[X&Y] Make Her Trust You...Fast
Published: Wed, 06/14/23
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WHAT'S INSIDE: If a woman feels safe and comfortable around you,
that means she trusts you. Here's a simple way to build that trustfast.
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MORE WOMEN ON WEEKENDS
The weekend is coming.
Do you have a great evening with a great woman planned, or will
you sit at home watching Netflix?
Do you have plans in place this weekend to meet that sexy girl
whose number you got this past week, or is it going to be another
night at the sports bar?
Did you even GET that girl's phone number yet this week?
If the answer is NO to any or all of the above questions, there's
only one question left to ask:
Isn't it time to get serious about turning this part of your life
around?
If you're like most guys who are reading this, you have
experienced some solid success in other areas of your life.
But the "black hole" remains getting a high quality woman to share
the good life with.
That's where I come in.
You can put me to work for you directly. I'm your personal trainer
for success with women.
You've had a personal trainer at the gym and possibly even a coach
to help your golf swing.
And you saw dramatic results.
This is no different.
Having a great relationship with the woman of your dreams is one of
the most important and fulfilling aspects of a life well lived.
And it's time you reached your goals.
As a world-class dating coach, I've been where you are and turned
it all around in my own life. That's important. I wasn't born a
"natural".
My educational background only serves to enhance my real-world
track record of getting results 100% of the time for guys just like you.
And since I've been immersed in the art and science of dating and
relationships all day long for nearly fourteen years now, I've spent
countless hours thinking and strategizing about how best to attract
and enchant women.
And best of all, as a teacher by trade I know how best to impart
knowledge to you, empowering you to turn that information into
practical reality.
Ten-Plus man Rich in Vermont says:
Good morning, Scot.
Briefly.
For decades my friends, family, and relatives would ask me such
questions as, "Are you gay?", "Why aren't you married?", "Why
don't you have a girlfriend?"
Yesterday my cousin asked me: "So...are you ever going to be
monogamous?"
questions as, "Are you gay?", "Why aren't you married?", "Why
don't you have a girlfriend?"
Yesterday my cousin asked me: "So...are you ever going to be
monogamous?"
See the difference?
Thank you!
Right now I have just a couple open spots in the exclusive Ten-Plus
coaching program. That's where we work together to build you a customized plan of
action based on YOUR specific vision for success, and then get
you results that are far beyond what you even dream of.
I'm still one of the few dating coaches who stands by his
work...guaranteed.
If you have the gut feeling that the time is right to get in touch
with me, send me your story at:
If you are in the United States, feel free to text or call me directly
on 210-260-6400. If you're anywhere else in the world, add me on
Skype as "scotmckay".
And remember, if you'd like to try an initial consultation to make
sure I'm the right guy to work with, that's always available to you:
Now, let's talk about how to build a woman's trust in record time.
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MAKE HER TRUST YOU...FAST
Granted, I rarely draw comparisons between what happens in the
animal kingdom and human male/female relationships.
To be honest, I'm generally suspicious of that sort of thing.
But sometimes the shoe really does fit, if simply for demonstrative
purposes.
So with that said, I believe there's something about how we as
humans interact with dogs and cats that's directly relevant to
today's topic, which is helping a woman trust you as quickly as
possible.
Hopefully, I don't have to underscore why getting her to trust
you is so important.
Suffice it to say that causing a woman to feel safe and comfortable
around you--which is one of the "big four" ways to get a high quality
woman into your life--is built upon trust as its cornerstone.
If a woman is attracted to you and feels safe with you, just about
anything goes in terms of how you choose to direct the
relationship, so long as you have her best interests at heart.
Alright then, about those dogs and cats...
Think about what happens when you encounter a dog or a cat that
you've never met before.
The dog may be super friendly at first, or it might growl at you.
It all depends on the dog's temperament, right?
Meanwhile, the cat is likely to blink slowly as it turns its head
and then trot away, at least for the time being.
So if you want to help the dog or cat to feel more comfortable
around you, what do you do?
Well sure, you can have the dog sniff your hand and/or you can give
a treat to either the dog or the cat.
Now, rest assured I'm not going either one of those places when it
comes to women. I'm reserving the right to believe we're more
evolved than that.
BUT...there is another very useful way to break the ice with new
canine and feline acquaintances.
That's to be playful with them.
If a dog or cat does venture in your direction, you might naturally
rub it on the head in a friendly way as you kneel down to be more
eye-level with it.
And if you're particularly astute when it comes to house pets,
you'll play tug-o-war with it using a doggy toy or something
similar to that.
In doing so, you'll lighten the mood.
Amazingly, most dogs and cats will utterly transform their demeanor
around you once you've demonstrated you know how to be playful
with them.
The most dramatic display of this occurs with a dog or a cat
you've just met rolls over on its back and let you know it'd like you
to scratch it's tummy. Very nice.
Consider that the front parts of any mammal are by far the most
vulnerable. Therefore, exposing them to a stranger inherently
involves quite a bit of trust. They have to be completely confident
that you mean them no harm.
OK, so this newsletter isn't specifically about getting a woman to
expose her front parts to you as quickly as possible.
But as far as end results are concerned that may not be too far off
base, just the same.
The point is that we as humans tend to assign trustworthiness to
playfulness in much the same way as dogs and cats do.
It's just that for whatever reason we typically don't quite have as
much experience applying that principle to each other as we do with
pets.
But don't kid yourself. Women are all about playfulness, and when
you as a man lead in that direction you can only see good things
happen.
Playfulness, as I've mentioned in the past, is a feminine gift to
us as men. But since women respond to our lead as men, so it's up
to us to free her up to be playful.
So if you've ever wondered why words like "teasing" and "banter" so
often accompany any teaching on how to meet women, I've just told
you why.
Making a woman feel feminine makes her horny for you almost
instantly.
AND...sort of like a "double bonus", instilling a sense of
playfulness in her causes her to trust you as well as being
attracted to you.
Why is that, exactly? Well, when you cause a woman to think of
"fun" when she thinks of YOU, she can't help but expect the best
from you in other ways as well.
At the baseline level, she responds to you with optimism rather
than pessimism, for lack of a more basic way to put it.
But whatever the nature of the magic that happens when you bring
the playfulness and get trust in return, the phenomenon is very
real, and that's the most important truth to remember here.
Think of that the next time you are tempted to bust out with the
default "interview questions" on a first date. I've yet to ever
experience a "playful" interview...how about you?
And rest assured, nobody has ever fallen in love with someone
based on interview questions.
Instead, keep the conversation light. Don't fear a slight bit of
straight-up silliness as much as you've perhaps been told to in the
past.
Even James Bond, Paul Newman and John Wayne weren't dead
serious all the time.
Oh, and by all means, please don't apply any of what I've talked
about here unless you really are trustworthy and really do have a
woman's best interests at heart.
It won't end well otherwise. I promise.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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