[X&Y] Revolting, Repugnant, Repulsive Or Merely Disgusting
Published: Fri, 09/08/23
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IN THIS EDITION: Too many guys are letting their confidence take
too much of a hit when a date doesn't go well. Here's a great way
to reframe things when that happens...
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SEE FOR YOURSELF
It's been about five years since I summoned the courage to tell you
about Pheromone Advantage for the first time.
Plenty of you wrote me e-mails back then that read exactly like my
thoughts used to.
Doubt. Confusion. Even resentment over the fact that a guy like
me would talk about something like pheromones.
That lasted about a day or two.
Then a couple of weeks later, I started getting different e-mails.
These were from guys who'd actually tried the stuff.
I have to admit, at first I braced myself.
Some of the guys writing me were Ten-Plus guys who I actually talk
to personally on a regular basis.
My good name was on the line with those guys perhaps more than
any others.
But those later e-mails echoed what I know about Pheromone
Advantage nowadays.
It was working for those guys just like it had for me.
And yes, even those guys were a little surprised...in the best way
possible.
So all that's left to ask is, "What are you waiting for?"
Why not get in on the fun for yourself?
Use "SCOT15" at checkout for 15% off, free shipping on
multi-bottle orders and a free bar of pheromone soap:
https://www.scotrecommends.com/dramend
A life where women are perkier and friskier when they're around
you is a far more fulfilling one. The alternative is to let them carry
on with "business as usual" when you're around.
But don't take my word for it.
See for yourself:
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REVOLTING, REPUGNANT, REPULSIVE OR MERELY
DISGUSTING
The other day I got an e-mail that really troubled me for some
reason.
I'd received countless others talking about a phenomenon similar
to what this guy was describing, but never one containing a certain
word he used in context:
"I went out on a date with a girl this past week, but after our
second date she didn't want to go out with me again. She said I
was a nice guy and everything, but that she just didn't think we
we're a match.
So I'm thinking she must have found me repulsive. Is there any
hope for a guy like me?"
It's not uncommon at all for guys to get down on themselves after
things don't exactly go well with a woman.
But what I want to strongly caution you about is really beating the
heck out of yourself in those cases.
Dude...if you're taking care of basic hygiene, have reasonably normal
social skills and generally have women's best interests in mind
you're most certainly NOT "repulsive".
That's a STRONG word. "Repulsion" would pretty much indicate that
she's so turned off and disgusted by you that she's pretty much on
the verge of vomiting.
Come on now, man. Are small children really running away screaming
whenever you go out in public?
If not, then you're off the hook for "repulsive". Trust me on that
one.
You're likely not revolting, repugnant, or even merely disgusting, either.
Fair enough?
But here's the deeper point.
The guy who wrote me had actually gone out with the woman who
later told him "no thanks".
Burn this fact into your psyche: If she goes out on a date with
you, she has to be at least marginally interested in you.
Nobody--man or woman--agrees to meetings with MOTOS (members
of the other sex) that could potentially have romantic meaning if there
is anything negative being felt there, let alone "repulsion".
But wait. The guy who'd written to me had actually gone on a
second date with her, too.
Believe me also when I tell you that if a second date happened then
she must have actually felt attraction at some level.
Second dates just don't happen in the complete absence of mutual
attraction, especially when the people involved have plenty of
options.
So what did happen, then, to mess things up?
Well, maybe our hero messed up somewhere and came off creepy in
a way that caused her to suddenly feel uneasy around him.
Or more likely, he persisted in keeping the conversation "neuter"
rather than acknowledging her femininity and feeling the freedom to
portray himself as masculine.
Maybe the truth is that they really weren't so compatible with each
other, it's just that it wasn't quite as clear to him yet as it was to her.
Whatever it was, it most certainly wasn't about his appearance.
And if you've ever gone on a date with a woman that doesn't end up
working out for whatever reason, it wasn't about yours either.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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