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IN THIS EDITION:  Can you really become a cooler guy in the blink
of an eye?  Here's how...

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TODAY'S TOPIC IS A REALLY GOOD ONE, ISN'T IT?


In today's newsletter I'm going to give you a really cool tip for
making everyone around you think  more highly of you...immediately.

But I'm sure you've already guessed that there must be more where
that came from.

You betcha.  Here's my killer audio program on the subject (which I
almost never talk about):



http://www.beingcooler.com



At $27 it won't break the bank.

But what it WILL do is deliver simple, actionable steps
to being the go-to guy in your social circle.

I'll show you the easy way to make friends who won't use
you or let you down.

Better yet, I'll reveal the secrets to making women you've
known for a while (maybe even years) suddenly wake up and
take notice of you at a deeper and more sexual level.

Guys who get their hands on this RAVE about it.  That's
because what's in the audio is neither complicated nor
difficult to do.  It just WORKS.

Really, once you know the secrets it's as if the mental
triggers you need are automatically installed without
having to practice, change habits or anything like that.

Powerful results tend to come quickly:



http://www.beingcooler.com



By the way, if you've ever worked in the IT world you'll
appreciate the title.



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HOW TO BE A COOLER GUY...INSTANTLY


Today I've got one of those rare but wonderful nuggets of knowledge
that can actually bring you immediate gratification.

That's right...INSTANT results.  There's no hard work, practice or
memorization necessary.

It's a simple mindset adjustment that'll make everyone you meet
stop and think to themselves, "Man, is that ever a cool guy."

Here it is:


  Be both INFORMED and INQUISITIVE when interacting with others.


So what does that really mean?  As promised, it's simple.

Being perceived as cool is not only about coming off as sharp and
interesting, it's even MORE about making the person you're talking
to FEEL sharp and interesting him or herself.

So first off, if you have some knowledge about what's interesting
to that person, that will reassure them that you find their gig
interesting.  You therefore build rapport.

Weirdly, a lot of people try to HIDE whatever knowledge they have
of another person and/or their interests out of fear that it'll
make them seem like a "fan boy".

They worry about skewing the balance of personal power in the
other person's direction.

But see, it's being INQUISITIVE that restores balance, actually
giving YOU the power even as you make the other person like you
better.

That's because while you, in essence, offer that you know SOMETHING
of what interests him or her, you also allow for the other person
to illuminate YOUR interest with even more information.  You give
THEM the chance to look like an expert.

So then, you've got just enough knowledge about the person to
engage them intelligently up front, BUT you are also all about
allowing them to demonstrate how amazing they are to you.

It's not like you've obsessed over this person and what he or she
is passionate about.

It's just that you're neither in the dark about it or as much of an
expert as they are.

Voila...the next thing you know the other person is busy working for
YOUR approval, even as he or she thinks you're wonderful for
validating him or her straightaway.

To drive home the power of this approach to relating to others,
let's consider the opposite:  IGNORANCE combined with ARROGANCE.

Think about it.  Is there anyone who could possibly be harder to
endure socially than someone who thinks he's better and smarter
than everyone else, but who is actually dead wrong?

Right after the unfortunate Boston Marathon bombing several
years ago, certain media outlets published photos of two teenage
boys who appeared to fit the description of who police were searching
for.

It wasn't long before the two kids were completely cleared of any
wrongdoing.

Yet, for weeks afterward they and their families were fearing for
their lives because of certain dumb asses who didn't get the memo
and were posting threatening messages to them on Facebook.  

Some were spewing invective even while lecturing them on how to be
a nicer human being.  Others were telling them that they hope they
rot in jail...or hell.  Some went so far as to issue death threats.

That's "ignorant arrogance" for you.

Is it cool to sit in judgment of others to begin with?  Of course
not.  But when someone does that from a position of complete
misinformation it flat-out makes most normal people's blood boil.
That's just exponentially more irritating.

Nobody in that scenario ends up looking cool, do they?

And let me tell you, I completely get that there are quite a few
women out there who indulge in the height of "ignorant arrogance"
pretty much habitually, just because of their looks.  

And my guess is that often serves as a miracle cure for "beauty
vision" in the eyes of many self-respecting guys.

Meanwhile, being INFORMED and INQUISITIVE makes everyone in the
picture look good.  As such, it wins friends and influences people.

Make the decision right now to be that guy.  Watch your social life
improve right before your very eyes as a direct result.  I can tell
you with 100% certainty that your fortunes with high quality women
will improve as well.