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WHAT'S INSIDE: Want women to make
your life BETTER instead of making things
miserable all the time?  Here are five
simple steps...

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5 WAYS TO MAKE WOMEN DO NICE THINGS FOR YOU
   

I often hear complaints from guys who wonder why women are so
mean to them all the time.

Yet, there are complete programs on how to get past women's "bitch
shields". 

One video I saw several years ago now proclaimed that if a woman
doesn't look you up and down in disgust when you approach her and
introduce yourself, then "you're doing something wrong".

Honestly?  Nobody female has given me that look since I was in,
like, seventh grade.

And if that makes me "wrong", then I don't want to be right.

Seriously, gentlemen.  It's time to give this whole "women follow
our lead" thing a spin around the block to see how it runs.

That's because you honestly have just about all of the control when
it comes to deciding how women treat you.

That may be a bitter pill to swallow for many, but it's also not a
gender-specific one.  People in general will treat you exactly the
way you train them to.

So then, if you've experienced a steady pattern of ugly responses
from women, you can do something about it.

Here are five solid ways to start off on the right foot with women
in particular, inspiring them to do all sorts of pleasant things
for you--probably without you even having to drop hints.

Please note...what follows is just a start.  Female Persuasion gives
you almost superhuman power to mesmerize women and earn their
favor, but this will definitely get you some results in advance:



1)  Do Nice Things For Her


Well..."duh", right?  This is the #1 rule tied to "women follow your
lead", I'd say.

And no, I'm not talking about being "Mr. Nice Guy" and handing over
your balls in a velvet sack.

I'm invoking the psychological principle known as "The Law Of
Reciprocity".

Have her best interests at heart as you provide and protect.  Make
solid decisions for the good of everyone affected by what you decide.

This will inherently meet a woman's deepest needs.  From there,
she'll naturally want to shower you with feminine gifts to bring
joy, comfort and fun into your life.

That's truly "nice", right?



2)  Reward Her Emotionally The First Time She Does
Something Nice For You


Don't simply take without acknowledging how cool she is to give to
you. Thank her, and appreciate her with your words and your
actions.

This will perpetuate the cycle.  The trial run will have gotten
an encouraging payoff and she'll therefore continue to do nice
things for you.

Again, we're not talking about rocket science here, right?



3)  Encourage Her Playful / Fun Side


Like it or not, people are happier to give when it's on their own
terms.  Contrast this with manipulating someone into following
your selfish orders.

Just to be clear here, it's definitely true that master
manipulators have a weird ability to camouflage "giving" on their
own terms with selfish intentions. 

I realize that unsuspecting victims may end up thanking them for it
anyway--even as the favor will be expected to be returned later. 

That's not good, of course.  But that's a different twist on what
I'm suggesting here.

All I'm saying in this context is that if you make it EASY and
ENJOYABLE for someone to do nice things for you, it's more likely
to happen.

Women happen to be the purveyors of fun and playfulness in this
life.  So why not encourage that?

She WANTS to do fun, playful things with you.  She therefore
WANTS to do fun, playful things for you.

Validate her feminine side and reap the rewards.



4)  Save The Cranky / Irritable Stuff For Someone Else


...like maybe your goldfish.

You want to see a woman's playful, fun side.  You want to enjoy
what she already WANTS to give you.

I'll tell you, being wound-up tighter than a jack-in-the-box is NOT
the way to get the results you're looking for. 

Basically, coming off like Oscar McScrooge is going to have the
same effect as throwing a bucket of water on a book of matches.

No fire is going to be sparked there, and one probably won't be
started anytime soon either.



5)  Stop Being Sex-Focused


Yes, women love sex.  They just don't like being USED for sex. 

Appreciate a woman at a deeper level than how she appears to you
physically and you'll soon be pleasantly surprised by how much she
WANTS to get frisky with you.

And yes, it's completely possible that it'll be HER idea....her GIFT
to you.  No begging, no pleading, and best of all no trickery.

By the way, when that time comes make sure your bedroom skills are
in order and she'll literally become ADDICTED to pleasing you.  See
this for some rock-solid but bargain-priced help with that:



Behind Closed Doors



You know I haven't dropped anything complicated on you in this
newsletter.

But yet, how many of us as guys really take this approach instead
of continually trying to "get some"?

Welcome to why we talk about deserving what you want so much
around here.  It really does work MUCH, MUCH better than trying to
put the proverbial cart before the horse all the time.

"Get her to give you what you want whether you deserve it or not"
may sound good on paper, but it doesn't work out so elegantly in
the real world, especially when similarly misguided women are trying
to get something out of us all the while.

As Bill and Ted once famously said, "Be excellent to each other".
Relationships between men and women really work much better that
way.


Be Good,

Scot McKay


P.S. Yes, I still have a few spots on my calendar for guys who want
to talk to me for 25 minutes free. Here's where you claim yours:


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