[X&Y] "Mr. Nice Guy" Is No Hero
Published: Sat, 08/26/23
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“MR. NICE GUY” IS NO HERO
No matter where you are in the world,
I’m sure you've seen plenty of footage of
tragic circumstances left in the wake of
hurricanes, floods, wildfires, earthquakes
and other natural catastrophes.
An awe-inspiring scene is oft-repeated.
Men stand up and do what men do. They
risk their own comfort, sustenance and
even personal safety to protect and save
others.
Sure, women are perfectly capable of doing
the same, but there’s no doubt that the
VAST majority of volunteer rescuers in crisis
situations are guys. Every media outlet’s lens
proves it, time and again
Now make no mistake, it's wonderful how
this inspires the anti-masculinity crowd to
take an apparent respite from going on
about how all men are “toxic”, if only for a
moment.
Generally speaking, the media praises these
guys, dubs them heroes and acknowledges
how the efforts absolutely saved lives that may
have otherwise been lost.
But if you’re reading this newsletter, you
already know we as men are generally not
black-hearted predators.
You didn’t require a reminder. None of what
you see on TV after a disaster surprises you,
and that’s fair enough.
But here’s what nobody talks about.
During one news report, I posed an offhand
question to Emily.
“Hey, you know, I wonder how many times
those guys weren’t necessarily ‘Mr. Nice Guy’
about rescuing who they needed to save?”
Emily responded immediately and bluntly.
“I hope it was NEVER!”
Her straight-faced answer and shocked
expression purposefully foiled the facetious
subtlety of my question.
To her, as a woman, this was serious business.
Indeed I also strongly suspect that very few,
if any, of those guys who went about the
masculine business of saving others were “Mr.
Nice Guy” types.
Now don’t get us wrong. We’re not saying they
should have been mean, surly or somehow
abusive about it.
We’re just betting they weren’t “nice” in the
process, that’s all.
Pleasant, perhaps. Well-intentioned, most
probably. But not “nice”.
Remember, ”Mr. Nice Guy” walks on eggshells,
is overly agreeable and lets people trample him
underfoot. It’s all because he lacks options.
Therefore, he fears loss and constantly seeks
the approval that eludes him.
Seeing this, women either consciously or
unconsciously find him utterly unattractive.
But now this shocking truth: Being “Mr. Nice
Guy” is a LUXURY.
Nobody has time for that when life and death
are at stake.
How many times did a man with a boat have
to practically order a self-absorbed soul he
was saving to “drop the damn mega-sized
suitcase, stop filling your arms with household
items and get in the effing boat!”
And how often did he have to implore a terrified
soul who was freaking out in panic to stop
hugging a tree and trust him to carry them to
safety?
I genuinely trust it was quite often, or else
fleeting time would have been lost, not to
mention precious space in the boat
squandered.
You get the idea.
Perhaps not coincidentally, I need both hands
to count how many times I've heard female
reporters wonder how many of these guys
were single.
One news outlet suggested they should create
a matchmaking service for hurricane volunteers
and all the women in Florida or southeast
Texas looking for a “real man”.
Darn skippy.
The reason why this whole scene captured
female imaginations everywhere is similar to
what’s behind women finding “men in uniform”
irresistible.
Policemen, firemen, military personnel and
others who voluntarily put themselves in harm’s
way represent the very essence of provision
and protection to women.
One day my son and daughter went on a field
trip to the local fire station with a number of
other kids. The guys couldn’t have been kinder
and more welcoming to the children.
All of the younguns got to sit in the driver’s seat
of a real, live fire engine and turn the siren on
and off.
The firemen were all good guys, but not “Mr.
Nice Guys”.
If those same children were in a burning
building, things would be very different.
It would be all about the purpose. If a
panicked child resisted a fireman’s rescue, he’d
sure as hell rescue the kid anyway.
It’s hard to be a hero when you’re “Mr. Nice
Guy”.
But heroes turn women on.
You don’t have to walk into a burning building
to be a hero to a woman. You may not ever
have the chance to save flood victims, either.
You may not even have a flat-bottomed boat.
But when you exude the aura of a man who is
Invincible, you’re ready and on-call to be a
strong, confident, dominant man of virtue when
the time comes.
Women sense that…because they CRAVE it.
And it’s enough.
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Nothing in this life compares with the feeling of
being the hero women absolutely go nuts over.
Once you've experienced the power of how
women respond to you, you'll NEVER look back.
That's a promise.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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