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IN THIS EDITION: Acting out on most
song lyrics wouldn't serve you well in
real life. Here's a key exception...
   
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24 HOURS FROM NOW...

FIND YOUR VOICE...AND USE IT

Masterclass For Men

TOMORROW NIGHT, 10/25/23 @8pm EDT (GMT -4)

 

Instinctively, we know that men with a
strong voice and a clear message in this
world are the ones women perk up and
TAKE NOTICE of.

But I know what you're probably thinking...

"That's for some other guy, not me. I
have to find a different path. After all,
there's NO WAY I'm ever going to be
able to step up, speak out and STAND
out like that."

Nonsense. All throughout my childhood,
and even into early adulthood, I was
the SHY guy.

Even around a relatively small group of
people I perceived had more social power
than me, I'd clam up...lest I say something
stupid.

Nowadays, I host a top-ranked podcast,
and am a play-by-play announcer for two
different sports here in Texas.

I speak on stage to large and small groups,
and am typically the first called on when
it's time to propose a toast, give an award
or be a part of a Q&A panel.

And yes, when a friend or loved one passes
on, I'm ready to give a fitting eulogy rather
than wishing later I had had the guts to.

Whether you want to be TONS more
comfortable talking to small groups...

...or you want to share your purpose and
your message to thousands...

...this much is for sure...

If I can do it, YOU can do it.

This ALSO is for certain...

WOMEN will take notice when you're
THAT guy, and everything feminine about
them will be ATTRACTED to you.

Add it all up, and tomorrow night's
Masterclass For Men could be the most
powerful one ever...

...and will certainly cover the ONE topic
nobody else out there ever talks about
enough.

Click below to see what all is going to be
covered. Be especially sure to go through
the bullet points:

FIND YOUR VOICE...AND USE IT

Masterclass For Men

TOMORROW NIGHT, 10/25/23 @8pm EDT (GMT -4)



If you have "stage fright" and want RID
of it, this is for you.

If you want to share your message to
others, make the world a better place
and leave a legacy, this is for you.

If you want to be ready in virtually ANY
situation to speak up AND stand out,
this is for you.

AND...if you want that unmistakable
and irresistible edge with women that
even a man with looks, height and
money can't come close to matching...

...This is ESPECIALLY for you:

FIND YOUR VOICE...AND USE IT

Masterclass For Men

TOMORROW NIGHT, 10/25/23 @8pm EDT (GMT -4)

Don't you dare sell yourself short. If
you've been looking for that "silver
bullet" advantage with women that
legitimately outpulls being "genetically
gifted", this is the one.

Can't make it tomorrow night? No worries.
As always, a fully-stocked Download
Portal will be there for you shortly
afterward.



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NOT YOUR TYPICAL SOURCE FOR
SOLID ADVICE ON WOMEN, BUT
OKAY...


I'll admit to holding some strong opinions
on how completely wussified song lyrics
are these days.

But I wanted to be sure to give equal
time to at least one example of a song
that has a fairly solid take on life.

Years after Smokey Robinson cried
"The Tears Of A Clown" (even as chicks
threw underwear at him on stage anyway),
a certain southern rock band in the early
'80's had this take on women instead:


  "Hold On Loosely" by .38 Special (1981)


  You see it all around you
  Good loving gone bad
  And usually it's too late when you
  Realize what you had

  And my mind goes back
  To a girl I met some years ago
  Who told me

  Just hold on loosely but don't let her go
  If you cling too tightly
  You're gonna lose control
  Your girl needs someone to believe in
  And a whole lot of space to breathe in

  It's so damn easy
  When your feelings are such
  To overprotect her
  To love her too much

  And my mind goes back
  To a girl I met some years ago
  Who told me

  Just hold on loosely but don't let her go
  If you cling too tightly
  You're gonna lose control
  Your baby needs someone to believe in
  And a whole lot of space to breathe in


There you have a good plan for showing
just enough interest in a woman without
giving your power away, huh?

And you've got to appreciate the apparent
irony of how the male songwriters
perpetrated like it was actually a woman
giving the advice.

It's as if that would somehow make the
song's message more credible, even
though we all know that in real life women
seldom articulate what they really want
from a man with such clarity.

It's all weirdly similar to what goes on in
Shakespearean plays like "Twelfth Night"
where a man plays a woman disguised as
a man.

But anyway, I wanted to be sure to give a
shout out to at least one rock and roll song
that got it right.

If you can think of other good examples,
by all means write me at:

scot@deservewhatyouwant.com

For what it's worth, "Cherry Pie" by
Warrant won't count.

And hey, there's one more minor detail
before I wrap this up.

Lest I be reminded of it by one of you, let
me be the first to acknowledge that .38
Special is unfortunately the same band
that's also responsible for this shocker:


  So caught up in you, little girl
  You're the one that's got me down on
  my knees

  (from So Caught Up In You by .38
  Special. 1982)


Man, that hurts. And that came out a
year after "Hold On Loosely", no less.
They should have known better.

All I can say is you wouldn't have caught
Molly Hatchet writing lyrics like that.