[X&Y] What To Do When She's Drunk (And It's Not What You Think)
Published: Mon, 01/30/23
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WHAT'S INSIDE: Here's what you do with a drunk
girlfriend...and it's probably not going to be what you think.
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WHY NOT DO THIS THE RIGHT WAY?
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WHAT TO DO WHEN SHE'S DRUNK (AND IT'S NOT WHAT
YOU THINK)
It's such an old, trite ploy that it makes us laugh to even think
about it. I'm referring, of course, to the idea of getting a woman
drunk so that "getting some" is easier.
Granted, some women are going to be "easier" when they're under
the influence of a few adult beverages.
But going about things like that is for rookies...and predators.
Seriously.
Show me a guy who tries to get his dates plastered, and I'll show
you a guy who lacks confidence he can attract them naturally.
Indeed, when you're a "big four" man, making women horny for
you is relatively effortless. And what's more, you're just not so in a
hurry to force the issue--literally or figuratively.
So, do some women "loosen up" when you add alcohol? I'm not
going to deny it. That can be true.
But then again, they can also become belligerent and throw up all
over you.
Chances are, even if sex happens, it's not going to be the lurid,
sheet-ripping kind you were hoping for. She might fall asleep
and start snoring in the middle of it.
No matter what, if you're goal is to get a women drunk on dates,
you're not "keeping it real". You're not getting to know the real
her.
Now, that said I'm no Pollyanna. I realize some women are
going to get drunk in your presence. Sometimes trying to
stop them proves futile. After all, she's an adult and makes
her own decisions.
And even if your stated goals for time spent with her were
different, you're still going to have to be on point if and when
she's drinking at all, let alone too much.
You'll have to know how to handle the situation like a man.
That's what this newsletter is for. So let's get on with it.
First of all, you've got to be observant. Keep an inventory of
how much she's consuming.
Some women can throw down an amazing number of drinks
before it affects them, but those women are the exception rather
than the norm (and you should think long and hard about a
relationship with a woman like that).
Generally speaking, women will tend to fib a little with regard to
how much alcohol they can take before it hits them like a ton of
bricks.
That can only mean when you see the slightest sign that she's
getting "tipsy", it's time to subtly remove the booze from the
equation.
If you're home, that's easy--unless she filches another belt of
the stuff when you're not paying attention.
If you're at a bar or restaurant, clue the waitstaff in that it's
time for her to stop. A great strategy is to let them play "bad
cop" on your behalf. Reassure them that you're the one who'll
be leaving the tip, if that helps.
If you're at her place, you may have to be a bit more direct in
suggesting she quit drinking.
In addition to the simple fact that you care about her well-being,
another reason you're putting the kibosh on the slosh at the
"tipsy" stage is because most women are still pretty fun and
giggly at that point.
If she keeps drinking, though, bad things are likely to happen.
She could barf everywhere and/or completely pass out, which
can be dangerous.
Assuming you still have a "tipsy" chick on your hands, you've
actually got a great opportunity to observe more than just her
alcohol intake.
Since people tend to lose inhibition when they drink, pay
attention to how she acts and what she says. You'll "get
inside her mind" in a way you may not have been able to
otherwise.
Her "true colors" just might burst out in all directions.
I've personally discovered wild adventurous streaks, "hidden"
smoking habits and even latent racism in women I was with
after they'd had a few.
And, of course, you're VERY likely to find out exactly what she
thinks of you. If she's hot for you, you're fixin' to find out.
At this point I want to remind you that it's still a BAD PLAN to
"take advantage of her" sexually.
Provide and protect in the moment, and believe me it'll pay
big dividends later.
But let me be quick to remind you I'm not the one-night stand
dating coach to begin with. So being opportunistic about
such things is absolutely out of the question.
I'm here to propel you to success with women who are worth
seeing again, and having sex with again.
So to that end, if you find a woman has unfortunately gotten
farther along down the "tipsy" trail than she intended, there
are clear steps to follow since you're all about doing the
right thing.
First of all, if she's too drunk don't push the envelope as far as
the date itself goes. Consider the festivities over.
Take her to her place or yours, making the appropriate judgment
call based on the circumstances.
ASK HER if she thinks she's about to get sick. If not, get her
something to eat that's not loaded down with grease--especially
if she's put a few drinks away in rapid succession.
But if she's indeed feeling queasy, clear the deck and make sure
she's got a clean restroom nearby for that purpose.
Don't hedge your bets, or else someone's going to end up
humiliated...and the other one's going to have a hefty dry
cleaning bill.
If you're still out somewhere, inform someone female who works
there (or who is extremely friendly and giving) of what's going on
and ask her if she'll accompany your girl to the ladies' room.
Then, if she emerges from the lav having tossed her cookies for
real, it's of critical importance that you not overreact. Downplay
the event, because she is going to be nothing short of mortified.
In her mind she will be sure you're never going to speak to her
again. Even if that's likely to be true, man-up and do what's
right for this woman who is under your care for the evening
(which, by the way, is absolutely the case).
Stay cool and casual, and help her get cleaned up, wherever
you are. If she needs to wash up, get her a towel.
If the two of you are at your place, you can even let her use your
shower. She probably won't be in the mood to have you join her,
so for now don't push it.
Now, if she ends up actually passing out, you've got to pick her
up and place her somewhere comfortable...on her side, in case
she yaks.
Monitor her breathing very carefully. If you think even for a
second she's not doing well, call that ambulance. Don't play
games.
Whatever you do, don't ever let a drunk woman drive. Take
her wherever she needs to be, unless of course you're too
wasted to drive either. Get an Uber or call one of HER friends.
Obviously, don't try to undress her or (God forbid) diddle her
while she's unconscious. That will NEVER, EVER end well, but
I feel as if I have to state that disclaimer, even if it should be
obvious.
Ultimately, any mature, rational man knows he's better off
with a sober chick who's hot for him than a drunken mess--
notwithstanding the interesting opportunity to find out how she
REALLY feels about things, I suppose.
But if you're ever confronted with taking care of a woman
who's three sheets to the wind, at the very least you'll now
be more prepared than ever.
By the way, if you end up at your place make sure those
"three sheets" are CLEAN sheets.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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