[X&Y] 5 Ways To Manage Jealous Guys When You Have A Hot Girlfriend

Published: Fri, 03/17/23


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IN THIS EDITION:  Once you get a smoking hot girlfriend, it's
likely that most of your other acquaintances still will NOT have
one.  How do you handle that graciously?

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5 WAYS TO MANAGE OTHER GUYS' JEALOUSY WHEN YOU
HAVE A HOT GIRLFRIEND


If you're reading these newsletters, I fully expect that you're
honestly, getting better with women.

That goes double (no, make that TRIPLE) if you get your hands on
one or more of my programs.

So with that in mind, sometimes I feel it's incumbent upon me to
give you some 20/20 foresight into what to expect once you
actually do start seeing real-world success happening before your
very eyes.

For most of us red-blooded guys, making a smoking hot woman our
girlfriend would most certainly classify as "success".

And no kidding, for the most part it ROCKS when that happens.

However, with success comes responsibility, even when it comes to
dating and relationships.

A very real part of that responsibility includes knowing how to
handle the simple fact that the vast majority of other guys on this
planet will NOT be as fortunate as you are (at least not yet).

Actually, the hard truth is that most will NEVER find real success
with women (let alone the sexual success I talked about above).

As it turns out, some of the very same reasons for that will also
present themselves in the form of majorly awkward social situations
for you.  Go figure.

Most guys aren't really ready for how other, more frustrated guys
will react the first time they find a truly amazing girlfriend, so
they get blindsided.

But as a man who's already got the upper hand in the form of that
beautiful woman by your side who other men desire, you'd do well to
know how to handle such scenarios with grace and class.

Here, then, are my five best tips for you when dealing with other
guys.  And make no mistake about it, you can fully expect any or
ALL of the following situations to rear their ugly heads at some
point or another:

    

1)  Keep It All On The "Down-Low"


One thing I can assure you of without any reservation is that when
you get yourself a truly hot, sexy, amazing girlfriend other dudes
WILL notice.

You need not do anything at all to help bring it to their attention.

So don't.  You'll only look like a douche if you resort to bragging
about her.

Besides, if you keep it cool you're MUCH more likely to portray
yourself as a guy who considers himself "in the same league" as she
is, which is always a good idea.  

Bragging only makes it look like you see "landing her" as some sort
of major coup.



2)  But On The Other Hand, Don't Make Excuses Or Minimize
Her Either


If you make it a point to encourage and validate your girl when
other guys are around--especially your friends--you'll make her feel
safer and more comfortable around you.

Never mind the fact she'll probably even LIKE you more.

When all of that's the case, other guys will be able to sense the
mutual respect between you.  

Then, as if by magic, the incidence of silly, immature comments
will tend to decrease dramatically.

It's as if other guys sense that if they make some snide remark
about either you or her that SHE'LL be the one who chimes in to
shut them down.  

Knowing how much guys fear rejection and embarrassment at the
hands of anyone female, you can see how that social dynamic would
work to your advantage.

Yet, for some reason many of us have been taught that beautiful
women need to be "knocked off their pedestal", so we make fun of
them or neglect them sometimes--even in front of our friends, and
even when we're in a relationship with them.

Believe me when I tell you that's a piss-poor strategy.  She's
HUMAN, and treating her like that will only create resentment on
her part.

And if any dude who's jealous of you senses that resentment in her,
he's going to play upon that like a cheap fiddle.  That will NOT
work to your advantage.



3)  Don't Rub It In


Another great way to look like a d-bag is to go on and on about how
your friends are still dateless, or that their women aren't as hot
as yours.

Your buddies already know it if they haven't done as well as you.

Worse, they know that YOU know it too.   

So you're best off leaving well-enough alone.  

Believe me, your friendships with them are probably already going
to be under a bit of a strain naturally, as you'll see next.

There's just no need to push the envelope.

Besides, you also need to consider that other people's tastes are
different.  Another guy may indeed have a girlfriend who may not
seem as hot as yours to you, but in his mind he wouldn't trade
places with you.


 
4)  Don't Expect To Make Solid Social Connections With Dudes
Who Don't Have Hot Girlfriends


At least not on equal footing.  Some guys who seriously look up to
you as a mentor or "big brother" type might be happy to hang out with
you, as they want to be like you.

But as men, our egos are such that we really, really can't stand
situations where we're clearly being "alpha-ed" by one of our peers.

Don't kid yourself.  If you've got a girlfriend who outshines
anybody else's in your social circle, you're about to find it VERY
difficult to make new friends, or possibly even keep your old ones.

Seriously, you may already know this from past experience.  It
SUCKS to hang around some dude whose chick you can't help but
drool over, doesn't it?

It's even WORSE if he's a "normal guy" just like you.

No doubt, it drives other guys nuts when you've got such a hot
girlfriend and they really, truly think they deserve someone like
her every bit as much as you do, if not more.

For darned sure, don't even think about inviting another couple to
hang out with the two of you unless the woman is roughly the same
level of hotness as yours.

Trust me when I tell you that if she's not, you're in for one of
the most awkward evenings of your life.

I realize what I'm saying here sounds rather shallow and petty, but
I've learned the hard way that it's a predictable fact of life.



5)  Take Direct Challenges In Stride


Less mature guys will sometimes attempt to challenge you directly.
Even though this advertises their pure jealousy as clear as day,
they'll do it anyway.

For example, they may wonder aloud why a hottie like her would be
with someone like you.
   
They may bring up embarrassing things about you or your past when
she's around.

Perhaps they'll blurt out that you've only ever dated ugly women
until she came along.

Who knows?  Maybe they'll demonstrate such little regard for you
that they'll even hit on her while you're standing there.

In those cases, you must never let anger and/or disappointment get
the best of you.

See such behavior for what it is and keep your cool.

Remember always, no matter what happens that you've already WON.
She's with you already.

The only way you can lose in this scenario is by beating YOURSELF.
You risk that if you get rattled and overreact.

Now, if any man ever disrespects HER or invades her personal space,
you can and must step in to defend her.  But that's different, and
a subject I've already written about previously.



One important note before I sign off.

Be aware that although you may not presently have a whole lot of
experience dealing with situations like I've just described, your
hot girlfriend has probably seen each of them a HUNDRED times.

Think about that for a second.

That means at least two things.  

First, she's going to have already gotten past the point of getting
upset by any of it.  She'll know how to keep her cool, most likely.

Second, you can bet that she's experienced enough to know better
than to let anything some jealous guy says actually INFLUENCE her
attraction toward you.

So you should relax.  Don't let ANY guy steal your masculine power
away by successfully getting inside your head and wrecking things.

Handle each scenario as I've suggested above and you'll come off to
her like a guy who's also been around the block enough times not to
be fazed by any of it either.

She's watching how you conduct yourself.  And how you do so surely
WILL have an impact on how attracted she is to you.


 
 



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