[X&Y] Sandbaggers!
Published: Mon, 12/05/22
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IN THIS EDITION: Here's another simple mindset
change that will result in massive gains for you when
it comes to success with women.
change that will result in massive gains for you when
it comes to success with women.
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BE CHARMING, GET THE GIRL
Today I'm going to throw a somewhat unique twist
on the typical discussion about how to "get the girl".
When you come right down to it, it's about being
charming.
"Charm" is really nothing more than being likable.
It makes perfect sense that when women LIKE you,
you're going to do well with them.
And if they like you in a sexually charged way, so
much the better.
Obviously, knowing how to charm women is a
mission-critical skillset to acquire.
My Female Persuasion program remains the
absolute best (and most straightforward) plan for
making women love you:
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It's one of my most popular programs for good
reason. And right now is a great time to finally
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As you'll soon find out below, I'm in a great mood
today. So I'm giving you 50% off Female
Persuasion, PLUS also giving you my ever-
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That way, you'll make women love you AND have
the bold confidence to maximize all of those
opportunities.
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This all-new promo expires tomorrow night, so
be sure to take advantage of it while it's going
on.
This is a great chance to see a jaw-dropping
transformation in the way women respond to
you...and it's a LOT of fun.
Go ahead and give it a shot. My 365-day
guarantee is for real so you can't lose.
Today I'm going to throw a somewhat unique twist
on the typical discussion about how to "get the girl".
When you come right down to it, it's about being
charming.
"Charm" is really nothing more than being likable.
It makes perfect sense that when women LIKE you,
you're going to do well with them.
And if they like you in a sexually charged way, so
much the better.
Obviously, knowing how to charm women is a
mission-critical skillset to acquire.
My Female Persuasion program remains the
absolute best (and most straightforward) plan for
making women love you:
50% Off Female Persuasion + Invincible
It's one of my most popular programs for good
reason. And right now is a great time to finally
get your hands on it.
As you'll soon find out below, I'm in a great mood
today. So I'm giving you 50% off Female
Persuasion, PLUS also giving you my ever-
popular program Invincible with it.
That way, you'll make women love you AND have
the bold confidence to maximize all of those
opportunities.
50% Off Female Persuasion + Invincible
This all-new promo expires tomorrow night, so
be sure to take advantage of it while it's going
on.
This is a great chance to see a jaw-dropping
transformation in the way women respond to
you...and it's a LOT of fun.
Go ahead and give it a shot. My 365-day
guarantee is for real so you can't lose.
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SANDBAGGERS!
X & Y Communications is a thriving operation. As such,
guys often come to me for help with starting an online
business of their own.
I realize you're reading this newsletter to get practical
advice on getting better with women, so stay with me
here. I promise that's what this is about.
You see, there is a curious parallel between the state
of mind people adopt when they want to "be their own
boss" and when they'd like to "get the girl".
I often refer to "get laid quick" marketing hype as the
"get rich quick" scheme of the dating world.
It's not that I have anything against finding success
quickly.
The problem comes when we believe it has to be
ultimate success from day one, or "no go".
For example, advertisements for programs on
starting your own business feature slogans like, "fire
the boss TODAY".
Check it out, though. The first X & Y Communications
newsletter was on December 5th, 2005.
(YES...TODAY is actually the 17th birthday of X & Y
Communications, as fortune would have it.)
But guess what? I didn't officially leave my job in
the corporate world until September of 2006.
That's right. I didn't "fire the boss" before getting
my business rolling. I did plenty of trial and error and
made lots of mistakes before I was ready to cut the
safety net.
Ironically, the "fire the boss TODAY" mindset is what
keeps most people from EVER giving the ol' tyrant
the "heave ho" at all.
"Today" never seems to present itself. That's
because "today" will never, ever happen in
ONE day.
because "today" will never, ever happen in
ONE day.
Read that last line again. It's sort of obvious when
you really think about it, yet almost nobody looks
at it that way.
We expect immediate gratification because we're
told to.
Anything less than "today" quickly leads to a
perception (and therefore acceptance) of
immediate frustration instead.
And that's why most people give up...quickly.
Yes, this exact mindset pervades how we think
about getting better with women, too.
But we'll get there ONE step at a time. Rome
wasn't built in a day, but it WAS built in a
reasonable time frame.
wasn't built in a day, but it WAS built in a
reasonable time frame.
Just like I didn't jump off a ledge the day I started
X & Y Communications, I didn't wake up the day
after my divorce asking how to hook up with an SI
swimsuit model within the next 24 hours or bust.
What it all comes down to might surprise you.
That poisonous mindset of achieving at the "top
level" right now or not at all isn't born of healthy
motivation and ambition.
That's an illusion.
You might want to sit down for this. I think it's
actually all about tree-hugging our excuses
rather than doing something proactive to make
things better.
If we can't flip the boss "the bird" right now and
walk off into the sunset at the helm of our new
$10M per year online business, then we'll wait
until we can...even if we haven't bothered with
learning the first step.
Therefore, we're sort of comfortable waiting
forever.
Similarly, that's how we get used to talking to
ZERO women at all.
Even when I used to race BMX at the national
level there were guys who remained at the
intermediate skill level rather than moving up
to expert class, even though they were finishing
on the podium at just about every race.
level there were guys who remained at the
intermediate skill level rather than moving up
to expert class, even though they were finishing
on the podium at just about every race.
Why? Because they didn't think they should
"turn ex" until they could beat the guy who's the
National #1 expert racer.
We called those excuse-mongers
"sandbaggers".
Meanwhile, those of us who entered the expert
class took our lumps at first as "moto filler". But
what do you know? Little by little we got faster
over time, mostly because we were forced to
step up to the increased level of competition.
And sure, the guys we had been beating as
Intermediates eventually started turning experts
themselves. Forward progress.
Are you "sandbagging" when it comes to
getting better with women? If so, put away the
unreasonable need to have it all done by
tomorrow morning and take that small step of
doing something today.
That SOMETHING can be ANYTHING. You've
read enough of my newsletters by now, or
perhaps gone through a program or two of
mine.
As such, you have SOMETHING to go on.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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