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IN THIS EDITION: Are you reading these newsletters hoping what I
talk about DOESN'T work? If that sounds really bizarre, it is...but
I'd strongly suggest reading onward anyway.

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ONCE UPON A TIME...


Here's a little story for you:


  Once upon a time, there was a man. Everywhere he went he saw
  beautiful, desirable women.

  Occasionally, one would even catch his eye. He wondered to himself
  whether she actually just smiled at him, or if he was just seeing
  things.

  But no matter what, he'd NEVER go talk to them.

  And worse, when other guys DID talk to them, it always seemed that
  the women would smile and even flirt a bit.

  Sometimes (the horror!) he'd even watch as other guys got women's
  numbers and even went out with them...instead of him.

  Still...he did NOTHING.

  Sooner than later, he began rationalizing that walking up to women
  and meeting them was for OTHER guys, not him.   

  He'd dwell on all of his "problems", and decide on every woman's
  behalf that they wouldn't want to go out with him.

  Days...weeks...months...and even YEARS passed. Birthdays
  came and went.

  Still...he did NOTHING.


[...screeeech!...]   I've heard enough, haven't you?

Just in case you feel ripped off because you didn't hear the
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The point is that you definitely don't want to be the guy in the story.

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I'VE BEEN FIRED


Let me ask you a bizarre question, but one that I promise is very
important, nonetheless.

Be honest with me here.  Are you reading these newsletters to learn
how to get better with women, or in hopes of defending what ISN'T
working?  

Yes, I realize that's a preposterous thing to ask.  Your knee-jerk
reaction is most likely, "Well of course I want to get better with
women.  The other option sounds ridiculous."

But I've got to ask the question, nonetheless.  

You see, there's a straight-up weird pattern to certain e-mails
that land in my inbox.  

Sometimes they start out with some kind words, but soon turn into
a vehement denial that whatever I said in my last newsletter could
ever possibly work.

Then, they invariably lecture me on how I'm dead wrong about
certain ideas, and what I should believe instead.

On a few occasions they've implored me to send their contrary
opinions to YOU guys (as long as I change their name, of course).

Believe it or not, I've gotten entire re-takes on my answers to
letters from readers, and been asked to forward their "advice" on.

You know, like this:  "Tell Ben from Fort Lee, NJ that he should
just be himself and never give women compliments...ever."

And oh yeah...by the way, the guys who write me messages like
this are typically dateless.  So they close by asking, in general
terms, if I can help them.

Sure, you might be laughing right now.  But I promise up and down
that I seriously get e-mails like that.

One time a guy even offered to pay my way to his city and do an
entire Ten-Plus Live with him for four days...just so he could prove
I'm not really able to meet women and charm them in real life.

Sometimes it's all about a certain limiting belief.  

For example, maybe someone will write me and say,  "You're dead
wrong.  Guys with [insert personal issue here] can't get women."   

There have been instances where I've even been accused of
"leading people on" or "taking advantage of" guys who might
actually believe what I tell them.

The irony of all this, of course, is that usually I can relate
personally to whatever issue it is they speak of, and yet have
also personally seen very real success with women despite it.

As such, if I actually answer a message like that it usually goes
something like this.

"OK, man.  Never mind that I not only believe what I've told you,
I've also seen real, actual results in my life.  Let's assume I
were to dash it all and be persuaded to your way of thinking.  

What would I gain by doing that?

What benefit comes from all of the sudden believing I CAN'T
instead of I CAN?

Must I treat any past success as a figment of my imagination?

Must I forsake my marriage to the most amazing woman I've
ever known?"

Just writing those words is one of the silliest exercises I've
ever undertaken.  Can you even imagine following through on
any of that yourself?

One guy not too long ago went so far as to basically fire me from
my job.  He told me I wasn't fit to be a dating coach anymore.   

Then he pleasantly wished me well in "my next area of endeavor"
that I pursue instead.

Nice guy that he is, he even went so far as to offer a contact of
his at an oil field service company here in Texas who he was
sure would be willing to interview me for a job.

I promise I'm not making this up.

So what offense had I committed that led to my "termination"?

In no uncertain terms, since he was wholly unmotivated to do even
the slightest bit of what I talked about, it must not work.  Along
the way he was sure to project several of his own "limiting
beliefs" on to me, of course, all allegedly in support of his
opinion.

In actuality, he really had no idea whether any of what I teach
works or not.  He just needed it not to in order for him to feel
better about being passive.

Therefore, he was extra eager to exercise his self-imagined
power to knock me down a few notches.

And that basically encapsulates why I get e-mails like any of the
ones I've mentioned here.

Don't get me wrong.  Most of you guys are extremely intelligent,
and often you'll send me solid questions that challenge my point of
view.  I welcome those, and always will.  After all, a lot of this
stuff is by its very nature based on philosophical opinion.

But when the challenge comes from a position of failure--and the
only reason for dismissal of what I'm saying is that you don't WANT
it to work, and have therefore never even TRIED it--then please save
your breath.

Here's the bottom line:  If you're too proud of being set in
your ways to let go and finally try what might work for a
change, then it doesn't make sense to blame me when you
keep on getting the same unspectacular results as ever.   

When I offer new ideas that are proven to work but that you are
unwilling to even put to the test, then your lack of success is
every bit as guaranteed as the success those who implement them
will experience.

Dare I say that life without women in it is far more comfortable to
many, many guys than enduring the changes necessary to turn
things around?

Just yesterday I got an e-mail from a guy who was really perturbed
that I recommended not listing to his mother's dating advice in a
newsletter a while back.

His emotions had been simmering for weeks.

Basically, his take was, "I think you're unfairly stereotyping here.  My
mommy gives me great dating advice!  You mean old dating coach,
you should leave her alone."

And then the "punch line":  "By the way, um...can you help me meet
some women?"

I promise I'm not making this up either.  It's stranger than fiction.

Sometimes, though, as much as it pains me to say this, I think
some guys "tree hug" their lack of success out of pure,
unadulterated laziness.

Neither I nor anyone else in this life can simply wave a magic wand
and miraculously turn you into a "chick magnet" without any input
or effort from you whatsoever.

Yet another recent message I received read, "Hey Scot, I bought
The Man's Approach but I really haven't gotten around to listening
to it, even though I'm sure it would work to help my situation.  My
situation is that I'm afraid to approach women and can't talk to
them, and I'd do ANYTHING to change that.  What should I do?"  

What should he do?  Say it with me:  "Get around to listening to
The Man's Approach."