{X&Y] The Real Reason Why Women 'Ghost' You
Published: Sat, 03/18/23
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IN THIS EDITION: You meet a woman. Everything is going great.
Then...she's GONE. What happened? Stay tuned for the surprising
answers.
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THE REAL REASON WHY WOMEN DISAPPEAR...EVEN AFTER
YOU'VE MET THEM IN REAL LIFE
Every single one of us as guys has faced this, I'm sure.
You meet a woman you really like. The phone conversations go well.
You arrange to hang out together. That goes great also.
She may even flirt like gangbusters and all but attack you first when
you go for the kiss.
Maybe you go out with her again. And it's terrific, again.
Then...NOTHING. She evaporates.
Or at the very least she texts you or leaves some lame voice mail
saying in some "code language" that she can't see you anymore.
Your first impression, if you're a normal guy who drinks beer and
bleeds red, is that YOU blew it somehow.
And that makes sense. After all, kill the attraction by being
creepy or wimpy and, well, women will sort of bail on you.
But what if you've analyzed every single angle of this thing (as
is apparently a favorite pastime of most guys I know) and you're
at a total loss.
You're beating your head up against the wall (figuratively, let's
hope) and coming up with nothing but question marks.
OK, well maybe she met someone else. You've been "kicked off the
island".
That sucks. But it's a possibility.
And if all else fails, you'll probably think that must have been
what happened. Then you'll invariably start wondering what he's
got that you don't.
Not so fast, hombre.
There's another option.
But you're going to have to change your inwardly focused ways to
get to it.
And fair warning, this is yet another "high quality problem", albeit
a flat-out weird one.
To set up the scenario here, let's first consider something basic.
Women can suffer from the exact same brand of anxieties, self-
esteem issues and other "limiting beliefs" that we can as guys.
Of course, sometimes such women are amazing, terrific and even
stunning to most everyone else...but themselves.
What if the truth is that you have become a man who's getting the
"big four" (masculinity, confidence, ability to inspire confidence,
character) down more and more every day?
Sometimes a woman will simply refuse to believe that she deserves a
high-quality man like you in her life.
Shockingly, I've found that whether or not a woman feels this way
has almost no correlation to how amazing she REALLY is. So you
might not be able to spot her right away.
And there's another possible twist to this phenomenon, too.
Believe it or not, you'd be shocked by how often some women meet a
guy who is solid in every way and decide he's "too good to be
true".
Once again, this guy could very well be YOU if you've been paying
attention to what we've been talking about around here lately.
Having attracted a parade of I/J's (Idiot/Jerks), mama's boys and
wussies for what seems like forever, in either of the situations I
just described the woman may pull the plug on you as sort of a
"preemptive strike".
That way, she doesn't have to risk you twisting her emotions into
knots later when you dump her, which in her mind is all but
inevitable.
Don't say I didn't warn you this was a bizarre concept. But we're
talking advanced-level Chick Whispering here for sure.
I've personally been on dates where the woman announced, out
of the blue, that she was fearing that the "real version" of me
would jump out from behind a bush or something at any moment.
Should you hear something like that, it's a primary indicator that
what I'm talking about is going on.
Pay attention and file that intelligence away. Because the next
time around you may not get any clues at all.
Just the "freeze out" or the "hit and run" voice mail message.
But here's the thing: Once you can recognize when there's a
scenario like what we're discussing here going on, you can
actually do something about it.
Here's the deal.
When a woman "wimps out" (e.g. from a relationship she believes
she's not worthy of, or as a "preemptive strike" against getting
hurt), it's up to the man to TAKE CONTROL.
If we want out and let her go, that's our business. And it could
be the right decision.
Or...we can elect to rise to the occasion, become righteously
indignant and show some well-placed but firm emotion about it.
I've done exactly that with great effect in the past.
Sometimes you can really inspire women here by becoming upset
with them for not believing in their own beauty, and overall value
really.
I've even told women that their lack of faith in my attraction to
them was in fact to be taken as an insult of my own choices, since
I chose willingly.
I don't associate myself closely with substandard women, and her
assumption to the contrary--even when inwardly focused--was not
going to be excused as "modesty" when it was clear she was
seriously doubting her worth.
I'd tell her that was flatly unacceptable behavior, and often I'd
get tangible results.
And so can you in these situations. Women follow our lead.
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