[X&Y] What To Do With "Double Standard Women"

Published: Fri, 12/16/22



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IN THIS EDITION:  Have you ever been in a relationship with a woman
and felt this nagging feeling that, well...you were being nagged?

Worse, did you feel like you were being held accountable in a way
that she apparently felt immune to?  What's wrong with this picture?

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"DOUBLE STANDARD CHICK"...MAYBE YOU'VE MET HER?


On the surface, she's probably beautiful, intelligent and possibly
even fun to be with.

But after only a short time of hanging out with her, you start to
realize something doesn't feel right.

You feel like she's got rights and privileges you aren't free to
reserve for yourself.

Worse, you feel as if you'd be either selfish or flat-out
ridiculous were you to make an issue of it in any way.

For example, she is disappointed, hurt or even straight-up angry
when you even so much as glance at another woman.

Whether you actually did so or not is unimportant.  She believes
you did, so you'd better stop it.

Meanwhile, she has quite a number of guys in her life who are "just
really, really, really good friends".  When they show up, they hug
her, banter with her and it all looks like heavy-duty flirting to you.

And sure enough, she hits them on the shoulder and giggles in
return.

Sometimes, she even hangs out with them on a "1-on-1 basis".
They get sushi.  Study together.  Get a few drinks.

And sometimes she sort of gets too tired to drive home, so she
crashes at his place...on the couch, of course.

That's all okay, though, because he's "like a big brother" to her.

Do you say anything when this goes on?

Probably not.  After all, that would make you appear insecure.
You'd look like you were threatened.

And that's not very masculine.  You've been taught that being
"needy" is a bad idea.  So you back off.

But the fact remains:  if you were to hang out with other women
like that, she WOULDN'T put up with it.

So how does she get away with this?

Simply put, she's "Double Standard Chick".

And YOU, my good man, have BOUGHT INTO it.

The programming goes something like this:


  Step One:  Believe all men are dogs, only want one thing, and
  therefore are untrustworthy.


  Step Two:  Believe that women, on the other hand, are the ones who
  are universally committed to faithful relationships and monogamy.
  All they want is "Mr. Right".


  Step Three:  Women are givers of life and nurturers, whereas men
  are the ones responsible for wars and strife.  So if there's a
  problem, it's the guy's fault...


  Step Four:  ...and WHEN there's a problem, the guy's response is
  expected to be one of aggression and oppression toward the more
  passive woman, who is in danger of being physically and/or
  emotionally abused at any given moment.


So the end result of such programming is that a woman considers
herself inherently trustworthy.  She knows SHE wouldn't cheat or
anything.

Meanwhile, however, since you are a guy, what are understood to be
YOUR "inherent" traits must be kept under lock and key.

"But wait a second," you ask, "all I really want is a great
girlfriend.  And even if I am dating more than one woman, I'm
honest and respectful about it.  And hey, it's not like I've
started any wars lately.  I've never even been in a fistfight."

"Besides," you say, "every time I've ever seen an episode of
'Cheaters' there's as many women on there running around as men."

Indeed.

So how did this happen?

Moreover, how is it that we as guys can watch ourselves getting
owned right before our very eyes, yet we feel much more
comfortable pretending it "isn't what it looks like" rather than
standing up to the double standard?

And why do we feel compelled to tell her to "have fun" with a wave
and a smile when she goes out with her friends to a bar or
club--looking hotter than we've seen her in weeks--when we're loaded
down with guilt if we go to the sports bar on a Saturday afternoon
to watch the game and have a beer or two with the guys?

Here it is:  You've ALLOWED YOURSELF to take on the archetypal
guilt of every other guy before you who allegedly acted like an I/J
(Idiot/Jerk).

In other words, you believe women are the "oppressed" race, and
you are part of the social group who is historically responsible for
the "oppression".

So you walk on eggshells.

After all, you most certainly want to be part of the solution
rather than the problem.

You want to correct millennia of errant behavior on the part of men
everywhere--all the way from dragging women into the cave by their
hair to paying them less per hour compared to men for the same type
of work.

You might even subconsciously feel it's incumbent upon you to make
"restitution", as preposterous as that sounds when printed in black
and white.

And "Double Standard Chick"?  She's more than happy to allow you
to take that on.

In fact, even years into a long-term relationship when guys are
getting nagged a lot, it's often because of unresolved double
standard issues.

Well, either that or she's doing all the heavy lifting around the
house while you are nothing but lazy.

So let's talk some sense here for a second.

First of all, consider there are quite a few women who are reading this
newsletter.  They're definitely out there, and they read because they like
hearing what I tell you guys about how to be a great man.

But some have taken the bait regarding the concept I'm talking
about here also.  In fact, in many cases it's hook, line and sinker.

So I'll likely get a smattering of angry e-mails from a few of them.

They'll write me and accuse me of being negative toward women
simply because I'm attempting to debunk the double standard.

The truth, however, is that I'm calling for a more positive
representation of one another by BOTH MEN AND WOMEN.

Know this, gentlemen:  Not EVERY woman subscribes to the
double standard.

Some believe that great men of character--like you--exist.  They'd
rather avoid negative influences in their life, think the best of a
great man who comes along, and focus on having a healthy
relationship.

This means if you are indeed that "big four" man (masculine,
confident, ability to inspire safety/security, high-character) you
should EXPECT such a woman to respond positively to you.

After all, you will share mutual respect and have each other's best
interests at heart.

Sound too good to be true?

If so, your perception of reality needs an overhaul.

When you BUY IN to the "all male behavior is bad behavior" concept,
you begin very quickly to feel actual, raw SHAME over simply being
male.

This is particularly messed up because the vast, vast majority of
women love men.

So even as you begin to camouflage your masculinity out of shame
for all the "bad stuff" men have done to women over the years, you
become LESS ATTRACTIVE.

And "Double Standard Chick"?

She simply becomes even more annoyed by you, leading to what?  You
guessed it...a greater feeling of freedom towards treating you with
disrespect.

A caveat here.

"Double Standard Chick" may indeed be quite a gifted manipulator.
But then again, she may be a perfectly well-meaning woman who
happens to have been subjected to the SAME faulty programming as
you.

So the ultimate irony?  Even those women who are beholden to the
double standard aren't always particularly thrilled about it.

If you think about it, that makes the whole thing even more messed-up
than previously thought.

Whoa.   So what does all this mean?

It means that you DO have the right to consider yourself a REAL MAN
and not the living perpetuation of "caveman culture".

Therefore, it ALSO means that you need not passively endure the
double standard.

ULTIMATELY, it means that YOU must LEAD.  You must stand up,
speak on behalf of mutual respect--by name--and announce that your
intention is to respect women and enjoy the company of those who
respect you in return.

And if that's not part of her plan, you wish her well.

Sound almost too easy?

Perhaps.

But the key here is to remember, as I alluded to, that some women
who live by the double standard are actually disgusted by it
nonetheless.

Seriously.  You should see the e-mails from women we get who expect
the worst of guys, only to get annoyed when they act "nice" thinking it's
simply an indicator of a more covert form of "bad behavior".

Usually, the guys they write about were tiptoeing around trying not
to hurt the woman's feelings...not wanting to be the "oppressor".

Not always, of course, but usually.

Now listen, I'm not about to make some Pollyannaish assertion that
everyone on Earth is an angel.

I fully get that there are indeed bona-fide I/Js out there.  And by
the way, guys, they're giving great men like you a BAD NAME.

And similarly, there are women who mean well and those who do not.

No matter whether you are a man or a woman, you must deserve
what you want.

If you want to be respected; if you want someone of high character
in your life, then you MUST kill the double standard programming
and expect the best from MOTOS (Members Of The Other Sex).

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So just say no to the double standard guys, and start doing what
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Basically, what it all boils down to in the "real world" is this:
If she's treating you like you're her ornery big brother, feel free
to treat her like your bratty little-sister.

That's called "flirting".  Let's start having fun again, as it should be.


 
 



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