[X&Y] Pick On Somebody Your Own Size (e.g. Yourself)
Published: Thu, 08/24/23
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PICK ON SOMEBODY YOUR OWN SIZE
(E.G. YOURSELF)
Women LOVE men who own their
issues and take responsibility.
This means not blaming everyone
else for your problems, like some sort
of victim.
A while back I was left with no choice
other than to confront another father
whose daughter participates in the
same youth sport as mine.
He had been "trash talking" my then
7-year-old whenever I turned my back,
trying to intimidate her so his own kid
(who is two years older) would have a
better chance at winning.
Obviously, that shiznit cannot stand.
I was calm and straightforward. I told
him I needed to "visit" with him (Texas
style), and then suggested that he stop
doing what he had been doing.
Ridiculously, but somewhat predictably,
he pointed at my daughter and said,
"Well, she started it!"
At that point he lost all of my respect to
the point I didn't even attempt to continue
a man-to-man discussion with him. There
was no point in it.
This wasn't going to be a "teachable
moment" for him. Moreover, it was
unreasonable on my part to expect any
kind of apology, let alone any effort to
make things right.
So instead, I talked to him in the same
black-and-white terms I'd use with a
kindergartner.
Curtly, I told him to stay the hell away
from my daughter and never speak to her
again, and as a courtesy to him I'd
reciprocate the favor.
Kids can trash-talk each other's brains out.
That's part of competitive sport. But full-
grown parents should stay the hell out of it.
Anyone who doesn't instinctively get that
probably never will.
My little girl looked at me afterward like I
was a superhero.
Gentlemen...
Rest assured that offloading blame for your
actions onto a 7-year-old little girl is the
EXACT OPPOSITE of boldly taking
responsibility for yourself like a real man
must.
As pathetic as a grown man blaming a child
sounded to me, imagine what WOMEN must
think.
But sadly, this trend is becoming more the
norm than the exception.
Nowadays I hear lots of men blaming anything
and everything else they can for their troubles.
There are entire "echo chambers" of men out
there gathering to whine and complain about
how unfairly society treats them and how
terrible women are in particular.
They shouldn't be surprised that women don't
like them either.
What they'll never realize is that they've LED.
Women have only followed that lead.
The first step to living the life you really want
is OWNING it.
That's where the term "like a boss" comes from.
Taking responsibility and OWNING your actions
feels good. If you habitually do so, you know
that already.
If you're as yet unfamiliar with that feeling, you
should give it a try.
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