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WHAT'S INSIDE: Ever notice how you hear
the same dating issues addressed over and
over again? What's up with that? 

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MOST MEN WILL TRY TO FIGURE IT ALL OUT
ON THEIR OWN


I spent the first 34 years of my life trying to
unravel the mystery of women and relationships.

It took the walls crashing in to make me finally
DO something.

Seven years with the WRONG woman, and
the inevitable pain and wrath that rained down
as a result.

Feeling alone and defeated, I didn't want to
be a victim.

Something HAD to change...forevermore. 

But if I kept doing what I had always done,
I'd keep getting what I had always gotten.

I made a stand. I bit the bullet and took full
advantage of someone else's knowledge
and experience.

Years later, after dating a mind-blowing
number of fantastic women and ultimately
enjoying a happy, healthy relationship with
the woman of my dreams for over 16 years
now...

...I can only wonder what took me so long.

Well, the short answer is there was nobody
teaching this stuff back when I could really
have used it.

I often joke, "Where was I when I needed
myself?"

But these days you don't have to endure
the same pain over and over again like I
did.

No more "trial and error".

No more frustration of attracting the same
WRONG women every time...if any at all.

No droughts or "losing streaks".

And for sure, no toxic marriages.

Don't kid yourself: Show me a man who
is bitter toward women and has sworn
them off, and I'll show you a man who
made a series of mission-critical mistakes
with them over and over again...

...before finally giving up.

I wish I could shout it from the mountain top
(and considering what's behind that link, I
suppose I already do):

It doesn't have to be that way.

Men who put me to work for them often
ask themselves the same question that
sounds so familiar to me: "What took me
so long to do this?"

Life is too short for regrets.

And there are FAR too many wonderful
women out there waiting for a man like
you to sweep them off their feet:



No Regrets. Only Results.



Most men go their entire lives without
asking for directions...ever.

But it's the men who actively make an
effort to achieve greatness who approach
it.

Having realized the fullness of that truth
personally, I've made it my purpose to
propel good, decent men all over the
world to greatness with women and
relationships for over 17 years now.

In fact, I probably have an even greater
vision for what's possible for you right
now than even YOU do:



Get The Success With Women You Already Know You Deserve



25 minutes on the phone is free. Do
what I did...get results and NEVER
look back.



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AND NOW FOR SOMETHING COMPLETELY DIFFERENT...


[Ed. Note:  Do you have a certain sticking point or a question
about something in particular that you've NEVER seen covered
anywhere? If so, send it to me at scot@deservewhatyouwant.com. 
Read on to find out why I'm bringing this up...]


I've borrowed this newsletter's title from Monty Python, obviously.
But the topic du jour isn't necessarily linked in any other way to
legendarily genius British humour in its outright silliest form.

Or wait a minute...maybe in fact it is.  But I'll let you be the
judge of that as you read what follows.

You see, here's the thing.  I've been immersed in this dating/
relationship stuff for nearly fourteen years now, and it never ceases
to amaze me that the SAME basic Q & A gets rehashed over and
over again.


"How do I approach women?"


"How do I stay out of the 'just be friends' zone?"


"How do I get my ex-girlfriend back?"


Now, according to human nature, it would be easy to brand the
legion of would-be dating advice givers out there as unimaginative
copycats and blame 'em all for the widespread "rehashing".

Except I need to remind you of something.

Most of YOU keep asking the same questions.  Over and over.

It's true.

So then, to be perfectly frank, what you might see as "rehashed"
material or even flat-out trite, worn-out advice is typically
issued in direct response to what guys apparently WANT to hear.

As such, you can't really blame the dating advice outlets
themselves for this state of affairs. On one level, it's all
perfectly logical. 

Seriously...why beat around the bush?  Why not just keep hammering
away at the same eight or ten questions that guys generally ask?

Well, not so fast.  I for one can think of two rather valid answers
to the question of "why not".

The first answer actually begets the second answer, so hang with me
for a couple of minutes here.

Answer #1:  I'm not going to dwell on the same "popular" topics
over and over again because they've all LONG SINCE been covered
already...and in lurid detail.

Think I'm kidding?  You can argue with me all you'd like (and many
of you will) but I promise you I'm telling you the truth here.

Of the e-mail I get on a daily basis, I'd estimate that a good
35-40% ask a very basic question that has been covered ad nauseam
in over 1000 places on the Internet...including
www.deservewhatyouwant.com.

What's more, the truly shocking facet to all of this is that the
answers to most, if not all questions asked over and over again are
BASIC and EASY.

To demonstrate, let's consider the examples I've already cited:

 

Q:  "How do I approach women?"


A:   Walk up to her, say "hello" and introduce yourself.  Be sure
to mind her personal space.



Q:  "How do I stay out of the 'just be friends' zone?"


A:  Let the true, natural masculinity you were born with come out
and present itself publicly, for a change.  Stop feeling guilt for
simply being a man, and for God's sake don't apologize for it.



Q:  "How do I get my ex-girlfriend back?"


A:  If you broke up, it was for good reason.  You're better off
without her.  "Next!"



And just for good measure...



Q:  "Where do I meet women?"


A:  Anywhere.  There is no such thing as a set, proper "venue" in
which to start a conversation with a woman.  If you go where women
actually are instead of the same sports bars full of other guys you
usually hang out at, so much the better.



Okay, then.  "Answer #1" is pretty cut and dried.  

So then, am I essentially telling you that I (and others in the
dating advice business like me) are required to make all of this
more complicated than it really is lest we all be out of a job?

Hardly.

Granted, we'd all get bored stiff if I gave in and answered the
same basic questions all the time.

But Answer #2 to the reason why I don't harp on the same stuff over
and over is where the proverbial rubber meets the road.

And that's because doing so wouldn't help you anyway.

There it is.  I said it.

Face it.  You really don't need me to "rehash" anything for you
because you've ALREADY HEARD every twist on every theme
associated with those "basic" questions, provided in full by whichever
dating "guru" you happen to resonate with.

Yet the same basic questions continue to be asked...and not
necessarily by newbies.

Very often the "basic" questions come from guys who I know for a
fact have been working at getting better with women for years now.

And it's not that guys who want solutions in this area of life are
hard-headed, stubborn or lazy.

After all, guys like you genuinely want answers.

So then, all of what I'm talking about here points to an obvious fact
of life:  You can't expect to achieve real success if you stick to
the "paint-by-number" basics.

If you want to rise above the "faceless herd" you're going to have
to build skills that others just don't have.

"But Scot", somebody asks, "Tim Duncan is one of the greatest power
forwards in NBA history, and his nickname is 'The Big Fundamental'".

Granted.  But Timmy didn't become a 2 time NBA MVP simply by
putting his hand in shooters' faces and using the glass.

He's also had the Spurs' ridiculously complicated playbook down
cold and had patented moves in the low-post that drove defenders
nuts.

Indeed, he was ALWAYS looking for an "edge" and he was ALWAYS
improving.

So sure, you've got to make sure you've got the basics covered when
it comes to getting better with women.

BUT...it's those added "pluses" you gain along the way--those
feathers in your cap--that will really take you from "zero" to
"hero" with women.

An analogy I like to use is that of a guy who'd like to learn how
to handle a sports car in high-performance situations, perhaps so
he can go racing.

So he looks up "driving schools" on the Internet.  

He plunks down his money and takes a course at "A1 Defensive
Driving" on how to parallel park, observe signals, and keep his
hands at "ten and two".

But obviously, going back to "basics" doesn't transform him into a
Formula One champion overnight.  

What he REALLY needed was to call up someone like Bob Bondurant
in Phoenix and get advanced training in competitive, high-performance
driving.

By now you know that what I'm telling you makes sense.

But here's the "punch line" in this would-be Python-esque comedy:
Since most of us have never gotten PAST the basics, we really don't
even know WHAT TO ASK when it comes to going beyond them.

Seriously.  If the wild success of others with women confounds you,
it's altogether possible that figuring out HOW they got there will
confound you as well.

Like Marcellus Wallace in Pulp Fiction, you might someday figure
out EXACTLY why "a foot massage isn't just a foot massage".

Or you might gain the secret to kissing a woman not just
"adequately", but in a way that makes her WANT you.

But unless you ALREADY know the value of those skills, it's
altogether possible that you'd likely never have the presence of
mind to ASK about acquiring them.

I used to think that answering questions that nobody is asking was
a wasted effort.  But lately, some of your most powerful responses
have been to newsletters featuring completely original ideas.

This particular newsletter has served as an explanation of why
gaining unique and uncommon insight is what's going to ultimately
get you the success with women you're looking for.

You can also consider this newsletter my promise to bring up the
right questions and give practical, in-depth answers.

My pledge is to deliver as many insider secrets to you as I can
that will compel women to describe you as "amazing" rather than
seeing you as just another boring guy who doesn't get it.

And that just might be the Holy Grail, sir Robin.