[X&Y] Say This When Meeting A Woman. It's Perfect.

Published: Fri, 11/25/22



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BRUNETTE FRIDAY?


Despite announcing "the best deal ever", at
least three of my favorite outdoor gear
companies only sent me a lousy 10% coupon
today.

Obviously, none of those people are from
Texas.

Here we believe BIGGER is BETTER.

This comes once per year, so I'm forking over
a BRAND NEW Black Friday special that is an
unbeatable combo of solid info AND having me
in your corner for a FULL YEAR.

Masterclasses, Un-Settled, 365 days of email
coaching and a live, 1-on1 coaching session
with me personally are all included...along with
even more goodies just to sweeten the deal.

Yes...you even get a $100 "wild card" credit
to complete your collection of X & Y
Communications programs with.

Listen, I completely get how you're trapped
under a pile of emails and leftovers.

That's why I STACKED this year's promo, made
it 100% FRESH for you AND slapped a 78%
savings on the whole thing.

Check it all out here...



Black Friday...Or is That Brunette Friday?



Those of you who have already gotten in on this
have dove into this ridiculousness like it was Hugh
Hefner's jacuzzi.

And since everything is indeed bigger here in
Texas, I'm leaving the door open until midnight
tomorrow night Pacific time:




Black Friday...Or is That Brunette Friday?



This is one of those deals you score and still talk
about how psyched you are ten years from now.

And remember, use PayPal and I'll upgrade you
to a full 60-90 minute coaching session at no
extra charge.

You can even use Easy Purchase to take three
months to pay.



A NOTE FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO WERE WAITING
ON THE RETURN OF "THE EVERYTHING PACKAGE"


Some of you have emailed me crying foul, hoping
for a package similar to last year's...containing
fifteen X & Y Communications programs and a
whole lot of extra goodies.

Far be it from me to leave you hanging:



The BF2021 Deal (Completely Different From This Year's)



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SOMETHING PERFECT TO SAY WHEN MEETING A WOMAN


I figured it was time for a haircut yesterday, so I went to the same
chick who cuts my hair as usual.

It was late afternoon on the day after a major holiday, and she
had been busy as hell on her feet all day. 

The simple truth that she was pretty much spent and ready to go
home was written all over her face.

When my turn came, it occurred to me to say a phrase I've had
in my back pocket for several years now, for use on just such an
occasion.

"So...what do you know that's good?"

She responded with a rather forlorn, "Good?  I'm going to have to
think about that one."

Without missing a beat I said, "Well, I'm not interested in hearing
anything bad, so out with it."

Gazing upward in a quick moment of thought, she looked back at me
and shrugged.  "Well, the weekend is here, huh?"

"That's GOOD" , I said, probably with a slightly victorious grin on
my face.

The corner of her mouth turned up ever so slightly.  She laughed
out loud, in a way that was eerily reminiscent of how women often
laugh right after they've finished crying.

Success.  I had "brought out the playful" in her. 

It works virtually every time. 

Now remember, I can't take a whole lot of credit for this whole
exchange.  It just sort of came to me a few years ago when I
first tried it.

But looking back on it, the real value of opening a conversation
with a woman in the manner I just described is that it pretty much
eliminates any reasonable possibility of getting a negative
response in return, doesn't it?

Think of it.  If you ask ANY red-blooded human being (female or
otherwise) "what they know that's good" and get a surly, negative
or even insulting answer, what can you immediately conclude?

If you said, "it's THEM and not ME, for sure" give yourself a
prize.

Check it out...just about anyone can find himself or herself in "a
mood" after a long, frustrating day.  If you say any old generic
thing to someone in that state, it theoretically might not end well.

But when you casually, but directly get them on the track of thinking
of what's GOOD, most decent people WILL check themselves before
ripping you a new one verbally.  

Anyone but a raging psychopath would feel horrible if they didn't.

By now you know that I'm not much into memorizing "openers", at
least in the tired, old pickup sense.  But sure, go ahead and try out
the strategy I just suggested for yourself and let me know how it
goes.

It's simple enough, and when you get right down to it it's not
really about the order of the words or even the "line" itself at
all.  It's about the vibe.

Mean and negative people suck, and most people DON'T want to be
downers, whether they think they can help it in the moment or not.

But I think the real beauty of asking, "What do you know that's good?"
is that it leads in a positive direction, yet in a way that
subcommunicates masculine confidence and character rather than
some sort of lame "Mr. Nice Guy" neediness.

What we're talking about here is lightening a woman up AND igniting
her femininity, all in one easy step.

I've recently started to refer to that magical combo as "warm levity"

And what do you know?  That's good.


Be Good

Scot McKay




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