[X&Y] 6 Types Of Courage That Drive Women Wild
Published: Tue, 02/14/23
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IN THIS EDITION: You've heard time and again "Don't be a wuss".
But what exactly does it mean to be courageous in the particular
way that drives women wild?
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6 TYPES OF COURAGE THAT DRIVE WOMEN WILD
We spend a lot of time around here shining the light on "hidden
detractors".
By this I mean anything that could possibly be keeping you from
meeting the kind of women you want to meet and/or having total
control over continuing the relationship when you so choose, but
which you haven't quite got a handle on yet.
I believe that one of the darkest such "hidden detractors" for many
guys involves failure to deploy in the area of courage.
That's right, simple COURAGE.
Courage, as it turns out, is an overarching masculine theme that
quite literally pervades a man's being...or SHOULD, at least.
When you successfully inspire confidence, which is one of the
"big four", you have essentially--by definition--succeeded at
assuring a woman of your own personal level of courage.
So then, let's go ahead and outline exactly what courage IS.
And more specifically, lets talk about the kind of courage that
women in particular find irresistibly attractive.
Before we start, however, I'll give you a hint: It's NOT found
in the Jeff Foxworthy moments when we tell everyone, "Hey y'all,
watch this!"
Nope, meaningless foolishness is a turn-off to women, as is
"showing off" purely for the purpose of impressing them.
"Courageous" isn't synonymous with "fearless". Rather, men of
true courage feel the fear, manage it, and then face it.
So here we go...a half-dozen ways to eliminate wimpification
forever and execute with strength:
1) Courage When It's Expected As Obvious
If most garden-variety human beings can stand up something, so
should you.
Yet the reality of this life is that it's not uncommon for men to
suffer from phobias, even irrational ones.
But know this: If you are afraid to fly, cross bridges or take the
elevator you will NOT be exactly inspiring confidence in a woman
who likely has no such trepidation.
Your ability to inspire confidence takes a direct hit when you are
afraid when even most women are unfazed.
It is crucial to grasp this concept accurately. Nobody is asking
you to drive in an ice storm, tail rattlesnakes like freakin' Steve
Irwin or even eat food off the floor.
But if you do things like throw a hissy fit when a bee that you
aren't even mortally allergic to flies within five feet of you, and
the women surrounding you go, "Um...dude, what's the big deal?",
those are the times you know you have to learn how to get over it.
2) Courage When Faced With The Unknown
What happens when there's a question mark ahead? Do you hold your
head up and boldly face the music, or do you thrust your head in
the sand and procrastinate for as long as humanly possible?
One key example of this, made hilariously famous by George Lopez
in a stand up routine of his, is when a guy knows he has a medical
issue but refuses to see a doctor.
"It's better not to know...besides, they'll charge me for
everything!" is funny when George Lopez says it, but would
demonstrate to a woman in your life that you are a complete coward
were YOU to say it.
Knowing the doctor could tell you any number of things ranging from
the innocuous to the devastating, you go anyway and get it taken
care of.
Likewise, if you know the company is announcing layoffs today, you
go to work. Whatever it is, unless it's armed and deadly and you are
not, you face it. Women love the initiative and the leadership.
3) Courage To Accomplish What Motivates You
I don't know how many guys I have heard talking about what they
dream of doing, or where they dream of going, quickly followed by a
phrase beginning with the word "but".
"Oh man, I'd LOVE to go to [insert exotic destination here]. But
what if I got arrested and thrown into jail there or caught some
weird illness?"
"Wow...I'd LOVE to get a motorcycle license. But I'm really afraid
I'd have an accident."
All this is BORING to women, who are often craving excitement in
their lives.
The most breathtaking irony of all in that respect is that I am
wracking my brain, but believe I have NEVER suggested that a woman
join me for something adventurous and have her flatly refuse, as
long as her confidence was inspired.
4) Courage When The Chips Are Down
When it's "fight or flight", women are counting on you to keep a
level head and make the right decision.
Like the NBA all-star wants the ball when his team is down by a
point with five seconds left on the clock, you should likewise
seek to be the decision maker when a crisis looms.
Whether it's a family issue, a job loss, a car accident, a spider
in the bathroom or a weird sound in the middle of the night, you
take the proverbial bull by the horns.
5) Courage Among Men
If you are consistently dominated by and generally manhandled by
other men around you, women will not be impressed by your
passivity.
Have the courage to suggest ideas, take leadership in the face
of ambiguity and remain reasonable when foolishly provoked.
Nothing inspires confidence in a woman more than this. You aren't
starting bar fights, but you are standing your ground and refusing
to be a doormat.
Of course, there's one final linchpin that all five of the previous
examples are predicated upon...
6) Courage Towards HER
You must not be afraid of the woman herself.
This means that you approach her and talk to her that first time
you meet her without trepidation, which in turn will help her feel
at ease with you.
This also means you don't kowtow and "kiss up" because you are
afraid of either losing her favor or pissing her off.
And it especially means that you don't soft peddle every last
original idea you have lest you offend her or not give her what she
wants.
Most guys are deathly afraid of making a woman cry. You have to
understand that women are more upset by your cowardice in telling
the truth than by your honesty, as long as you keep their best
interests at heart.
I mentioned that lack of courage is often a "hidden detractor".
Seriously, in this day and age of safe cubicle jobs and couch
potato lifestyles it's all too easy for us guys to completely miss
the simple fact that we're even lacking courage at all.
But make no mistake--women have a sixth sense for this stuff. So
building genuine courage, backed by solid reasoning skills, should
be the goal of every man.
Here's the thing.
I could give you a set of "rules" to follow. I could give you a
checklist of things to do that might allow you to fool a woman or
two into thinking you had it all together...at least for the time
being.
But ultimately, the checklist would fail you. You can't be
fumbling for notes in a situation calling for genuine courage.
I can't think of a better example of why honestly becoming the kind
of man who genuinely deserves what he wants will trump the "quick
fix" approach.
Every. Single. Time.
If you have been following these newsletters, you already know that
courage is just one of endless examples of what drives women wild,
but which also cannot be faked.
Unless you become the man women crave, life will continue to be
one "hidden detractor" after another. You'll fix one only to have
another jump out at you.
That's why Invincible is a complete blueprint for being the kind of
man that women REALLY want.
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think that women probably want a "woman with a penis" for a
boyfriend.
But that doesn't work when it comes to creating attraction,
does it?
Here it is. You should never, ever feel the need to "apologize"
for being a man...ever again. Invincible is the cure for that
disease.
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Enjoy, guys. And I'll talk to you again soon.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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