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IN THIS EDITION: You don't always have
access to all the information you think you
need, do you? The good news is neither
does everyone else...including the woman
you have your eye on.

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DON'T JUST STAND THERE...SAY
SOMETHING!


Think about those times we've locked eyes
with HER--the sexiest woman we've seen in
ages...

...the one who REALLY does it for us...

...but somehow couldn't gather the courage
or the right words to approach.

What if I told you it is 100% possible
never to be at a loss for words (or action)
ever again?

Well, the secret to effortlessly captivating
a woman's attention and winning her heart
FAST is in the sheer power of...banter.

Sharp wit. The right words at the right time.

Then, scorching chemistry that transforms
you into the charismatic man around women
you've always wanted to be.

The secrets are all right here:



199 Ways To Banter With Women



Imagine having just ONE example of the
exact right words to say at the exact right
moment.

Now...imagine a whopping 199 of them:



199? Are You Out Of Your Mind?



But beyond the laughter and fun to be found
there, there's even more depth...something
I dare not spoil for you.

You'll have to uncover that secret yourself:



Real, Actionable, Banter-rific Examples



So, are you ready to accept this challenge,
dive into a roller coaster ride of hilarity
and charm, and unlock the hypnotizing power
within you?

Don't blame me if you find yourself
questioning everything you thought you knew
about the art of attraction and your own
hidden potential.





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HOW I BEAT THE WORLD CHAMPION (TRUE STORY)


I don't talk about it much in this space, but years ago I used to
race BMX.

Although the sport was begun by kids on Schwinn Stingrays
imitating motorcycles, it's come a long way since then and is now
basically Ben Hur on bicycles. Maybe you've seen it in the
Olympics.

So one time I made the main event at a national level race and
beat the World Champion. It was a wire-to-wire victory, actually.

That's 100% true. And it sounds pretty impressive, right?

But wait a minute...what if I told you that wasn't the whole
story?

In other words, I left out the details.

Well, one of the reasons why BMX racing is such an intense sport
is that once you make the finals (or "main") you get one chance to
make it or break it with seven other guys--all your own age and
skill level. It's a 40-second war on wheels, and any outcome is
possible because someone almost always crashes.

Sure enough, you've already guessed one major detail I omitted
from the story. The guy I beat had actually mistimed the gate in
the big race and crashed before he even got rolling:

That doesn't change the facts. My name still appeared ahead of his
in the final results.

But it's also not like I overpowered the dude, flashed mad skeelz he
couldn't touch and stuffed him in a garbage can.

Quite honestly, every other factory-sponsored badass in that final
smoked me like a cheap cigar. I got seventh place.

But hey, those aren't the details that matter if you ask me. I beat
the World Champion...at his own game, no less, which is the good
part.

One of my friends also beat one of the top guys in the USA in a
State Championship race for a similar reason. The fast guy had
wiped out in the last turn.

My friend conveniently told everyone that he had "passed him like
he was lying there".

Again...no details.

So obviously, this newsletter isn't about what I do in my spare time.
It's about succeeding with women. That means that this whole idea
of either giving or getting "no details" has to relate in some way.

Indeed it does. In fact, I'd say it does so in at least THREE ways:



1)  When She Doesn't Respond Favorably To You


Sometimes you approach a woman and she isn't interested in talking
to you. Either that or she balks at giving you her phone number at
the end of the conversation.

While most guys would call that "rejection" the plain truth is there's a
good probability that what happened is NOT a reflection on you
personally, especially if you weren't pushy, weird or creepy.

Maybe she's got a boyfriend, for real. Maybe she's had a rough day.
Maybe she's a lesbian. I've even had a woman tell me that she
didn't talk to a guy once because she had just eaten onions and was
self-conscious about her breath.

Think about it...a woman doesn't necessarily OWE you any of those
details, does she?



2)  When A Guy Is With Her


Man, how many times do we see a woman with another guy and
automatically assume she's unavailable?

But see, in those situations the ONLY real "detail" you're given is
that the two of them happen to be hanging out together.

During a recent trip we were on a boat with several other "couples".
One was an older guy with a pretty young woman. Just when
Emily and I were convinced that the guy had done pretty well for
himself, we found out the chick was actually his daughter. Go
figure.

You can bet that lots of the guys you see around with women are
actually tagging along with co-workers or having lunch with a
sibling.

In those situations, hang back and be observant for a couple of
minutes. You may discover more details that way.



3)  When She's Curious About You


Have you figured out why the guy in those "Most Interesting
Man In The World" commercials is so blasted intriguing?

You got it...no details.

You see his pet mountain lion jump up onto the counter as he's
cooking dinner, or you see him riding on an elephant drawing
sketches of people.

Beyond what's seen in those rapid-fire snippets of film, you know
nothing...and that creates intrigue. What the heck is going
on there?

Intrigue is a very good thing to have working in your favor when
attracting women. 

Most guys put several blatantly obvious pictures of what they're
most proud of on their online profiles and write full captions.

Instead, try putting ONE rather subtle picture of you doing
something amazing and give NO DETAILS.

And when you're actually on a date with a woman you like, try
casually (and indirectly) alluding to amazing stuff in passing and
let her ask you for the details. Then give her only a few before
changing the subject back to her.

The mistake almost all men make is to give women all the
information in the world about themselves, even if she doesn't need
or even want to hear it yet.

Be different. Save the details until she's beside herself wanting
to hear them. If you're INTERESTING, she's going to be
INTERESTED, if you get my drift.  It works.



Hey, I know it's tough not knowing everything before getting into a
certain situation. And I realize that sometimes it's even tougher
to avoid giving a woman we really like ALL the details we can.

But I have to tell you, one of the first and best ways to get over
fear of "rejection" is to realize that it's not always about YOU,
regardless of what it might look like.

And similarly, one of the first and best ways to conquer being an
approval seeker is to stop giving women all the details up front.