[X&Y] What If She's Making It Difficult To Approach Her?

Published: Mon, 12/19/22



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IN THIS EDITION:  Why is it that nearly all of us derail ourselves
in a very common and identifiable way when it comes to approaching
women?  It's time to stop derailment in its tracks!

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WHAT IF SHE'S MAKING IT DIFFICULT TO APPROACH HER?


Scot,
 
Just encountered the following scenario.  Didn't have a plan in
hand so I skipped it.  As follows:

Went to the corner coffee shop for lunch, it was mostly empty at 3
pm.  In the back of the shop an attractive woman was sitting alone
at a small table working on her laptop.

She looked very stern, preoccupied.

It looked like a tough challenge so I sat down at a different table
and went about my lunch.  What is the correct approach when
someone doesn't appear to want to be approached?

Maybe the best approach is to catch her later.


Thanks,

Rich (Chicago, IL)
 


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Hello Rich, and thanks for writing.

You know, the fact that we coach both men and women around here
has proven to be highly interesting at times.

I'm sure lots of men would love to be a "fly on the wall" during our
coaching sessions with women, and vice-versa.

Indeed, the number one issue we get from women without a
man in their life at the moment is "Why won't guys talk to me?"  

Assuming there's no easy explanation based on mental health,
hygiene and/or congenital resemblance to a Wookiee, the answer is
almost always because they simply don't make themselves
approachable.

Stern expressions.  Cold demeanors.  Always too busy (or flat-out
oblivious to her surroundings) to even potentially realize that
someone may want to strike up a conversation.

Sure, some of these women have boyfriends, are married or simply
are not interested in being approached for whatever reason.

Yet the fact remains that others literally have no idea that they're
sending apparently obvious signals to STAY AWAY from them.

A similar issue is how women are completely cold on first dates so
as not to appear "needy" or "slutty"...and then they wonder why
guys never bring up the idea of a second date.

News flash:  It's not necessarily because all men are "sex obsessed
dogs".  All too often a guy doesn't ask for the second date because
he thought the woman was disinterested and therefore didn't risk the
potential "rejection" of asking.

Certainly by now, guys, you know that I'm a consistent proponent of
boldly talking to whichever women you'd like.

It's not a contest.  It's a conversation.

Your manhood is not on the line every time you make a well-formed
attempt to speak to a woman you've never met.

And for certain it's also important for guys to take leadership on
dates.

But sure, each of us is far from perfect--more so at some times than
others, unfortunately.

Even so, it's all too easy for a guy--or a woman, when the shoe is
on the other foot--to assume he or she has "messed up" every time
things don't go according to what was envisioned.

But that's not a reasonable assumption.  It's a simple truth that
sometimes the person you'd like to meet could use to work on their
social skills.
 
So the important takeaway is what you encountered today was
her problem, not yours.  That's important to understand.

If someone doesn't seem approachable and/or even friendly, why
should anyone even care to "bother" them, right?

I mean, "stern, preoccupied" people suck, huh?  Conversation
involves two people.  Otherwise, it's just a "versation".

What if you actually had approached this woman in a casual,
friendly manner...assuming she wasn't fully aware of how
she appeared?

Had she immediately smiled and "loosened up", then you would
have had a nice chance to meet a woman who may very well
has no idea why men are so intimidated by talking to her.

In such case you would have set yourself apart from the masses
of "everymen" straightaway, and she would have had no choice
but to be a bit intrigued.

But hey, she also could have bitten your head off...which you
wouldn't have needed to take personally.

Were she to be rude or unfriendly toward a warm, confident
person who is being appropriately outgoing, that would be HER
problem.  

Remember "TGR-R" (The Golden Rule--Reversed), as talked about
so often around here.

Would you ever treat someone the way she's treating you?  If the
answer is "never in a million years", then you deserve better.

In that case, yes--catch her later...much.



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