[X&Y] You Did Everything Right...But She's "Not Feeling It"
Published: Fri, 10/21/22
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IN THIS EDITION: Can you be TOO "safe"?
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IT'S TIME TO KISS HER, ALREADY...
...But how?
And THEN what?
The truth is more men are FAR better at keeping
women OUT of their bedroom than welcoming
them INTO their bedroom.
The shocking part is how women are often left
disappointed, if not feeling REJECTED.
Wednesday’s Masterclass For Men will empower
you to be better prepared next time…and EVERY
time after that:
Masterclass For Men: From Platonic To Sexual
Wednesday, 26 Oct. @8p EDT (GMT -4)
https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/mc-october-2022
So HOW will you be better prepared, exactly?
Well, the full list of what's going to be covered
is there for you on the website, but here's just
a brief sample:
* 12 clear bridges from "just friends" to sex
that most men completely miss.
* 8 ways women really do telegraph sexual interest
...and yet all of them are blind spots for most men
* From now on, navigate and master sexual tension
so brilliantly it would make Casanova himself jealous
* Can you talk to average women, but freeze up when
she's attractive? Here's the foolproof cure.
* How to socially engineer the first kiss with virtually
any woman
* 4 types of female sexual personality types and how
YOU DID EVERYTHING RIGHT...BUT SHE'S "NOT
FEELING IT"
One of the "big four" factors that really matter to high quality
women is what I refer to as "the ability to inspire confidence".
When your masculine, confident presence attracts her, the
next step is help her feel safe and secure in your presence.
When a woman who is already attracted to you begins to
trust you, then you can begin to establish an ongoing
relationship on solid ground.
When her fear goes away, she feels free to act on her
feminine attraction to you.
Conversely, if she senses she's potentially in any kind of
physical danger when you're around, gets a negative vibe
from you or is "creeped out" in any way you'll get nowhere
with her.
So yes, a woman has to know you represent protection
and goodwill rather than the opposite.
But there's a plot complication.
Providing security to a woman (or inspiring confidence, if
you will) is very different than being "safe".
A woman doesn't want to feel as if she is physically
endangered at any time, but she does crave a man who can
bring a sense of adventure and excitement to her life.
Without the latter, she's bored to tears.
Similarly, she doesn't want to be "controlled" in a manipulative
manner, but she does want a man who is an assertive leader.
Without the latter, she'll lose respect for you.
Additionally, you can't become utterly predictable, stuck in a
rut of doing the same things over and over again. Yet, you
most certainly can't be irrationally compulsive either...that's
just scary.
Yes, you've got to know how to differentiate all of this, which
isn't always so easy to do.
Some guys miss the mark when making women feel safe
and comfortable in the basic sense.
But most guys, I'd contend, are actually on the opposite side
of the spectrum.
We're too "safe".
Again...to be clear, I'm not saying you should become flat-out
dangerous. I'm talking about something completely different.
We avoid disagreeing with her opinions. We dare not even try
so much as to hold her hand even when she's laughing,
playfully hitting us on the shoulder and staring at our lips in
anticipation.
And, ironically, it's precisely because we're hypersensitive to
"scaring women" that we end up this way. We don't want to
"impose upon them", so we chalk up our Failure To Deploy as
"being a gentleman".
Meanwhile, there's a woman somewhere who wanted to be
kissed and went home feeling frustrated or even rejected.
Worse, because we rarely leave the basement ourselves once
we come home from our jobs at Cubicle City, the most
"adventurous" activity we can come up with when we're with
her is the same trip to Chili's or Applebee's followed by
crashing on the couch chilling with Netflix...again.
Taking the "safe" option is not adding value to a woman's self-
perceived boring life, is it?
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IN THIS EDITION: Can you be TOO "safe"?
=====
IT'S TIME TO KISS HER, ALREADY...
...But how?
And THEN what?
The truth is more men are FAR better at keeping
women OUT of their bedroom than welcoming
them INTO their bedroom.
The shocking part is how women are often left
disappointed, if not feeling REJECTED.
Wednesday’s Masterclass For Men will empower
you to be better prepared next time…and EVERY
time after that:
Masterclass For Men: From Platonic To Sexual
Wednesday, 26 Oct. @8p EDT (GMT -4)
https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/mc-october-2022
So HOW will you be better prepared, exactly?
Well, the full list of what's going to be covered
is there for you on the website, but here's just
a brief sample:
* 12 clear bridges from "just friends" to sex
that most men completely miss.
* 8 ways women really do telegraph sexual interest
...and yet all of them are blind spots for most men
* From now on, navigate and master sexual tension
so brilliantly it would make Casanova himself jealous
* Can you talk to average women, but freeze up when
she's attractive? Here's the foolproof cure.
* How to socially engineer the first kiss with virtually
any woman
* 4 types of female sexual personality types and how
to ignite each one (This is BIG FUN)
* Perform the "Unfair Kiss" that causes women to lose
control with unbridled passion
* Smooth, effortless ways to move to somewhere "more
private"
* Steal an Arizona mountain biker's "accidental" secret
to getting naked with a woman
* Easily (and inexpensively) design first dates that
wake up her female urges and turn her on (No, it
doesn't involve alcohol...nor should it)
* How to practically guarantee "Netflix and chill"
degenerates into wanton friskiness...and two plans for
"quality time" at your place that are even better
* What to do when women announce they "won't get
physical" until in a committed relationship.
* Practical ways to end a dry spell dead in its tracks,
once and for all
Get ALL the details of how this Masterclass is
guaranteed to hit any "slump" out of the park
here...and be sure to grab your ticket. This one
is proving to be VERY popular, for good reason:
Masterclass For Men: From Platonic To Sexual
Wednesday, 26 Oct. @8p EDT (GMT -4)
https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/mc-october-2022
I'll look forward to seeing YOU next Wednesday.
And as always, if you can't make it on the exact
date and time, no big deal. The Download Portal will
be there for you with all the goodies, including the
ability to ask me all of your questions as if you were
there.
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* Perform the "Unfair Kiss" that causes women to lose
control with unbridled passion
* Smooth, effortless ways to move to somewhere "more
private"
* Steal an Arizona mountain biker's "accidental" secret
to getting naked with a woman
* Easily (and inexpensively) design first dates that
wake up her female urges and turn her on (No, it
doesn't involve alcohol...nor should it)
* How to practically guarantee "Netflix and chill"
degenerates into wanton friskiness...and two plans for
"quality time" at your place that are even better
* What to do when women announce they "won't get
physical" until in a committed relationship.
* Practical ways to end a dry spell dead in its tracks,
once and for all
Get ALL the details of how this Masterclass is
guaranteed to hit any "slump" out of the park
here...and be sure to grab your ticket. This one
is proving to be VERY popular, for good reason:
Masterclass For Men: From Platonic To Sexual
Wednesday, 26 Oct. @8p EDT (GMT -4)
https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/mc-october-2022
I'll look forward to seeing YOU next Wednesday.
And as always, if you can't make it on the exact
date and time, no big deal. The Download Portal will
be there for you with all the goodies, including the
ability to ask me all of your questions as if you were
there.
=====
YOU DID EVERYTHING RIGHT...BUT SHE'S "NOT
FEELING IT"
One of the "big four" factors that really matter to high quality
women is what I refer to as "the ability to inspire confidence".
When your masculine, confident presence attracts her, the
next step is help her feel safe and secure in your presence.
When a woman who is already attracted to you begins to
trust you, then you can begin to establish an ongoing
relationship on solid ground.
When her fear goes away, she feels free to act on her
feminine attraction to you.
Conversely, if she senses she's potentially in any kind of
physical danger when you're around, gets a negative vibe
from you or is "creeped out" in any way you'll get nowhere
with her.
So yes, a woman has to know you represent protection
and goodwill rather than the opposite.
But there's a plot complication.
Providing security to a woman (or inspiring confidence, if
you will) is very different than being "safe".
A woman doesn't want to feel as if she is physically
endangered at any time, but she does crave a man who can
bring a sense of adventure and excitement to her life.
Without the latter, she's bored to tears.
Similarly, she doesn't want to be "controlled" in a manipulative
manner, but she does want a man who is an assertive leader.
Without the latter, she'll lose respect for you.
Additionally, you can't become utterly predictable, stuck in a
rut of doing the same things over and over again. Yet, you
most certainly can't be irrationally compulsive either...that's
just scary.
Yes, you've got to know how to differentiate all of this, which
isn't always so easy to do.
Some guys miss the mark when making women feel safe
and comfortable in the basic sense.
But most guys, I'd contend, are actually on the opposite side
of the spectrum.
We're too "safe".
Again...to be clear, I'm not saying you should become flat-out
dangerous. I'm talking about something completely different.
We avoid disagreeing with her opinions. We dare not even try
so much as to hold her hand even when she's laughing,
playfully hitting us on the shoulder and staring at our lips in
anticipation.
And, ironically, it's precisely because we're hypersensitive to
"scaring women" that we end up this way. We don't want to
"impose upon them", so we chalk up our Failure To Deploy as
"being a gentleman".
Meanwhile, there's a woman somewhere who wanted to be
kissed and went home feeling frustrated or even rejected.
Worse, because we rarely leave the basement ourselves once
we come home from our jobs at Cubicle City, the most
"adventurous" activity we can come up with when we're with
her is the same trip to Chili's or Applebee's followed by
crashing on the couch chilling with Netflix...again.
Taking the "safe" option is not adding value to a woman's self-
perceived boring life, is it?
=====
(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2022. All Rights Reserved.
If you find this newsletter as powerful and life-changing as over
100,000 other men have, why not forward it to a friend who could
benefit from it as well?
Help build this worldwide movement of men reclaiming their
masculinity, standing as a positive role model and deserving the
high quality women we want.
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Rise Above And Be Invincible
Join The Community Of "Big Four" Men On Facebook
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