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IN THIS EDITION: You're getting hot and
heavy with her, but there's something that
really should be dealt with. Do you dare
interrupt the flow?

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BUZZKILL BREATH


Recently I got a call from a Ten-Plus guy who was seriously
bummed out over a second date he’d had with a sexy woman
recently.

“Well, I had her over to my place and cooked her dinner, just like
you said.  We ended up on my couch and started making out.  But I
sort of didn’t exactly kiss her the way I would have liked to
because, well…her breath grossed me out.”

Okay, that’s actually a paraphrase. I’m not good at memorizing
direct quotes that long.

But never mind that. The point is that he was willing to forgive
her social faux pas. Therefore he didn’t mention anything, let
alone DO anything about it.

Predictably, after a couple of days of laissez-faire texting back
and forth, along came her “pre-emptive strike”.

She didn’t want to go out with him anymore. When pressed, sure
enough…she thought the kissing several nights before had been
“awkward”.

“Awkward” is a multi-purpose word that conveniently fits whenever
something doesn’t feel quite right. As such, it’s not always easy
to discern what causes said awkwardness and/or who, if anyone in
particular, is at fault.

As we as guys are prone to doing, my friend asked me, “So what
did I do wrong?”

My immediate and generally well-placed response to him was to
remind him that SHE was the one with the offensive breath. As
such, he’s not at fault at all.

But here’s the thing. That doesn’t mean that he couldn’t have
rescued the whole brouhaha from the ruthless jaws of defeat.

The simple solution?

He should have had at least one packaged, unused toothbrush
around the house, along with some mouthwash.
 
After dinner, he should have suggested that they BOTH “freshen
up” before watching that movie together on the couch.

Right about now I want you to check yourself. Are you thinking I
must be nuts?

If so, it might be because you think like the vast majority of men
do in situations like these.

The assumption is that if you break the flow of sexual tension at
any point in the ramping up process, the woman is probably
going to come to her senses and go running out the door.

But that fear comes from the limiting belief that women don’t ever
really WANT to be sexual.

It's as if we as men have to somehow trick them or whatever if
we are ever “lucky” enough to find ourselves in a position to get
physical with them.

As the thinking goes, the LAST thing you'd want to do if she's
actually kissing you is STOP. I mean, don't even give her a
CHANCE to exercise rational thinking.

The truth of the matter is actually very different, and recognizing
it is a MAJOR step to mastery with women.

Once a woman is sexually attracted to you, handling necessary
logistics when necessary will NOT ruin things. In fact, it’s often
what separates success from failure.
 
Remember, she’s a big girl now and therefore can make her own
sexual decisions.

So in the case I mentioned above, my friend knew immediately,
the very moment he first kissed her that her breath needed work.

But he dared not interrupt things because, like most guys, he
assumed there would be no going back.

She’d realize she’d been going down that sexual path, gasp aloud,
wonder what the hell she was doing, and get out as fast as she can.

But he indeed could have sat up, did a mea culpa and said, “You
know, after that dinner I should be civilized and freshen up a bit.
I’ve got an extra, brand new toothbrush so I’ve got you covered,
too.”

It’s not like a genuine “mood killer” (e.g. vomiting all over you)
happened there. It’s just a simple, necessary logistical task
that needs to be taken care of.

Experienced men know that women LOVE feeling fresh and clean,
and are practically phobic about being dirty or stinky.

In other words, she’ll actually LOVE you for suggesting the
interruption. Test me on this one. You might be astounded by the
results.

At the very least, you won’t hurtle towards CERTAIN failure due to
attempting a bad breath make out session.

“But Scot, won’t she suspect you’re some sort of man whore for
having extra toothbrushes ready to go like that?”

Believe it or not, she won’t. In fact, if you’re smart you’ll have
female-friendly soap, shampoo, and even—sit down for this—
maxi pads around the house, too.
 
No kidding. Being prepared isn’t just for Boy Scouts.

Condoms are a given, too, obviously. And no, it’s field-tested that
she STILL won’t think you’re a man whore.

On the contrary, women will believe you know how to make them
feel safe and protected. Even if they do suspect you must have
women in the house from time to time, feeling cared for in the
moment will trump any fleeting suspicion.

So the takeaway here is really two-fold, isn’t it?

First, make sure you’ve got your residence well-equipped for
female visitation. By the way, have some Ibuprofen on hand too.
That’s nothing more than solid 20/20 foresight.

Second, small interruptions don’t mess things up.
 
Don’t ever be afraid to handle logistics in the moment, even
when getting frisky with a woman you really like.

It's likely she's looking forward to what happens next as much,
if not even more than you are.

So if your dog starts howling at precisely the wrong time, go
ahead and see what’s up.

If you have to go to the bathroom, go.

If she comes over your house after work and the action
progresses quickly, suggest you take a shower together.

And yes…if you find yourself making out with her in the parking
lot, suggest that you go back to your place instead of making a
public spectacle.

Even if you’re in separate cars, I promise she’ll follow you
home.

Especially if you’re a good kisser.


Be Good,

Scot McKay




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