[X&Y] Why She Didn't Buy Him That Porsche
Published: Sun, 08/20/23
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WHY SHE DIDN'T BUY HIM THAT PORSCHE
As you know, I harp a lot about igniting femininity. More
specifically, I talk about how the best way to do that is by being
masculine in the way women define it.
And no doubt, by being a man of courage who has a plan, makes
effective decisions and knows how to keep his cool when the chips
are down (among other things), you really do represent what
women want.
Typically, I contrast this idea with "machismo".
Being "macho", at least generally speaking, is the concept of doing
what it is that we as guys do to impress each other.
You know what I mean.
Being a connoisseur of great beer and/or brewing your own in your
basement is a classic example.
Getting together with your mountain biking buds and playing in the
mud. Barbecue contests. Eighteen holes on a Saturday morning.
Well, today I want to set the record straight about something.
Even though I focus on the difference between masculinity as women
define it and machismo, there's nothing wrong with doing guy stuff
just for the sake of it...even if that's not exactly the kind of
activity that attracts women per se.
That's right. Not everything you do in life has to serve the
express purpose of impressing women.
I mean, even once you have a great woman (or several) in your life,
you're still going to need to hang out with your friends and do
what you enjoy in that context.
We like our time away from women every once in a while, especially
if it involves playoff tickets. Or fishing. Or skeet shooting.
So, of course, all of this begs the question of why women tend to
complain so much about guys acting all "macho".
I mean, if it's all good for us to engage in "macho" stuff after
all, why do women always seem to roll their eyes when they see us
doing so?
On the surface it really looks like women just don't want to admit
that we're not like them.
Well, not so fast.
The actual answer to what's going on here is a bit different...but
still very simple, nonetheless.
Show me a woman who openly shows disdain for guys acting like
guys around each other and I'll show you a woman whose femininity
hasn't been ignited.
The mistake we tend to make, you see, is misdirecting our "macho"
activities and mindsets toward women instead of toward each other
as guys.
That isn't exactly going to make them hot for us. After all, being
macho has zero to do with emphasizing sexual polarity.
Think about it from our perspective as guys.
It's those things a woman does that represent joy, beauty,
playfulness and her ability to provide comfort that turn us on.
It's not the fact that she reads tabloids. She's better off
talking to her girlfriends about what the A-list celebs have been
up to.
And if she wants to go shoe shopping, she's more than welcome
to leave us at home.
But what if all she did was hit us up to partake in all of that
with her? We'd get bored with her pretty fast.
And what if she wanted to show us all the shoes she just
bought?
No kidding, right? The "girlie" stuff isn't impressive to us
either...just like "macho" stuff isn't to her.
But there's another more important reason a woman might be
openly resentful of the "macho" stuff we do with our friends.
If we prioritize those things while giving minimal (if any)
attention to igniting her femininity, she feels trivialized or even
left out altogether.
It's as if our friends (or even ourselves) come before meeting her
needs as a woman.
She might even believe we aren't at all about keeping her best
interests in focus.
And THAT, my friend, means she might not feel so safe and secure
around you...which by now you know is a major "big four" blunder.
Several years ago a guy called me because his marriage was on the
rocks. Despite being an amazing provider and a man of considerable
ambition, his wife had grown more and more openly resentful over
the years.
He had let his ambition take over all else, taking him away from his
family quite a bit and allowing his business matters to monopolize
his thoughts.
As it turned out, he and his wife didn't even sleep in the same bed
anymore.
In the garage, all the while, was a certain Porsche 911 Turbo
convertible.
This man's wife despised that car with a passion every bit as hot
as its Guards Red paint job.
In her mind, that car was a cheap substitute for her.
When he stepped on the accelerator, she surmised that to be
tantamount to sexual excitement. I mean, the car was even shaped
like a woman.
So you can imagine the guy's surprise when I told him that had he
prioritized igniting his wife's femininity over all else, she would
have likely approved of the car.
In fact, she may have given it to him as a Christmas present...
wrapped up in one of those big bows like you see in the television
commercials.
You see, once a woman's femininity is ignited by your
representation of masculinity as she defines it, the eye rolling
regarding any of your "macho" pastimes on the side will flat-out
stop.
Sure, she may kid you about them. But she'll no longer resent
them. In fact, she may support what you do.
That's why you can join a softball league and certain guys'
girlfriends are always there cheering them on.
That's why some guys' wives buy them new sets of golf clubs for
Christmas.
In fact, when you first succeed at portraying masculinity in the
way a woman defines it, she tends to even like the fact that you
have some macho pastimes reserved for your friends.
You see, your time away with friends gives her the occasional break
from you to go shoe shopping or to see a chick flick with her friends.
And since she's not taking personal offense to feeling slighted or
left out, she starts seeing you as having that kind of exciting life that
we all know is attractive to women.
So in a way, doing "macho" things can make your more attractive to
a woman, albeit in an indirect manner. Isn't that something?
In effect, she's ready to celebrate the fact that you're a man in
every way, all because you prioritized what creates sexual polarity
when interacting with her.
And here's the crazy part.
If all is well in the universe, she'll have ignited your masculinity as
effectively as you'll have taken care of her.
As a direct result, you just might look forward to seeing how she
looks in the new pair of shoes she bought.
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WHY SHE DIDN'T BUY HIM THAT PORSCHE
As you know, I harp a lot about igniting femininity. More
specifically, I talk about how the best way to do that is by being
masculine in the way women define it.
And no doubt, by being a man of courage who has a plan, makes
effective decisions and knows how to keep his cool when the chips
are down (among other things), you really do represent what
women want.
Typically, I contrast this idea with "machismo".
Being "macho", at least generally speaking, is the concept of doing
what it is that we as guys do to impress each other.
You know what I mean.
Being a connoisseur of great beer and/or brewing your own in your
basement is a classic example.
Getting together with your mountain biking buds and playing in the
mud. Barbecue contests. Eighteen holes on a Saturday morning.
Well, today I want to set the record straight about something.
Even though I focus on the difference between masculinity as women
define it and machismo, there's nothing wrong with doing guy stuff
just for the sake of it...even if that's not exactly the kind of
activity that attracts women per se.
That's right. Not everything you do in life has to serve the
express purpose of impressing women.
I mean, even once you have a great woman (or several) in your life,
you're still going to need to hang out with your friends and do
what you enjoy in that context.
We like our time away from women every once in a while, especially
if it involves playoff tickets. Or fishing. Or skeet shooting.
So, of course, all of this begs the question of why women tend to
complain so much about guys acting all "macho".
I mean, if it's all good for us to engage in "macho" stuff after
all, why do women always seem to roll their eyes when they see us
doing so?
On the surface it really looks like women just don't want to admit
that we're not like them.
Well, not so fast.
The actual answer to what's going on here is a bit different...but
still very simple, nonetheless.
Show me a woman who openly shows disdain for guys acting like
guys around each other and I'll show you a woman whose femininity
hasn't been ignited.
The mistake we tend to make, you see, is misdirecting our "macho"
activities and mindsets toward women instead of toward each other
as guys.
That isn't exactly going to make them hot for us. After all, being
macho has zero to do with emphasizing sexual polarity.
Think about it from our perspective as guys.
It's those things a woman does that represent joy, beauty,
playfulness and her ability to provide comfort that turn us on.
It's not the fact that she reads tabloids. She's better off
talking to her girlfriends about what the A-list celebs have been
up to.
And if she wants to go shoe shopping, she's more than welcome
to leave us at home.
But what if all she did was hit us up to partake in all of that
with her? We'd get bored with her pretty fast.
And what if she wanted to show us all the shoes she just
bought?
No kidding, right? The "girlie" stuff isn't impressive to us
either...just like "macho" stuff isn't to her.
But there's another more important reason a woman might be
openly resentful of the "macho" stuff we do with our friends.
If we prioritize those things while giving minimal (if any)
attention to igniting her femininity, she feels trivialized or even
left out altogether.
It's as if our friends (or even ourselves) come before meeting her
needs as a woman.
She might even believe we aren't at all about keeping her best
interests in focus.
And THAT, my friend, means she might not feel so safe and secure
around you...which by now you know is a major "big four" blunder.
Several years ago a guy called me because his marriage was on the
rocks. Despite being an amazing provider and a man of considerable
ambition, his wife had grown more and more openly resentful over
the years.
He had let his ambition take over all else, taking him away from his
family quite a bit and allowing his business matters to monopolize
his thoughts.
As it turned out, he and his wife didn't even sleep in the same bed
anymore.
In the garage, all the while, was a certain Porsche 911 Turbo
convertible.
This man's wife despised that car with a passion every bit as hot
as its Guards Red paint job.
In her mind, that car was a cheap substitute for her.
When he stepped on the accelerator, she surmised that to be
tantamount to sexual excitement. I mean, the car was even shaped
like a woman.
So you can imagine the guy's surprise when I told him that had he
prioritized igniting his wife's femininity over all else, she would
have likely approved of the car.
In fact, she may have given it to him as a Christmas present...
wrapped up in one of those big bows like you see in the television
commercials.
You see, once a woman's femininity is ignited by your
representation of masculinity as she defines it, the eye rolling
regarding any of your "macho" pastimes on the side will flat-out
stop.
Sure, she may kid you about them. But she'll no longer resent
them. In fact, she may support what you do.
That's why you can join a softball league and certain guys'
girlfriends are always there cheering them on.
That's why some guys' wives buy them new sets of golf clubs for
Christmas.
In fact, when you first succeed at portraying masculinity in the
way a woman defines it, she tends to even like the fact that you
have some macho pastimes reserved for your friends.
You see, your time away with friends gives her the occasional break
from you to go shoe shopping or to see a chick flick with her friends.
And since she's not taking personal offense to feeling slighted or
left out, she starts seeing you as having that kind of exciting life that
we all know is attractive to women.
So in a way, doing "macho" things can make your more attractive to
a woman, albeit in an indirect manner. Isn't that something?
In effect, she's ready to celebrate the fact that you're a man in
every way, all because you prioritized what creates sexual polarity
when interacting with her.
And here's the crazy part.
If all is well in the universe, she'll have ignited your masculinity as
effectively as you'll have taken care of her.
As a direct result, you just might look forward to seeing how she
looks in the new pair of shoes she bought.
=====
(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2023. All Rights Reserved.
Forward this newsletter to a friend, and help
build this worldwide movement of over 100,000
men reclaiming their masculinity, standing as a
positive role model and deserving the high
quality women we want.
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