex come as a result of attraction, not before
she's attracted.
That means "imbuing responses with sexual overtones" is
straight-up putting the cart before the horse.
In fact, even though most men make this mistake, it
strongly communicates to a woman that you DON'T
GET IT.
Simply talking about sex--either directly or indirectly--
doesn't positively affect sexual attraction any more than a
car salesman telling you that you should buy a certain car
makes you want to actually BUY it any more than you did
before.
And that goes DOUBLE if the car salesman pushes the
issue too early and or too aggressively...coming off as if it's
all about him.
Everyone knows it's the CAR ITSELF that makes you want
to buy it. Once you WANT the car, nobody has to talk you
into it.
So when it comes to creating that DESIRE in women
effectively, come off as a masculine man rather than a
neuter human being.
I promise the resulting sexual polarity will take care of
creating attraction all by itself.
This shouldn't be so much of a mystery to us because it's
actually not a gender-specific reaction at all. We as men
are really no different and the psycho-emotional level.
Think of it this way. Most men LOVE to be seen as an
effective provider for women, but only when we know she
appreciates EVERYTHING about us as men and is willing
to reciprocate fully with the wonderful benefits she brings
to us as a woman.
And what if we go out with a woman who clearly sees us
as nothing more than a human ATM machine? Well, we
resent that, of course. Only a man with horribly low
self-respect will continue to endure such a relationship.
"Big four" men who place a great value on high-quality
femininity and represent masculinity in the way that truly
turns women on have nothing to worry about.
Women who are "offended" under those circumstances
are the ones with the problem.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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Scot:
I've read your latest e-book plus listened to a few of
your podcasts, and they are all great. You always invite
questions, which I think is also great, so I'm going to
take the opportunity to ask one.
You talk a lot about letting out the natural masculinity
in all of us. That's got me thinking about how I constantly
self-censor myself around women by giving a neutered
response to what's going on around me instead of my
natural inclination, which is to respond with sexual
innuendo (if the situation could safely call for it).
The reason I do this is because I don't want to come
off as offensive, or worse, a threat to women.
You also talk about the fact that women need to feel
that they are safe around the guys they are with.
My question is how do I imbue my responses with
sexual overtones (and thus convey my masculinity),
while at the same time not making myself seem
offensive or threatening to women?
In other words, how can I be unapologetically
masculine without seeming to be a threat?
Patrick
Edmonton, Alberta
=====
Hello Patrick:
Imagine if all the women of the world stopped being feminine
because they thought you'd be offended by it.
Would they be doing the right thing? Would that make you
feel more "comfortable" with them?
Indeed, if sexual polarity ceased to exist altogether, would the
world be a more "date friendly" place?
The question is ridiculous to even ask, isn't it?
The very idea of being "unapologetically masculine", worded
as such, presumes that the very people masculinity is
designed to attract would somehow be repulsed by it.
All the press given to "toxic masculinity" these days is
basically a mind trick to make us think of masculinity
as a violent, offensive, destructive force.
But that's a perversion of actual virtuous masculinity.
Men who show strong leadership, make solid decisions
and build well-formed (dare I say compassionate) plans
to STOP violent, offensive and destructive forces are
indeed masculine in the way that's primally and irresistibly
attractive to women.
Notice I haven't yet mentioned the act of having sex itself.
That's because actual sexual activity is what is catalyzed
by masculine/feminine polarity, not the catalyst.
Thoughts of sex come as a result of attraction, not before
she's attracted.
That means "imbuing responses with sexual overtones" is
straight-up putting the cart before the horse.
In fact, even though most men make this mistake, it
strongly communicates to a woman that you DON'T
GET IT.
Simply talking about sex--either directly or indirectly--
doesn't positively affect sexual attraction any more than a
car salesman telling you that you should buy a certain car
makes you want to actually BUY it any more than you did
before.
And that goes DOUBLE if the car salesman pushes the
issue too early and or too aggressively...coming off as if it's
all about him.
Everyone knows it's the CAR ITSELF that makes you want
to buy it. Once you WANT the car, nobody has to talk you
into it.
So when it comes to creating that DESIRE in women
effectively, come off as a masculine man rather than a
neuter human being.
I promise the resulting sexual polarity will take care of
creating attraction all by itself.
This shouldn't be so much of a mystery to us because it's
actually not a gender-specific reaction at all. We as men
are really no different and the psycho-emotional level.
Think of it this way. Most men LOVE to be seen as an
effective provider for women, but only when we know she
appreciates EVERYTHING about us as men and is willing
to reciprocate fully with the wonderful benefits she brings
to us as a woman.
And what if we go out with a woman who clearly sees us
as nothing more than a human ATM machine? Well, we
resent that, of course. Only a man with horribly low
self-respect will continue to endure such a relationship.
"Big four" men who place a great value on high-quality
femininity and represent masculinity in the way that truly
turns women on have nothing to worry about.
Women who are "offended" under those circumstances
are the ones with the problem.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
=====
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