[X&Y] Is Your Vision For Success With Women Too Small?
Published: Sat, 03/25/23
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DO YOU BELIEVE IN YOUR ABILITY TO SUCCEED WITH
WOMEN AS MUCH AS I DO?
There's nothing I love more than to hear success stories from
guys who have raised the bar higher than they ever could have
imagined previously...
...Perhaps even higher than they thought possible even two or
three months before getting in touch with me.
But some guys think I'm full of it.
They refuse to believe (and I think "refuse" is the correct word
here) that what I talk about around here is even possible at all,
let alone for THEM.
I would be shocked and confused by this, except a number of
years ago I would have been right there with them.
I used to think dating more than one woman at once was a
ridiculous fantasy that was only possible in the movies.
I thought women called all the shots, and men had to grovel for
acceptance from them...only to get "rejected" anyway.
And after my bitter divorce I even started thinking all women were
"crazy" and just wanted to use us as guys as if we're human ATM
machines.
It was only after doing a LOT of research and "field testing" that
I started to see what was truly possible: beautiful, sexy women
being kind, sweet and adoring.
And THAT'S what compelled me to leave a perfectly good career
as a regional sales manager for a trendy IT company to start X & Y
Communications.
It wasn't to make hollow promises to desperate guys about how to
"get laid fast".
Sure, I understand how badly sexual frustration can hurt. And I
want to help guys who have experienced zero success with
women cure the immense personal pain that goes along with that.
But you know what?
If getting a phone number equals "success", and simply having
sex is the goal, then there are plenty of places on the Internet that
can hook you up with what you want.
But my vision for you is MUCH, MUCH greater than that.
I trust you are unwilling to "settle" for anything less than a
wildly successful dating life where you call all the shots, make
all the decisions, and manage relationships with women who
absolutely adore you and would do ANYTHING for you...
...Ultimately culminating in meeting and permanently attracting the
GREATEST woman ever.
But first things first. Even though I already know you should never
settle, I want to make sure up front that you see yourself being
GREAT instead of just GOOD with women.
Consider this. When I think of my typical newsletter reader, I
picture an educated and talented guy with tons of potential.
And I picture him FED UP with hanging out with women who
don't meet his standards.
That's how I see YOU.
And guess what? Based on the vast majority of e-mail I get, I
pretty much understand my audience.
So here's my challenge to you:
Do YOU believe in your own success as much as I DO?
It's not just POSSIBLE. It's within your grasp.
Emily is not a paid actress. (Yes, I've actually heard that
one before).
And yes, things go as well for us in real life as they do on our
Web sites.
And yes, there were other high quality women in my life before
I met and chose Emily.
And above all, NO...I'm not smoking crack. I REALLY think
you can rise above simply "getting a girl...ANY girl" and
seriously accomplish your ULTIMATE vision of success with
women.
Far too many men have have limited vision in that area.
Do you know what my biggest challenge with guys on my
Ten-Plus program is?
You may shake your head at this, but it's that they disappear
after seven or eight out of ten planned 1-on-1 topics with
me.
They aren't displeased. They don't want their money back.
They're simply overwhelmed.
They're seeing some success, and they're thrilled with it.
But what I have in mind for them is a more complete plan
with an even happier ending.
And I continually have to remind guys of that and help them see
the opportunity for greater success ahead than even they
imagine.
It's gotten to the point where I actually tell guys about this
phenomenon when they first get started on a Ten-Plus program.
They say it'll never happen in their case, yet it often still does.
Why?
Because very few men on Earth ever actually achieve the
kind of success we talk about around here.
Therefore, it's hard to imagine because you and almost everyone
you've ever met can't relate to it.
And the one or two guys you've known along the way who can?
When you heard them talk about the women in their lives, you
probably thought they were...are you ready for this?...full of it.
Here's the most mind-blowing part of the story. Despite the fact
that almost all guys live their entire lives without the success with
women they would have liked to have had, it's not as hard as
you think to achieve it.
You may have suspected that all along. All I've done is confirm
it for you.
It's just that most of us are competitive creatures, and it's easier
for us to dismiss rumors of wild success than to accept the
truth and make it happen for ourselves.
Even worse? Most of us are too proud to ask for directions.
Or...we figure out there's no "quick fix" and it might take some
effort.
So like most people in life, we get lazy and stop before we even
start.
Or we get too squeamish and give up too quickly.
How many times have you seen a guitar in the corner gathering
dust?
Welcome to exactly the concept I'm talking about.
Most of us would love to be rock stars, but are content to play a
video game that simulates it instead.
Success with women? Most of us are content to watch porn
instead of doing what it takes to meet hot, sexy women in real
life.
The strange truth about human nature is this. We all want THE
PRIZE, but we don't exert any energy or effort to GET IT.
Consider the times where you've seen raffles or drawings featuring
a cool prize for the winner. You want the prize. But as soon as
you figure out you've got to fill out some sort of form to be eligible,
you pass.
The higher you aim, the more valuable the potential prize. And
the more valuable the prize, the more effort is involved.
But like I just alluded to, success with women is one of the
prizes in life that absolutely, positively delivers the most reward
for even a very reasonable amount of effort.
And guys still miss that. They REFUSE to believe it.
Welcome to what keeps me up at night.
What's it going to take to get YOU to believe you can get the
kind of woman you truly desire?
Was this newsletter enough?
Can you cut through your doubt?
Can you accept a vision for YOURSELF that is as lofty as mine
is for you?
Can you look WAY past getting a phone number as a definition of
"success"?
I trust you can. Because crazy or not, I BELIEVE you can achieve.
If I can, YOU CAN.
All it really takes is a belief that you CAN understand women, that
they CAN be high-quality human beings, and that they DO want a
high-quality "big four" man like you in their lives as much as YOU
want them in yours.
Take Action...Let's Talk:
https://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/takeaction
Be Good,
Scot McKay
There's nothing I love more than to hear success stories from
guys who have raised the bar higher than they ever could have
imagined previously...
...Perhaps even higher than they thought possible even two or
three months before getting in touch with me.
But some guys think I'm full of it.
They refuse to believe (and I think "refuse" is the correct word
here) that what I talk about around here is even possible at all,
let alone for THEM.
I would be shocked and confused by this, except a number of
years ago I would have been right there with them.
I used to think dating more than one woman at once was a
ridiculous fantasy that was only possible in the movies.
I thought women called all the shots, and men had to grovel for
acceptance from them...only to get "rejected" anyway.
And after my bitter divorce I even started thinking all women were
"crazy" and just wanted to use us as guys as if we're human ATM
machines.
It was only after doing a LOT of research and "field testing" that
I started to see what was truly possible: beautiful, sexy women
being kind, sweet and adoring.
And THAT'S what compelled me to leave a perfectly good career
as a regional sales manager for a trendy IT company to start X & Y
Communications.
It wasn't to make hollow promises to desperate guys about how to
"get laid fast".
Sure, I understand how badly sexual frustration can hurt. And I
want to help guys who have experienced zero success with
women cure the immense personal pain that goes along with that.
But you know what?
If getting a phone number equals "success", and simply having
sex is the goal, then there are plenty of places on the Internet that
can hook you up with what you want.
But my vision for you is MUCH, MUCH greater than that.
I trust you are unwilling to "settle" for anything less than a
wildly successful dating life where you call all the shots, make
all the decisions, and manage relationships with women who
absolutely adore you and would do ANYTHING for you...
...Ultimately culminating in meeting and permanently attracting the
GREATEST woman ever.
But first things first. Even though I already know you should never
settle, I want to make sure up front that you see yourself being
GREAT instead of just GOOD with women.
Consider this. When I think of my typical newsletter reader, I
picture an educated and talented guy with tons of potential.
And I picture him FED UP with hanging out with women who
don't meet his standards.
That's how I see YOU.
And guess what? Based on the vast majority of e-mail I get, I
pretty much understand my audience.
So here's my challenge to you:
Do YOU believe in your own success as much as I DO?
It's not just POSSIBLE. It's within your grasp.
Emily is not a paid actress. (Yes, I've actually heard that
one before).
And yes, things go as well for us in real life as they do on our
Web sites.
And yes, there were other high quality women in my life before
I met and chose Emily.
And above all, NO...I'm not smoking crack. I REALLY think
you can rise above simply "getting a girl...ANY girl" and
seriously accomplish your ULTIMATE vision of success with
women.
Far too many men have have limited vision in that area.
Do you know what my biggest challenge with guys on my
Ten-Plus program is?
You may shake your head at this, but it's that they disappear
after seven or eight out of ten planned 1-on-1 topics with
me.
They aren't displeased. They don't want their money back.
They're simply overwhelmed.
They're seeing some success, and they're thrilled with it.
But what I have in mind for them is a more complete plan
with an even happier ending.
And I continually have to remind guys of that and help them see
the opportunity for greater success ahead than even they
imagine.
It's gotten to the point where I actually tell guys about this
phenomenon when they first get started on a Ten-Plus program.
They say it'll never happen in their case, yet it often still does.
Why?
Because very few men on Earth ever actually achieve the
kind of success we talk about around here.
Therefore, it's hard to imagine because you and almost everyone
you've ever met can't relate to it.
And the one or two guys you've known along the way who can?
When you heard them talk about the women in their lives, you
probably thought they were...are you ready for this?...full of it.
Here's the most mind-blowing part of the story. Despite the fact
that almost all guys live their entire lives without the success with
women they would have liked to have had, it's not as hard as
you think to achieve it.
You may have suspected that all along. All I've done is confirm
it for you.
It's just that most of us are competitive creatures, and it's easier
for us to dismiss rumors of wild success than to accept the
truth and make it happen for ourselves.
Even worse? Most of us are too proud to ask for directions.
Or...we figure out there's no "quick fix" and it might take some
effort.
So like most people in life, we get lazy and stop before we even
start.
Or we get too squeamish and give up too quickly.
How many times have you seen a guitar in the corner gathering
dust?
Welcome to exactly the concept I'm talking about.
Most of us would love to be rock stars, but are content to play a
video game that simulates it instead.
Success with women? Most of us are content to watch porn
instead of doing what it takes to meet hot, sexy women in real
life.
The strange truth about human nature is this. We all want THE
PRIZE, but we don't exert any energy or effort to GET IT.
Consider the times where you've seen raffles or drawings featuring
a cool prize for the winner. You want the prize. But as soon as
you figure out you've got to fill out some sort of form to be eligible,
you pass.
The higher you aim, the more valuable the potential prize. And
the more valuable the prize, the more effort is involved.
But like I just alluded to, success with women is one of the
prizes in life that absolutely, positively delivers the most reward
for even a very reasonable amount of effort.
And guys still miss that. They REFUSE to believe it.
Welcome to what keeps me up at night.
What's it going to take to get YOU to believe you can get the
kind of woman you truly desire?
Was this newsletter enough?
Can you cut through your doubt?
Can you accept a vision for YOURSELF that is as lofty as mine
is for you?
Can you look WAY past getting a phone number as a definition of
"success"?
I trust you can. Because crazy or not, I BELIEVE you can achieve.
If I can, YOU CAN.
All it really takes is a belief that you CAN understand women, that
they CAN be high-quality human beings, and that they DO want a
high-quality "big four" man like you in their lives as much as YOU
want them in yours.
Take Action...Let's Talk:
https://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/takeaction
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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