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WHAT'S INSIDE:  "I miss her..."  Is that a good thing or a bad thing?
The answer might not be what you think.

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TAKE HER TO THE MOON AND BACK...BUT ENJOY THE RIDE
YOURSELF, TOO


It's true.  Women love to satisfy you sexually as much as you love
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There's only one problem. 

We as guys are almost always our own worst enemy when it comes to
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to us as sexual beings.

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"clam up", even if they might have been perfectly willing--and
even excited--to do whatever we wanted.

I know...that's pretty messed up, isn't it?  What are we thinking?

Well, there's no doubt that most of the sex advice and training
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"SHOULD I MISS HER WHEN SHE'S NOT AROUND?"


As you read the letter below from Colin in the UK, you're likely to
be genuinely amazed by his story.

Before that, however, I have an important message for you.

As you read Colin's story you may be tempted to believe that it
somehow doesn't apply to you because you may not exactly be as far
along as Colin is right now.

But take note that Colin clearly mentions that he was in pretty
dire straits with women a while back.

He really is just another "normal" guy, just like the rest of us. 

BUT...he has done what it takes to deserve what he wants with
women and is reaping the results these days.

I've done the same, and rest assured--so can you.

So read on...and be encouraged.



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Hiya Scot,
 
Could you give me your take on something that's giving me sleepless
nights?  It's my 'sticking point' if you like.
 
I'm 45 and have completely reinvented myself from divorced wimp 5
years ago to well, as you would put it, a guy who deserves what he
wants.
 
How important is missing a girl when it comes to selecting my
ultimate woman from the many options I have?
 
You see, I've gotten myself into the 'nice problem' of having
several great girls pine for me, miss me every day and generally
do the chasing to take up my time to...let's say provide them
with the pleasures and social life they crave.
 
I remember you saying that you had 3 great women in your life
who you were going to select from, and then you met Emily.

Well, I'm pretty similar.  And my bottom line is I want to select
and stop all this high activity. 

But I have a problem in that I don't miss any of them.
 
Now does this mean that none of these women is the right girl?

Or does it just mean that because I'm now such an extremely
independent successful business guy that it's not surprising I
don't even need a great girl as a lifelong companion?
 
Yeah, I miss them a bit each but it's not that I can't live without
them.  And it doesn't bother me if one doesn't call because they
pretty much rotate evenly and fight for my time.

I realize too that they miss me daily, which I've seen happen
a lot since I've become more of what women want in a man.

But does it matter if we don't miss them?
 
Where's the line here?  Is missing them a lot just a female gender
specific thing?
 
Am I okay to just choose any one of them and start to exclude the
others and build a great life together?  Or would I be settling if
I did that?
 
I'd love to hear your views any time you got a moment.
 
By the way, I'm diving into the Master Plan now after being through
the Leading Man last week.

I look forward to hearing your thoughts on missing girls, and the
importance to guys like us who are ready to choose from many options.
 

Warm regards,

Colin  (Confused in the UK)



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Hello Colin:
 
First of all, congratulations on achieving the level of success you
have with women.  You are clearly a chooser rather than a chaser.
 
Now you've come to the point that I have to say few men believe is
even possible, and yet--like I did almost eight years ago now--you're
now finding that the complexities of relating to women don't
exactly go away when success comes your way.

They simply evolve into different ones.

That is, you indeed have a "high quality problem"...which we tend to
specialize in solving around here.
 
To give a simple answer to your central question, YES...how much
you miss a woman when she's not around matters VERY MUCH.
 
And YES...that probably means that you haven't met the "right"
woman just yet.
 
Nevertheless, you're saying that you're ready to select a great
woman and move away from the "high activity" that your busy dating
life involves.

For sure, a lot of guys would think you must be out of your mind,
but believe me I know.  A wildly successful dating life can
practically eat you alive if you let it. 
 
Seriously, being able to attract terrific women like that who want
to be with you all the time can start consuming all of your free
time.
 
This would include the time once spent going to the gym to get into
great shape, partaking in all those "interesting" activities that
intrigued women to begin with and hanging with the friends who
earned you social status.
 
Heck, it can even start cutting into your sleep and even distract
you from giving your career the attention it deserves.
 
All of that spells D-I-S-A-S-T-E-R in general for your personal
life.  And the irony is that the more "out of control" your dating
life gets, the LESS attractive you might become to women.
 
My bet is that you sense all of that already. 
 
In fact, you may even be thinking that there's more to life than
just sex. 
 
As crazy as this sounds to a guy who hasn't reached the level of
success you are enjoying just yet, once you can call any of five
or six hotties who would each jump at the chance to come crawl
into bed with you at any given moment, a change of pace like
hitting a sports bar or even playing a round of golf starts to
sound really good.
 
I mean, as couples on their honeymoons quickly discover, you just
can't have sex all the time.
 
So when I say that the word "balance" might ring a bell for you,
I'm thinking I just hit the nail on the head.
 
Considering that you don't necessarily favor any of the terrific
women in your life over the others, I can definitively say that you
WOULD indeed be "settling" if you just pinned all of their names to
the wall and threw a dart.
 
Like I said, on one hand it's likely that none of these women are
"The One". 
 
It's my experience that a guy in your situation really is likely to
get "knocked out" when a woman who checks all the boxes comes
along. 
 
Given the amount of experience relating to and evaluating women
that you have, you're far less likely to "grow into" seeing a woman
as the right one for you long-term if she doesn't occur as such
sometime over the course of the first few dates, max.

That's just one of the many benefits of having actually been out
with lots of high quality women.
 
But on the other hand, should you just wipe the slate and give
all these women the "Just Be Friends" talk?
 
I wouldn't throw the babes out with the bathwater just yet.
 
If you're enjoying the company of these women, by all means
continue to do so.
 
But yes, you're going to have to JBF some of them.  It's a
logistical necessity at this point.
 
One easy way to make a decision here is to pay careful attention to
whether or not any particular woman's feelings are deepening toward
you such that she may be starting to think you're "The One" even as
you already know she isn't.
 
You've got to let those women go.  Otherwise, you're proceeding
with little concern for their emotions, and that's hurtful.
 
Assuming, however, that the women in your life are tracking with
the casual, non-exclusive nature of your relationship with them,
the decision making process can indeed appear to be more
complicated, can't it?
 
Considering every woman is an individual, trying to somehow
subjectively decide which women stay in your life may be all but
impossible.

I mean, how do you compare that spunky ex-gymnast brunette to the
leggy, elegant blonde?  And those to three other women...each of
whom are exquisite snowflakes in their own right?
 
The answer for me was to draw up what I call "The Depth Chart".
 
What you do is you decide upon ten "must have" factors that your
ideal woman would have going for her.
 
These can be anything you want them to be.  Don't cheat yourself
here by leaving off what you may think is "shallow" or even a bit
eccentric.
 
Once you have that list together, rank each woman in your life on a
scale of 1-10 under each respective factor. 
 
Add each of those columns together, and you'll end up with a number
that approaches 100.
 
Don't skimp when you add up the numbers, either.  But at the same
time be honest rather than generous.
 
This process may sound a bit cut and dried, and even flat-out stone
cold to some.

But when you have multiple women in your life who ALL are
subjectively fantastic to you, this really is how you get down to
measuring the important traits that portend long term potential (or
otherwise).

And hey...even if you're not going to marry any of the women you're
currently seeing, it's still always best to stick with the ones you
actually LIKE better, right?
 
In fact, you may shock yourself at how the numbers add up for the
women in your life.  There may actually turn out to be wide deltas
between them when these objective factors are held up to the light.
 
But whatever the case, I can all but assure you that this simple
exercise will help you figure out who to keep in your circle and
who to release so that they can find men who will in turn
appreciate them as much as they deserve.
 
From there, you really, truly shouldn't decide to move forward
exclusively with one woman for the rest of your life until you meet
your "100".
 
If that sounds insanely "picky" or even flat-out unreasonable, I
can understand how one would perceive it as such.
 
But then again, I broke up with a "99" for my "100". 
 
After all, we're talking about the woman that you, a man in demand,
are going to spend the rest of your life with. 
 
You cannot "settle".  You aren't a non-profit charity organization. 

You don't marry a woman because you feel sorry for her or because you
think she's "probably good enough".
 
Once you meet your "100", the two of you can volunteer at a soup
kitchen or something and be compassionate toward those who are less
fortunate...together.
 
And yes, the "I Miss You Factor" was one of the ten columns on my
own, personal version of "The Depth Chart".
 
Forget what you've heard from any of the PUA guys out there about
getting "one-itis", "developing too much feeling for a woman", etc.
 
Such advice is designed for newbies who tend to lose emotional
control over a sexually attractive woman--often before they even
meet her.
 
The point isn't to lose touch with your emotions as a living,
breathing human being.
 
Feeling is living.

And when you've got a mature, evolved perspective on women and
attraction--the kind that comes from experiential success, such as
yours--then your feelings will speak the truth to you.  

And if you're not missing certain women so much when they're not
around, that means that they don't eliminate your desire to have
other women around. 
 
That's rather elementary logic.
 
But when any woman who may really turn out to be "The One" shows
up, and you indeed naturally start wanting her to ride shotgun with
you every night, you'll realize you DO miss her when she's not
around.
 
...Even when another woman IS around.
 
Ultimately, that's the kind of sign you're looking for.